I don't know your girl or OP's girl. If what OP stated is truth, my gut tells me, OP got the better girl already. Hate me all you want for saying that.
He likes her look and her "swag" probably. He doesn't know yet that it's all managed.
Sex gets old and boring when the people having it, have repetitive boring sex. Boring sex is not about how often you've done it with someone. It's how both people choose to show up and interact together. It's a reflection of how the people having sex feel about sex and each other. If it's simply mechanical in order to cvm than for the most part, after a few times with a new lover, it will likely always be boring. To others, there is a whole other world of endless possibilities.
When mine was merely an orbiter and a friend, she came over with alcohol, got me drunk, climbed on top of me, and fvcked me.
And so did mine. She was dying to fvck me, so she made it happen. She worked hard to get me as her BF. She's very submissive.
The challenge of pulling a new girl to your house for some fun always will remain king. The teasing, the fun, the build up of sexual chemistry that lasts a few hours to a few weeks. There's nothing like it anywhere else.
Sex in LTR's was the topic of my previous reply to you. Quoting my reply as if you are responding to it, but changing the actual topic, to respond that "new pvssy is always more exciting", and suggesting I, especially as a woman, wouldn't know that was as ridiculous and absurd as your suggestion that sex in long term relationships isn't a big deal to most men. For most men (and some women) in LTR's, the frequency and quality of sex absolutely matters. In my previous post, I was simply pointing out that your inference was gravely mistaken and likely a projection of your own personal preference (choosing to avoid sex after a few weeks in a LTR).
Sex in LTR's matters, to many, both in frequency and quality.
As woman who enjoys sex and was in a monogamous relationship for 16 years, I was stunned to read that you found sex boring after only a few weeks with someone. I found it sad that after a few weeks of having sex with someone, in a LTR, that you already found the sex so predictable or boring that you avoided sex with them altogether. My previous post was simply intended to let you know so much more is possible for sex, in a LTR.
In this moment, I realize my mistake in posting on the topic to you at all. I recognize now that no matter how many ways I could share that sex never needs to be boring (not comparing to ever new pvssy here) in a LTR, you really could not care less, right now, about sex in LTR's. I realize my error now. With that awareness, I wish for you that whatever sex you do have, may it always be good (and never boring).
I had a few sweet LTR's that the sex got sweeter as time went on, years, we were still learning each other. It didn't get messed up till I started talking with single friends too much ( seeing their viewpoint ) and thinking the grass at their side of the tracks is "better".
You have a point. You can be with the "best looking girl in......".....
Not being a jerk.... But I feel sorry for u, to me it sounds like u suffer from some sort of psychological condition... With me sex gets better as time goes by.... I realy would hate to be like u as far as.sex goes!!!
