Hey fellas, pretty short one here mostly involving text game. So I met this girl, got her number, texted her for a couple days, than set up a date. Date went great, her interest level was very high, got a few drinks at two different bars, than at the end of the night when she started the "well I had a good night speech" I just cut her off and went for the kiss and got it. She literally texted me about 2 minutes later, and proceeded to contact me the next day. She told me she was having a holiday party the next day (sunday) and invited me. I already had previous plans for another holiday party with people we mutually know, I told her about it and just left it at "maybe we can link up at some point in the night."
Sunday rolls round so I text her teasing her and making her promise not to sing (inside joke from our first date) if we met up, she laughed and agreed. I told her that she should just stop by the party I was going to, since we both knew people there, she responded saying she couldn't leave her own party... understandable. So I had planned on meeting her and later in the night text her to see how hers was going. She told me it was just a small thing and was pretty much over. I asked her if I should still stop by and she said "if you want to but its basically over and now I'm just watching tv haha". Being that I was a little tipsy and didn't want to drive I said "this partys still going if you want to swing by here".
She never responded (It was around 12:30) and hasn't contacted me since. That was sunday night, its Tuesday night now, so 2 days. But she had initiated contact immediately after our date and the next day to invite me, so the interest was definitely there on her part after the first date. So I'm wondering if I either ticked her off or made her feel rejected by not going to her party, or if she feels I'm not interested and is waiting for me to contact her after she invite me out for a second "date", or maybe neither is true.
So long story short, should I contact this girl tonight and try to set up a second date? wait another day to contact her? or wait a few days and see if she initiates contact again since I never got a response when I invited her to the spot I was at? Like I said interest level was through the roof but I haven't heard from her since sunday when we where potentially going to meet. Thanks!
Sunday rolls round so I text her teasing her and making her promise not to sing (inside joke from our first date) if we met up, she laughed and agreed. I told her that she should just stop by the party I was going to, since we both knew people there, she responded saying she couldn't leave her own party... understandable. So I had planned on meeting her and later in the night text her to see how hers was going. She told me it was just a small thing and was pretty much over. I asked her if I should still stop by and she said "if you want to but its basically over and now I'm just watching tv haha". Being that I was a little tipsy and didn't want to drive I said "this partys still going if you want to swing by here".
She never responded (It was around 12:30) and hasn't contacted me since. That was sunday night, its Tuesday night now, so 2 days. But she had initiated contact immediately after our date and the next day to invite me, so the interest was definitely there on her part after the first date. So I'm wondering if I either ticked her off or made her feel rejected by not going to her party, or if she feels I'm not interested and is waiting for me to contact her after she invite me out for a second "date", or maybe neither is true.
So long story short, should I contact this girl tonight and try to set up a second date? wait another day to contact her? or wait a few days and see if she initiates contact again since I never got a response when I invited her to the spot I was at? Like I said interest level was through the roof but I haven't heard from her since sunday when we where potentially going to meet. Thanks!
