Money & Muscle
Master Don Juan
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For those of you who've been following along with my decade-early midlife crises, you already know.
For those of you who haven't been following - I've wanted to get my wife (reportedly bisexual) into a FMF threesome for some time. She's entertained the idea, even joined in on fantasies I've led her through via dirty talk, but never given a firm yes or no.
This last weekend I finally got her to open up a bit about her sexual fantasies. I've been trying to do this for years. She only shared one, and it's not really anything noteworthy tbh. I was expecting something more twisted, but there's probably more to unpack here. Apparently she's never shared her fantasies with anyone...
Anyways, she flips script and starts talking about my well-known FMF threesome fantasy. Says she's not into it and never will be, then gives me a hall pass to do this on my own.
I was pretty shocked tbh but I talked to her about it, and discussed what exactly that would entail... being that ONS threesomes are highly uncommon, whereas they are far more common if there's already an existing couple (whose open to it) that finds a third.
In short, that I'd have to find a girlfriend (maybe more than one), then make it happen from there. Meaning I'd have a wife, at least one girlfriend, and a side piece. All of whom I would presumably still be having sex with. I told her this, and she just said "it is what it is".
So I'm not making any moves right now and there's obviously a larger discussion to be had (between the wife and I) before I begin making moves, but I'm still a little surprised/confused/sad. I'd much rather have a threesome with my wife included, tbh. It's a life experience I'd love to have with her, but I also don't want to miss out on a possibly once in a lifetime opportunity. I know that's a scarcity mindset, but I have my own morals here too.
Thoughts? Experiences? Show me the way, fellow Don Juans/Juanitas
For those of you who haven't been following - I've wanted to get my wife (reportedly bisexual) into a FMF threesome for some time. She's entertained the idea, even joined in on fantasies I've led her through via dirty talk, but never given a firm yes or no.
This last weekend I finally got her to open up a bit about her sexual fantasies. I've been trying to do this for years. She only shared one, and it's not really anything noteworthy tbh. I was expecting something more twisted, but there's probably more to unpack here. Apparently she's never shared her fantasies with anyone...
Anyways, she flips script and starts talking about my well-known FMF threesome fantasy. Says she's not into it and never will be, then gives me a hall pass to do this on my own.
I was pretty shocked tbh but I talked to her about it, and discussed what exactly that would entail... being that ONS threesomes are highly uncommon, whereas they are far more common if there's already an existing couple (whose open to it) that finds a third.
In short, that I'd have to find a girlfriend (maybe more than one), then make it happen from there. Meaning I'd have a wife, at least one girlfriend, and a side piece. All of whom I would presumably still be having sex with. I told her this, and she just said "it is what it is".
So I'm not making any moves right now and there's obviously a larger discussion to be had (between the wife and I) before I begin making moves, but I'm still a little surprised/confused/sad. I'd much rather have a threesome with my wife included, tbh. It's a life experience I'd love to have with her, but I also don't want to miss out on a possibly once in a lifetime opportunity. I know that's a scarcity mindset, but I have my own morals here too.
Thoughts? Experiences? Show me the way, fellow Don Juans/Juanitas