LuisGarcia10
Senior Don Juan
I re-joined this site in November after getting dumped by a girl I'd been with for about 3 months. The truth is that prior to meeting her I'd been absolutely rubbish with girls, I stumbled across her by luck, introduced by a friend, flirted with her on facebook for a few months then eventually developed the courage to ask her out, after my friend telling her I liked her etc etc. The point I'm making is that the fact I attracted her was down to luck really, so after getting dumped I was back at square one, with little to no idea of how to go about getting another/more girls. I also had a bit of an issue with drugs which probably didn't do my confidence any good! I was by no means a real hard drug addict but most weekends ended with a few lines and stuff, not a good place to be!
Anyway, since getting dumped I've put a lot of stuff from this site into practice and it's really paid off. I still need to have a few drinks to get the courage up, but when I do I usually get a girl whenever I go out. One thing I've really noticed is just not to care that much, the last girl I was seeing came round to mine for a first date, but it hadn't been actually described as a date, it was just me making her some food, because I didn't see it as a "date," I just had some fun, acted in the way I would normally act and I ended up in bed with her that night, she admitted she wasn;'t sure whether or not I liked her and she was having to stop herself from grabbing me and kissing me- I genuinely had no idea, I was just having fun with a few beers, some nice food and enjoying her company! Unfortunately I still have a lot to learn, a week later I went out with her and her frineds, got stupidly drunk and made a fool of myself, she LJBF shortly after that, which is annoying because she was easily a HB8, some would say 9, and I messed it up by acting like an idiot! But obviously the positive is that she had loads of guys after her and she chose me, where as a year ago I'd have been another chump who had no idea how to do anything about wanting to f*ck her.
One thing I've noticed is that the more women you sleep with, the more you naturally develop into a more sexually minded person. I bring it up in conversatons all the time now and I guess women then see you in a sexual manner, rather than as a friend. I do it without having to even think about it now which is a good thing.
Still single now but not short of sex, I find it far easier to get girls now, and a lot of that is down to the stuff I've learnt on this site. So thanks guys! Still a long way to go but the oneitus chump that cried after getting dumped by a girl is no more!
Anyway, since getting dumped I've put a lot of stuff from this site into practice and it's really paid off. I still need to have a few drinks to get the courage up, but when I do I usually get a girl whenever I go out. One thing I've really noticed is just not to care that much, the last girl I was seeing came round to mine for a first date, but it hadn't been actually described as a date, it was just me making her some food, because I didn't see it as a "date," I just had some fun, acted in the way I would normally act and I ended up in bed with her that night, she admitted she wasn;'t sure whether or not I liked her and she was having to stop herself from grabbing me and kissing me- I genuinely had no idea, I was just having fun with a few beers, some nice food and enjoying her company! Unfortunately I still have a lot to learn, a week later I went out with her and her frineds, got stupidly drunk and made a fool of myself, she LJBF shortly after that, which is annoying because she was easily a HB8, some would say 9, and I messed it up by acting like an idiot! But obviously the positive is that she had loads of guys after her and she chose me, where as a year ago I'd have been another chump who had no idea how to do anything about wanting to f*ck her.
One thing I've noticed is that the more women you sleep with, the more you naturally develop into a more sexually minded person. I bring it up in conversatons all the time now and I guess women then see you in a sexual manner, rather than as a friend. I do it without having to even think about it now which is a good thing.
Still single now but not short of sex, I find it far easier to get girls now, and a lot of that is down to the stuff I've learnt on this site. So thanks guys! Still a long way to go but the oneitus chump that cried after getting dumped by a girl is no more!
