Fruitbat
Master Don Juan
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First you got to define a hot girl and a hot guy.
plenty of disagreement over hot girl. I see some of the thicc women some guys like and no thanks from me. Guaranteed lots of the women you call hot are average to me and vice versa.
In the same way some guys like big busty women, some women like big muscly men. Some guys (me) like thinner women, some women like thinner men. Some women I see look ok but I hate the way they dress and present themselves to the world. Same for women, they like some dudes but he’s wearing a baseball cap! Or he’s NOT wearing a baseball cap.
now I do see what you mean as some women and men we all can agree are more attractive than their partners.
My wife is decidedly hotter and younger than me and it does show. Let’s be honest now why we are together: I earn well, I said upfront I was committed to marriage and kids, I’m good socially and can be relied upon to do family duty. I’m fairly easygoing and good to get along with. Also, and it’s a big one, she knows with me I’m unlikely to stray as I have a woman on one level out of my league. Same for her, yes she could get a fitter younger man but I could also go find a woman who earned as much as me, my age, so less support needed. I could live happily with a similar woman and be super rich. I don’t want that, I don’t value that as much as a beautiful younger wife who’s gonna always be hot to me, and won’t be off having her career all the time.
Women do not think with their private parts like we do, and the sensible ones will think when they meet chad - this guy is gonna be trouble. They want a solid guy who has some talents and abilities and grounded sensibleness and raw attraction isn’t that high a need for most women.
Hence a lot of them think ok, I’m hot, he’s not, so he will work very hard for me.
If only some guys worked this out and approached these women they would find they aren’t all after chad. Damaged ones are and very young ones often are. Most are with them as they will give them a relationship. And treat them well.
Even though I’m not a chad I had plenty of lays before I met my wife on OLD just be being authentic . They were not model looking women, they were average attractiveness women who weren’t fat and scrubbed up well on a date - which is all I expect or need.
females attraction to males is based on way more than looks and some of it is whether you have frame and a large part of it is them liking you, how you make them feel.
Mainly though good job and some wealth is to them what looks are to us. In the same way we will drop an average girl with a good personally and job for a really hot woman who’s a bit boring and works fast food, they will often drop a cool guy if a doctor, or a guy who earns well comes along. It’s in both our DNA
plenty of disagreement over hot girl. I see some of the thicc women some guys like and no thanks from me. Guaranteed lots of the women you call hot are average to me and vice versa.
In the same way some guys like big busty women, some women like big muscly men. Some guys (me) like thinner women, some women like thinner men. Some women I see look ok but I hate the way they dress and present themselves to the world. Same for women, they like some dudes but he’s wearing a baseball cap! Or he’s NOT wearing a baseball cap.
now I do see what you mean as some women and men we all can agree are more attractive than their partners.
My wife is decidedly hotter and younger than me and it does show. Let’s be honest now why we are together: I earn well, I said upfront I was committed to marriage and kids, I’m good socially and can be relied upon to do family duty. I’m fairly easygoing and good to get along with. Also, and it’s a big one, she knows with me I’m unlikely to stray as I have a woman on one level out of my league. Same for her, yes she could get a fitter younger man but I could also go find a woman who earned as much as me, my age, so less support needed. I could live happily with a similar woman and be super rich. I don’t want that, I don’t value that as much as a beautiful younger wife who’s gonna always be hot to me, and won’t be off having her career all the time.
Women do not think with their private parts like we do, and the sensible ones will think when they meet chad - this guy is gonna be trouble. They want a solid guy who has some talents and abilities and grounded sensibleness and raw attraction isn’t that high a need for most women.
Hence a lot of them think ok, I’m hot, he’s not, so he will work very hard for me.
If only some guys worked this out and approached these women they would find they aren’t all after chad. Damaged ones are and very young ones often are. Most are with them as they will give them a relationship. And treat them well.
Even though I’m not a chad I had plenty of lays before I met my wife on OLD just be being authentic . They were not model looking women, they were average attractiveness women who weren’t fat and scrubbed up well on a date - which is all I expect or need.
females attraction to males is based on way more than looks and some of it is whether you have frame and a large part of it is them liking you, how you make them feel.
Mainly though good job and some wealth is to them what looks are to us. In the same way we will drop an average girl with a good personally and job for a really hot woman who’s a bit boring and works fast food, they will often drop a cool guy if a doctor, or a guy who earns well comes along. It’s in both our DNA