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Today I ****ed up in my oral debate. Bad. Really ****ing bad... It was bad to the point that the class panel of 'class judges' (Student Moot Court council) laughed in disbelief, and one of them clasped his hands over his head 'like wtf was that'. My professor gave me her feedback as "Excellent...

I've been rid of porn or masturbating for about 1-2 months again now. I wouldn't tell anyone in real life about this but it feels good to be able to have self control.

I really appreciate the feedback, from what everyone here is saying a lot of it sounds mental and insta could possibly help. I'm going to do a bit of self reflection.

Issue: Is instagram necessary to socialize nowadays with younger peers? Today at the gym I met another dude with a sweat shirt of the same school that I go to. I was interested in making friends outside of school so we talked. Interaction started really well, almost homie high fiving, he asked...

I've switched to a 24 hr gym because my college gym closes too early. The girls at this gym seem different, they're prob same age or little bit older (I can't tell), they don't hang in cliques, gym seems more serious to them than social, some come w/ their bf, some are alone, some wear really...

I guess at 76/49 is good, and at 50+/30+ is good. But these ages sounds horrible to me. Are you guys attracted to 50 year old or 33+ old women? There are exceptional women to this age, but this sounds depressing as ****

Really now... girls at the gym are hot but a lot of them are 1) Attraction seeking 2) Joining her bf 3) W/ their peer group (Only college gyms)

@Desdinova Damn... I hope this forum gives you the positive energy you deserve As millennials, we are labeled as the laziest generation of our time, so I understand if your son doesn't want to work. A person can't ever truly change unless they want to. Seems like you care for your son in your...

Do it. I'm doing the same -> 1L law school. I don't think you need to completely shut yourself off. In a working environment it's a golden opportunity to network and practice socializing. You can always practice socializing and always practice talking to girls. BUT I do get where you're coming...

School mostly. Gym second, and a lot less, most guys at gyms don't waste time chatting. The friends I make at the gym has to be instant vibe, and it's usually kind of shallow. School, it's always school. My job didn't allow me to befriend anyone. I still think the best way to make friends is...

I think it's getting a little confusing here now, you guys discerning "Peak" as in: Attracting More women (middle age) or attracting Prime women (early 20s)?

I'd say go for whatever you find more enjoyable. I remember my gym had a punching bag which I used to practice with. I had no idea at the time (I was around 28-29) but a girl much older than me who returned back to the gym asked if I still boxed. I found this surprising because I never really...

I thought about this last night. I think you're probably right that a 25 year old self has a better chance than a 35 year old self. But isn't this all subjective? Theoretically, a 25 year old with the aesthetics of their 20s but the mindset and skills of a 35 year old self will probably do...

How would you compare yourself in your 20s vs your 30s?

*Edit: Reread your post, you're saying these type of women are paving the standard for a successful 35 yo man right? I'd highly suggest my brothers not to go for these lawyer/doctor/corporate women. These type of women to me are niche and really unattractive. Lawyers/doctors/corporate workers...

When you say substantial, are you talking about more than 6 figures? At that point, isn't it just attracting mostly gold diggers?

I'm very curious about this too. I will share you with my experiences so far in grad school. I'm right behind your age Stephen. From what I can tell, at 30s and mid 30s, girls aged 25~ can be attracted to you. I haven't really done anything other than being social, friendly, and hard working at...

You say 30s, but how old are you Smooth? Early 30s 30-33, mid, or late 30s?

So status/finance does help? Can other people give their view on this? By the way, SW15, I've seen you on other posts, and I'm glad you posted on mine. You have the signature phrase/motto "Most men 30+ are vagina beggars." I love it.

Ty everyone whose commented so far. Everyone has been blunt, shared their anecdotal experience, perspectives, and have given helpful tips to my circumstance. What I've noted is to keep fit, find opportunities at school, and dress sharp but age appropriate. It is possible. Attraction to...