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So this is a tricky situation for me. I went to a tea cerommony, gamed two japanese girls, went on a insta-date with one, got the number. Now, the thing is, she's only staying here for a month, then she's going back to Japan. So what do I do? I don't think waiting three days or whatever is useful here. I need a little insight here. There were lots of IOIs and she suggested some ideas for meeting again.
 

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So this is a tricky situation for me. I went to a tea cerommony, gamed two japanese girls, went on a insta-date with one, got the number. Now, the thing is, she's only staying here for a month, then she's going back to Japan. So what do I do? I don't think waiting three days or whatever is useful here. I need a little insight here. There were lots of IOIs and she suggested some ideas for meeting again.
I've never understood the whole '3-day' thing. I've asked women out on the spot and gotten dates right then. Call her and ask her out.
 

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Sniff the blood in the air and go for the kill......

I wouldn't let the fact that she's only there for one month panic you. It's the same with
all women, you only need one night. You can only fvck in the now...

If not now, when? As the Zen saying goes....

I command you to fornicate girl number 1 asap and then formulate a plan to bed them
both. They're only there for a month......new country, new experiences....they'll go for it...

and you've nothing to lose.
 

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You buy her one of these outfits,



Then proceed to "love her long time," while you hit that thang like you're one of the evil robot demon monsters with the fifty foot from Legend of the Overfiend.
 

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Ask her out asap. Have some fun. She will be looking for fun and sex. Show her a good time.
 

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Ok, same advice from 4 DonJuans, so it's a deal. Will report back! Thank you everybody. I must recognize that I'm nervous about it, because I always had a fetish for japs, lmao. Oh well.
 

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Ok, same advice from 4 DonJuans, so it's a deal. Will report back! Thank you everybody. I must recognize that I'm nervous about it, because I always had a fetish for japs, lmao. Oh well.
Good luck! I want to bed an Asian!
 

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Funny, I just found my new hangout! It's a Japanese market, with a really nice food court. The place is fantastic, except for the high prices. Planning to have "chats" with the ladies there. Another plus about Asian ladies, is they stay younger looking for longer than other races. But, being part Hawaiian and Chinese, I may have a slightly biased opinion! LOL!!!
 

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Funny, I just found my new hangout! It's a Japanese market, with a really nice food court. The place is fantastic, except for the high prices. Planning to have "chats" with the ladies there. Another plus about Asian ladies, is they stay younger looking for longer than other races. But, being part Hawaiian and Chinese, I may have a slightly biased opinion! LOL!!!
Totally, the old lady that made the tea ceremmony looked like she was 50, and she was more like 70. I was amazed.
 
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Totally, the old ladie that made the tea ceremmony looked like she was 50, and she was more like 70. I was amazed.
Asian lady stay young long time! LOL!
 

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The only time you might wait to call is if you are not sure about her interest level. You ask for a girls number and she hesitates or really shows no real interest in giving her your number, then you wait. If she hands it over with a smile on her face telling you the best times to call her then just ask her out on the spot.
 

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I've never understood the whole '3-day' thing. I've asked women out on the spot and gotten dates right then. Call her and ask her out.
ya this. waiting isn't a good thing anymore. Society is too fast paced now, more so than when that rule was applicable. So I think it is time to junk that rule.
 

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Making a woman wait for you to call does two things. It tests her interest level, AND it weeds out chicks with bad attitudes. If she is showing signs of high interest, go ahead and ask her out on the spot. But that doesn't mean she has a good attitude. But if you can get her out on a date, then you can figure all this out.

Otherwise if she's not really showing high interest, then the only way you can determine if apparent low interest is just the way she is, or if it is driven by a bad attitude is to make her wait. If you wait a few days and girl won't make a date with you, it could be low interest or a bad attitude (who does he think he is making ME wait). She has no fvcking idea why you haven't called her after a few days, your grandmother could have died, could be anything, but if she is going to be so self centered enough that she's not willing to give you the benefit of the doubt... then why in the fvck would you waste any time with her.

OR it could be she one of these "The fastest c0ck gets my pvssy!", REALLY, if you think you need this then I fell sorry for you bro' You might get her on a date, and you might fvck her, and as long as this is all you care about then go ahead and walk around desperately with a hard on... you will find women.

This helps you find "quality women", no hoes.
 

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TL;DR: I need to grow some ****ing balls


Ok, so we both had a great time, really, ****in awesome and funny. Anyhow, she made references to meeting again, I kinoed a lot, she asked lots of questions, you know. So the thing is, she even started passing her tongue over her mouth, to moist her lips, she removed the haird from the shoulders, EVERY ****ING THING IN THE BOOK, and I didn't have the balls to go for the kiss. Holy ****, I feel like a emasculated nu-male right now. Anyhow, she sent me a message saying that she had a good time, etc. I think I have another opportunity, but I have to grow some ****ing balls, holy **** I feel so much shame right now.
 

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TL;DR: I need to grow some ****ing balls


Ok, so we both had a great time, really, ****in awesome and funny. Anyhow, she made references to meeting again, I kinoed a lot, she asked lots of questions, you know. So the thing is, she even started passing her tongue over her mouth, to moist her lips, she removed the haird from the shoulders, EVERY ****ING THING IN THE BOOK, and I didn't have the balls to go for the kiss. Holy ****, I feel like a emasculated nu-male right now. Anyhow, she sent me a message saying that she had a good time, etc. I think I have another opportunity, but I have to grow some ****ing balls, holy **** I feel so much shame right now.
Back up and try again. No shame brother.
 

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Back up and try again. No shame brother.
Thank you Tictac, I appreciate. I'm going to meet some friends right now to take these
thoughts out of my head, at least I'm happy for cold approaching and trying, I guess I need to get accostumed to all this again.
 

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