WF...
I reccomend carefully crafting a letter that you will send out to all the women online. I know you disagree and you feel compelled to set me straight but I have had great success with my standard letter. In fact I get a reply rate of over 50% and I'm pretty sure that compares very favorably to almost any guy on the web. and why not? All I'm doing is what any guy ought to do on a first date or the first time he meets a girl. that is to present myself at my very best.
The advantages are...
You can easily track your success. The one I send out now has gone through 5 or 6 revisions. If I were to add something to it or take something out of it tomorrow, I could fire it off to 10 or 15 girls and see within a few days if the changes I made helped, or hurt.
Right now changing it isn't much of a priority because if I send it off to the 10 or 12 new profiles on Matchmaker that come up every month I already get more replies than I can really handle.
This brings me to the other major advantage. its quick. I go to the word file I keep it in, click select all, copy, and I can paste it into the text box of 30 or 40 girls in an hour. Very efficient.
The last thing is that this letter represents me at my true best. I'm not worrying about whether I'm saying the 'right' thing or obsessing about the girl and whether this sounds right or that might sound better. I send off my letter knowing that she's seeing the Best of BigBill and if she doesn't like it or think it's personal enough... fine. there are plenty more where she came from.
The only disadvantage is that yes, some chicks will change profiles and you mail it to the same girl twice. You know what?
I don't even care.
As long as my letter keeps reaching new girls, I will continue to get more numbers and dates. If it reaches some girls it already reached once, well, she is either screwing me by then and wont worry too much about it, or she wasn't interested anyway so no harm done to me, just a waste of the 30 seconds it took to peruse her profile and paste in my form letter.
Truth told those guys didnt have a chance with you anyhow did they?
The 'jerk' mentality tells us that its better to get what you want from 1 woman and have 99 others think you are a jerk, moron, ******* , idiot, creep, pervert or whatever, than to have all 100 think you are sensitive, caring, polite, and they all just KNOW you'll meet the right girl... someday.
The strategy you use in dating on the net is going to be way different than what a guy has to use. Just because those guys ddin't succeed with you doesn't mean they are losers. In fact I wouldn't be surprised if they get a lot of action using their methods.
Here is my letter, how does it compare to theirs. You always have advice to give and I'm sure that whatever you say about it will be interesting if nothing else!
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Hi <Girl's name>,
Your profile looks interesting. Not sure what you are looking for from the service or why you joined. Looks to me like quite a few women on this service are here to meet that tall, handsome, flamenco-dancing, sports car driving, lawyer or doctor who loves camping, hiking, rock climbing, motorcycling, water-skiing, sky diving, bunji jumping, rare coin collecting, and building houses for homeless people.
I guess many of these women feel that such a man is probably tired of shallow relationships with the supermodels and actresses that bother him constantly and so he’s here looking to meet a girl on the internet.
But you aren’t that shallow right? No, not you. You’re not stuck in fantasyland and neither am I.
If that made you smile send me a message. I may not have a yacht or make 6 figures but I’m damned entertaining, pretty interesting, and quite the handsome devil too when I get all decked out.
If it didn’t make you smile: sorry, You can go back to fantasyland now!
Ciao
Bill
