Originally posted by h2o
It's almost like, if you have this sort of mindset and the girls you pick-up do also, you can have like interchangable fvck buddies. I guess it's just something I'll get comfortable with over time, but for now, it's somewhat like, "whoa..."
I definitely agree with the whole bit about not judging. Maybe that's why I've been able to develop this connection to the secret society to begin with, but in a way, because I don't usually show such objections on the outside...I keep these such thoughts to myself, and tell him/her, maybe next time or later. I'm just still not comfortable with this whole big, swinger club sort of thing. Although, if I don't get any for a really long time and need it, I'll know where to get it, so it's actually not that bad. Being around people like this has definitely made me a lot more comfortable with my sexuality (projection) too
eh...this is a bit off tangent but...
Funny thing is, I think it's all about confidence. My wing will check out a girl as she passes by, and say "dayum, girl..." and tell her how nice she looks, and still get her. It's funny how a lot of people wouldn't understand how that works until they actually get out there and realize it's almost all about confidence and being yourself pretty much.