hey guys,
i needed to talk about ot with someone who will understand and be honest and not gonna tell me crap that i wanna hear.
so heres the deal. i really dont like his behavior toward me or other employee.
i dont know if its a normal thing, because i didnt really work until 6 month ago. until then i was in the army. i had some summer job but it was cool, no headech.
as i started he was nice and really cool we even talk about our life, exs, plans etc. we were cool and being friendly
he is the type of boss that work with you and not standing there and watching you he even doing everything we are doing
yesterday, after a chick (whos working here) asked me to open the door, and i wanted to mess a bit with her. he started screaming that if someone asking something i need to do it. before i went to delivery he told me you are going o X street, then in my way he called me to tell me he was wrong im going to Y street, but then when i came back to the pizzeria he told me that i'm not responsible. i almost told him that he can blow me and then he came to me and said 'know what take a break youre a bit tense take a glasse of water and we ll talk.
so we did.
see the main problem that i have in his opinion is that im too curious, yep someyimes im asking question but its to make converaation, or to know what to do next so i dont need to sit and realax and then he can tell me i'm not doing anything and how much i'm lazy etc.
im not here to be a b!tch or a robot, doing whatever he told me without inderstanding
so yes im asking qusstion im giving interest on what he s doing why ti do that and he told me yesterday that he cant afford it this week because its gonna be really busy in the pizzeria and he need to handle some administratore stuff, he is stressed and a lit of thing going on his head, he also told me that he have no social skills (yeah, i can see it !).
long short story, he have a lot to do and think and im just bothering him with my questions.
he also want us to be independent and doing what need to be done without asking but he's always checking and getting into our stuff.
he is always right, even when you want to explain something he told me that even if hes wrong just to not arguing and waste time i need to tell him 'ok youre right'.
today when he came i asked him what time he went to sleep because he looked tired, the answer was : 'dont ask me personnal question we are not friend'
at this moment i wanted to take my stuff and leave but i kinda didnt want to let anybody break me. i wanted to feel strong.
anyway i asked him questions about something i didnt knew (im worling there only a week)
and he just became mad and started to yelle at me that im always asking question that im too curious, and askes me wich language he needed to talk to me so i can understand it. and i really wanted to tell him what i think about him.
once again thought ill remaine strong and not losing control.
he told me to get ready for a delivery but it was more a question than affirmation and i told him i'm getting ready, then he told me 'i dont even want an answer'.
i can go on and on with that stories.
so today i was quite didnt talked much with him or anyone else, and i gotta say that im really bringing a good mood to work everyone laughing when im arround everyones having fun but today it was a dead day!
hes screaming on every employee and in front of other people (employee and clients)
when i went i said bye to everyone in a cold manner. usually im holding hand with everyone sometime even hug (when its a chick) but today i was like an ice.
i really dont know if i should tell him what i reallg think because yesterday he was talking i was only listening and commenting. should i walk away without telling anything ? or should i surprise him tomorrow with not coming to work ?
should i be friendly with anyone else excepted him and when he will laugh with me ill tell him that between us its strictly professional 'we re not friend' ?
i really dont want to let anybody affect me but now im begining to loose control and i can be really bad whrn i want to i can make people getting into a grave just by talking but im not that guy anymore
i needed to talk about ot with someone who will understand and be honest and not gonna tell me crap that i wanna hear.
so heres the deal. i really dont like his behavior toward me or other employee.
i dont know if its a normal thing, because i didnt really work until 6 month ago. until then i was in the army. i had some summer job but it was cool, no headech.
as i started he was nice and really cool we even talk about our life, exs, plans etc. we were cool and being friendly
he is the type of boss that work with you and not standing there and watching you he even doing everything we are doing
yesterday, after a chick (whos working here) asked me to open the door, and i wanted to mess a bit with her. he started screaming that if someone asking something i need to do it. before i went to delivery he told me you are going o X street, then in my way he called me to tell me he was wrong im going to Y street, but then when i came back to the pizzeria he told me that i'm not responsible. i almost told him that he can blow me and then he came to me and said 'know what take a break youre a bit tense take a glasse of water and we ll talk.
so we did.
see the main problem that i have in his opinion is that im too curious, yep someyimes im asking question but its to make converaation, or to know what to do next so i dont need to sit and realax and then he can tell me i'm not doing anything and how much i'm lazy etc.
im not here to be a b!tch or a robot, doing whatever he told me without inderstanding
so yes im asking qusstion im giving interest on what he s doing why ti do that and he told me yesterday that he cant afford it this week because its gonna be really busy in the pizzeria and he need to handle some administratore stuff, he is stressed and a lit of thing going on his head, he also told me that he have no social skills (yeah, i can see it !).
long short story, he have a lot to do and think and im just bothering him with my questions.
he also want us to be independent and doing what need to be done without asking but he's always checking and getting into our stuff.
he is always right, even when you want to explain something he told me that even if hes wrong just to not arguing and waste time i need to tell him 'ok youre right'.
today when he came i asked him what time he went to sleep because he looked tired, the answer was : 'dont ask me personnal question we are not friend'
at this moment i wanted to take my stuff and leave but i kinda didnt want to let anybody break me. i wanted to feel strong.
anyway i asked him questions about something i didnt knew (im worling there only a week)
and he just became mad and started to yelle at me that im always asking question that im too curious, and askes me wich language he needed to talk to me so i can understand it. and i really wanted to tell him what i think about him.
once again thought ill remaine strong and not losing control.
he told me to get ready for a delivery but it was more a question than affirmation and i told him i'm getting ready, then he told me 'i dont even want an answer'.
i can go on and on with that stories.
so today i was quite didnt talked much with him or anyone else, and i gotta say that im really bringing a good mood to work everyone laughing when im arround everyones having fun but today it was a dead day!
hes screaming on every employee and in front of other people (employee and clients)
when i went i said bye to everyone in a cold manner. usually im holding hand with everyone sometime even hug (when its a chick) but today i was like an ice.
i really dont know if i should tell him what i reallg think because yesterday he was talking i was only listening and commenting. should i walk away without telling anything ? or should i surprise him tomorrow with not coming to work ?
should i be friendly with anyone else excepted him and when he will laugh with me ill tell him that between us its strictly professional 'we re not friend' ?
i really dont want to let anybody affect me but now im begining to loose control and i can be really bad whrn i want to i can make people getting into a grave just by talking but im not that guy anymore
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