I'm tired of being labeled the "nice guy" and trying to please women. A little info on me: I'm a 17 year old virgin and a junior in high school and above average looking guy according to girls who I hang around. I'm told I am attractive by girls, teachers, women, etc. My fault is I'm too laid back and don't say much a lot unless I'm around my friends or just feeling very confident at the time. I was fat my freshman year 190 lbs. Fortunately through exercise and determination, I lost over 30lbs and gained 10lbs of muscle. So I know if I can change my physical appearance then I can change my AFC ways for sure.
My freshman year I was in a relationship and OH MY GOD, I was such an AFC. I was sending 5+ page poem texts to my girlfriend and saying "I love you" in the first month. I was whipped but amazingly she loved my AFC ways, she adored the sweet affectionate guy I was and it took her months to get over me when I broke up with her.
Now I know not to repeat that ever again. I'm ready to approach girls who I think are really attractive and just start talking to them to build my confidence even more and even if I'm rejected I won't have to think "what if?".
Well I'm tired of blabbering, I would appreciate any links or any advice to help me on my quest to be a Don Juan instead of the Average Frustrated Chump.
My freshman year I was in a relationship and OH MY GOD, I was such an AFC. I was sending 5+ page poem texts to my girlfriend and saying "I love you" in the first month. I was whipped but amazingly she loved my AFC ways, she adored the sweet affectionate guy I was and it took her months to get over me when I broke up with her.
Now I know not to repeat that ever again. I'm ready to approach girls who I think are really attractive and just start talking to them to build my confidence even more and even if I'm rejected I won't have to think "what if?".
Well I'm tired of blabbering, I would appreciate any links or any advice to help me on my quest to be a Don Juan instead of the Average Frustrated Chump.