MESSAGE BOY, you've had a very interesting shift in attitude regarding women. You've gone from being
Sick of Girls!! to championing the feminine cause in just under a year. Maybe it's your
Issues with Other Guys that's brought this on? Or perhaps it's the
Issues you have had that affected your whole life that brought on this transformation?
Maybe a little soul searching is in order for you? I will however apologize for not paying enough attention to you when you were
BROKEN and cried for help. You'll just have to pardon my disbelief that you've suddenly gone White Knight after your relating the
Problems with the girls you're meeting. I know that's hard when you
Really want a relationship.
OK, now I'll get serious. Your "calling me out" isn't anything new to me. You're not the first and you wont be the last, but your interest in doing so has nothing to do with debating the merits of feminism or disagreements on gender dynamics. You're an AFC and coming to this forum has emphasized what you probably already suspected about yourself.
Unplugging chumps from the Matrix is dirty work, and part of that dirty work is dealing with the fallout from guys who'd rather plug themselves back into the Matrix where they were comfortable than do any real, critical, self-analysis and then take action. There's a real tendency for guys plugging back in to want to embrace anything counter to the truths that were revealed to them when they did unplug. So they go White Knight in the hopes that it will help them better identify with the women they couldn't get with before or after they unplugged. And they find the Matrix full of similar crabs in the barrel waiting with open arms to reaffirm for him, and themselves, that what they were doing prior will work for them if they just keep doing it.
So you see there's this rAFC backlash when a guy can't seem to adjust to the new ideas and rewards that he thinks the community had promised him. MESSAGE BOY is an excellent example of the inherent dangers of expecting the community to solve his problems. Life long frustrations and sexual angst need a release, but like anything else worthwhile in life, changing one's lifestyle, attitudes, outlook, body composition, etc. all take time and effort. For some it comes easier than others, but the real tough nuts are the guys who think the community is the magic bullet to all their sexual frustration. It's an oasis in a very large desert to them, but what they don't realize is that there is no quick fix.
This is where I believe you're at now MESSAGE BOY. If anyone on this site is bitter with women, it's you. All anyone needs to do to confirm that is search through the threads you've started since about this time last year. You think that this forum has corrupted your perspective of women because you still haven't seen the results you thought you would see, and in your effort to plug back into that previously comfortable ignorance you have to reject it. So you'll adopt the role of being the great defender of feminine virtue and decry the continued oppression of the evil patriarchy, not only to placate yourself, but also in the hopes that some anonymous girl will really appreciate your "uniqueness" setting you apart from "other guys".
The truth will set you free, but it wont make it pretty for you. The problem with unplugging is that, try as you may, you still know the truth; in the back of your head you understand the validity of the arguments, you'll see the very predictable behaviors from women that are described by the tens of thousands of men on this forum, and you'll make the connections as to what is motivating them thanks to what you've learned on this site. You can't go back. You can go into denial, but you'll recognize the observation made here, you associate your circumstances with the ideas you learned here. You can't reject them, if you could you'd be indifferent and wouldn't give this forum a passing thought.
You're not interested in debating gender power dynamics. In fact no one on this site to my knowledge has ever promoted the idea that Men aren't in (nominal) positions of social dominance. Even the people producing the ads in this thread were men. No, the reason you've put a target on me or others on these forums is that you need an object on which to blame your own failings and lack of results.
