It's ****y funny if you had said "I make more money than you" to her in that instance if the shoe were on the other foot, but instead of seeing it for what it was, you took it as "disrespect."
She was clearly giving you a little harmless **** because she was interested. Rather than maintaining your cool with a good comeback, you let your insecurities take over to the point where you totally missed a chance to get laid by a chick who was clearly receptive.
The "you pay for my drinks" thing is good when it is used during an initial approach with a smoking hot chick. Don't be poor. When you go out, have money. You make all these G's, right? More than her. But you had the cheapest item available for $7. And you don't have your own place. Did you make the mistake of telling her about how rich and successful you were only to get called out by the check? Which reinforced that you didn't have your own place? To everyone in the room, you subconsciously made yourself look cheap, not like an "alpha" who is such a badass he doesn't buy drinks for no *****.
Whoever said proper planning is correct. You could have even planned ahead the "awkward" going Dutch exchange if you knew you didn't have the money. This one was on you, bud. Everything subconsciously pointed toward cheap ass. The $7 "beer special" while she had mixed drinks. The bill incident. The pouty attitude YOU displayed. The Cartman "screws you guys, I'm going to crash on my brothers couch!"
Maintain composure. Do not show emotion. Play it cool. Walk if you must, but don't create scenes or let a woman, or anyone else for that matter, provoke that kind of socially unacceptable response.
I've just been back in the country for a month and a half have 6 grand already saved up in my bank account and waiting to hit the 20 grand mark before I move out... Until then, i dont consider any of my money to be casual spending money unkess im having an absolute blast.
And she wasn't harmlessly **** testing based on her attitude the entire date...extremely negative and grumpy acting..and quite frankly she didn't look good enough to just play it off.
Her attitude stunk the entire date...lots of details I left out. Although to give her credit, I was 30 mins late while she was on time.
But i'm not spending more than 10 bucks on a date unless it's a hb 9 even if I'm a millionaire. Once again, it's the principle. I used to have 2 to three much better looking girls coming a day if i put much effort into online dating in asia for easy no strings casual sex.
Usually, I don't even go on public dates.
And she's already texted me this morning twice asking me to come over today to watch her favorite movie with her...so once again.....all the so called sosuave experts are.....wrong.
I talk to women the same as I talk to guys and it works. Straight up, no games, take what I want, how I want. Socially unacceptable scene?
Haha I could care less about being percieved as socially unacceptable.... I do cold call sales. You guys are taking this too seriously, she's only a hb 7 at best. Her mindset about the guy should pay is in fact her true belief system as she's a proud feminist.
Declined her offer today and am going out with my bro drinking today in Buckhead where I know I can smash a HB 8 at worst. I'll take a fun time with my bro and good chance of smashing better looking younger tail than banging a grumpy feminist any day.
