Zarky is right...

[Solomon]

Not to take advice from bitter men. Having been back here for a couple months and reading the threads(as well as blogs) a couple things have beocme obvious.

Guys are chasing after low quality trash (Pof chicks/Strippers) or still chasing after women with low IL. While I enjoy a thread on pof and online dating every now and then. The amount of threads on Online dating confirms what I belive all along that a lot of guys ain't hitting the field, Sosuave has gone full rheotrical mode. And whats up with all this feminism bythcing? I see tons of mental masturbation, and finger pointing, but I don't see anyone on here stating solutions besides bashing women for being entitled, becoming rude and fat. However a few are starting to notice as well so that's a good sign

With Marriage becoming obsolete and society encourgaing women to become more slutty. The sexual market place won't change anytime soon. If you wanna see the end of feminism, just take a look at what feminsim did to the black man and black woman. The reality is, a lot of you guys are good at putting on the "Alpha" front but are you seeing the results you want(not just with women but in life)? be hoenst with yourself! when I first came ont his site, I learned fast and took of like a rocket. I was in the top 30% for desirable men in my area, how do I know? I was making decent money and getting tons of tail, and now and then had women chasing me. However I got sloppy, lost my job put on a bunch of weight. I became one of the guys who would whine and moan about feminism ,one of the guys Zarky was talking about. I blamned it on the theory that women were now only going for the top 20%(and since I was 30% well you get the idea). While what I was saying wasn't false I was making excuses.Then BackBreaker checked my ass last year, and I really had to critical think and be honest with myself. The truth is I was dealing with some low quality women and also I became a fat slob.

One of the reasons I leave this site for 6 months at a time is because one of the greatest tools I learned in the game is to think for myself when I look a situation I "critical" think about it. A lot of stuff that's said on seduction forum/manosphere sometimes is a bunch of bullocks(I'll get to more of that in a minute). That if you spend all your time reading this, you truly become jaded and start to belive everything being spewed here. Back to critical thinking, If I need input then I may come here. Just because I have all those green dots below my name doesn't mean shyt. I'm just suspticle as a Big Neil to fall for the Okie doke. When puzzy and feelings are involved even the most rational Jedi may not think straight.

The best advice I've recently ever got in the game was a simple tip by Guru1000 he told me to

1. Focus on becoming fit and
2. become a man of finacial freedom​

The becoming fit one is self-explantory. His reasoning for becoming finacially free was that when your making six-figures, you become a man of means you attract a higher caliber of women and utlizing your finaical power with game is the ultimate aphrodisiac.


Fast Forward several months later, I'm hanging around with some socialite types doctors,business folk, some affluent people. I'm not rich matter fact I'm more broker then ever, and at that stage I'm still not fit. However the type of person I am, I have no problem making friends, I'm not suppose to be hanging with these people but I am. And Guru was right the quality women is like night and day. These women are educated and beatiful and most improtantly their not stuck up or entitled. I went on a date with a girl named Heather, who was in her late 30's but had a better body then most 19 year olds. She made good money but what struck me the most was her mindset. She was femine and traditional,nuturitng etc. It was soooooooooo refreshing. She was wifey matieral all around. Needless to say it didn't work I was going through some stuff. However I realized that for me to have access to these women I have to be the real deal and stop bullshytting

Right now I'm working on a bussiness venture trying to get things into place, I know it may be years before I start seeing some real money but my business partner is motivated and I'm ready. I'm starting to take my diet more seriously. I'm not doing this for women but for me. I wanna live a life where if I wanted too I can go on a plane right now and fly to New York and have a glass of wine at 1oak. To some this may be superifical but this is the life that I want. It's about being happy and if it means I have to bust my ass so I can fly all over the country and world then why not?


You have to be critical address your weakness and find a solution that's al lI'm saying

 

[disgustipated]

Good post. Totally agree with the 2 points guru made, as I'm working towards both. While mine and your, and whoever, life paths or ambitions may not be the same...the template on how to get there is roughly paid out. Wish I woulda had this knowledge at 18, owning my own house before 30 would have been easily attainable. 30s I woulda stacked cash and poon.

 

[origin138]

Good post. Totally agree with the 2 points guru made, as I'm working towards both. While mine and your, and whoever, life paths or ambitions may not be the same...the template on how to get there is roughly paid out. Wish I woulda had this knowledge at 18, owning my own house before 30 would have been easily attainable. 30s I woulda stacked cash and poon.

Awesome post for sure. I was just lamenting about this with a coworker today. Life seems to be learned in reverse. If men had the level of knowledge and experience they attain in their late 20's and early 30's when they were in their teens, we'd all be unstoppable in terms of success in many areas.

 

[ebracer05]

do get a vasectomy (someone posted on here that they got one at 25.....a VERY GOOD IDEA).

Can these be reversed? I mean, it sounds like a great idea but I do want to have at least one child someday. I'm a firm believer in passing on my genetic material and don't want to sacrifice that because I chose not to wear a condom.

In my medical experience, I've heard they are not always reversible, maybe 1/3 are not. But this is just stuff I've heard, not stuff I've researched. Does anyone actually know?

 

[GoalsActionsResults]

Zarky has a writing tone that is explaining.

On the other spectrum, when a guy is bitter/has built up mental anger and he then starts constantly complaing (such as, in person or on a game blog) it sounds like he is whining and that gets unbearably annoying and sounds weak. Some of those guys (who even say they were/are beta) actually think this whining makes them a tough jerk that they think will then get them women, but in reality constant angry complaining just makes people sound stupid/weak, so he (the game bloggers who are bitter) is pretending to be a "stupid jerk" that guys secretly think is an idiot and eventually if it continues long enough turns women off (because anger leads to spite and resentment and bitter angry complaining sounds weak). Would I want to be like a bitter guy? No. A "natural alpha jerk (just for using popular terms)," like say Arnold S, can actually do stupid things but usually in a fun/playful way and because usually he (this type of guy) does it genuinely without really knowing (he's not pretending) what he is doing and this appears funny and strong, thus other guys want to be like him and he attracts/turns women on, and from his strength he is unreactive (but still has charm and smiles/amuses himself/kinos/laughs/goofs around/then goes kick a*s in the gym and in movies) plus he's not bitterly whining/complaining like a little girlie-man, he just knows what he wants to do (doesn't say much at all) and goes out and gets it.
I also don't care if women have a job/car/vote (I don't care so much I don't complain about it). I will never buy a woman anything expensive. If I buy a woman something it is in some way going to be part of s*x (drinks, panties, etc). For many of us Online Dating is probably around 5% to 10% at most of our approaches, with 90% or more of our approaches being in public (or in FL in Publix). Exercise is beneficial to you and an hour of exercise can be scheduled in most days. If guys would exercise one quarter of the amount of time they are on the computer they would be in great shape. In fact, I ran 1 mile outside today before going on the internet.

Good luck on your new business.

 

[iqqi]

Good post.

That's what I'm saying.

 

[Wilko]

Ah, the ideal of the gym-loving entrepreneur with 10% body fat and a successful start-up rears its head again. No salsa dancing this time though?

Total strawman of course, I'm not being serious.

Point being, the community does tend to have a rather narrow vision of what it believes DJ's ought to be aspiring to. And while that vision is a noble one, I have my doubts as to how useful and relevant it will prove to be for most of us.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Alphhhhhhhaaaaaa!!! hahaha


Money post bro!


If you want help with your diet hit me up; that's my side business.





PIMP

 

[CostaDeSol]

The best advice I've recently ever got in the game was a simple tip by Guru1000 he told me to

1. Focus on becoming fit and
2. become a man of finacial freedom​

You have to be critical address your weakness and find a solution that's al lI'm saying

I shall try this. Why? Because i'm broke and haven't worked out in half a year.

 

[asa_don]

Not to take advice from bitter men. Having been back here for a couple months and reading the threads(as well as blogs) a couple things have beocme obvious.

Guys are chasing after low quality trash (Pof chicks/Strippers) or still chasing after women with low IL. While I enjoy a thread on pof and online dating every now and then. The amount of threads on Online dating confirms what I belive all along that a lot of guys ain't hitting the field, Sosuave has gone full rheotrical mode. And whats up with all this feminism bythcing? I see tons of mental masturbation, and finger pointing, but I don't see anyone on here stating solutions besides bashing women for being entitled, becoming rude and fat. However a few are starting to notice as well so that's a good sign

With Marriage becoming obsolete and society encourgaing women to become more slutty. The sexual market place won't change anytime soon. If you wanna see the end of feminism, just take a look at what feminsim did to the black man and black woman. The reality is, a lot of you guys are good at putting on the "Alpha" front but are you seeing the results you want(not just with women but in life)? be hoenst with yourself! when I first came ont his site, I learned fast and took of like a rocket. I was in the top 30% for desirable men in my area, how do I know? I was making decent money and getting tons of tail, and now and then had women chasing me. However I got sloppy, lost my job put on a bunch of weight. I became one of the guys who would whine and moan about feminism ,one of the guys Zarky was talking about. I blamned it on the theory that women were now only going for the top 20%(and since I was 30% well you get the idea). While what I was saying wasn't false I was making excuses.Then BackBreaker checked my ass last year, and I really had to critical think and be honest with myself. The truth is I was dealing with some low quality women and also I became a fat slob.

One of the reasons I leave this site for 6 months at a time is because one of the greatest tools I learned in the game is to think for myself when I look a situation I "critical" think about it. A lot of stuff that's said on seduction forum/manosphere sometimes is a bunch of bullocks(I'll get to more of that in a minute). That if you spend all your time reading this, you truly become jaded and start to belive everything being spewed here. Back to critical thinking, If I need input then I may come here. Just because I have all those green dots below my name doesn't mean shyt. I'm just suspticle as a Big Neil to fall for the Okie doke. When puzzy and feelings are involved even the most rational Jedi may not think straight.

The best advice I've recently ever got in the game was a simple tip by Guru1000 he told me to

1. Focus on becoming fit and
2. become a man of finacial freedom​

The becoming fit one is self-explantory. His reasoning for becoming finacially free was that when your making six-figures, you become a man of means you attract a higher caliber of women and utlizing your finaical power with game is the ultimate aphrodisiac.


Fast Forward several months later, I'm hanging around with some socialite types doctors,business folk, some affluent people. I'm not rich matter fact I'm more broker then ever, and at that stage I'm still not fit. However the type of person I am, I have no problem making friends, I'm not suppose to be hanging with these people but I am. And Guru was right the quality women is like night and day. These women are educated and beatiful and most improtantly their not stuck up or entitled. I went on a date with a girl named Heather, who was in her late 30's but had a better body then most 19 year olds. She made good money but what struck me the most was her mindset. She was femine and traditional,nuturitng etc. It was soooooooooo refreshing. She was wifey matieral all around. Needless to say it didn't work I was going through some stuff. However I realized that for me to have access to these women I have to be the real deal and stop bullshytting

Right now I'm working on a bussiness venture trying to get things into place, I know it may be years before I start seeing some real money but my business partner is motivated and I'm ready. I'm starting to take my diet more seriously. I'm not doing this for women but for me. I wanna live a life where if I wanted too I can go on a plane right now and fly to New York and have a glass of wine at 1oak. To some this may be superifical but this is the life that I want. It's about being happy and if it means I have to bust my ass so I can fly all over the country and world then why not?


You have to be critical address your weakness and find a solution that's al lI'm saying

lol, what was zarky ever right about? zarky is a angry woman who talks about 4's and 5's on pof trolling this forum. smfh

 

[Tenacity]

This thread is old as hell, but in that person's blog (I guess the person people refer to as Zarky) their stance is total bull****, they said:

So, here’s my guideline, I won’t call it a rule: Bitter men are not successful with women.....As I posted on one of the forums:

"Guys who are making money don’t ***** about the economy; guys who just won their lawsuit don’t ***** about the court system; and guys who are getting laid don’t ***** about women."

The point is, if you’re having success, you aren’t angry at the system in which you are having success. Winners don’t complain, they bask in their victories. Losers do complain, because it’s too much for most people to blame themselves for losing so they externalize the blame and foist it on some other entity.

This is complete and utter bullshyt.

- On the financial side, yes, there's a significant amount of opportunity to make money if you are in the right field (Accounting/Finance, IT, Health, Engineering/Computer Science) but that doesn't deny the FACT at the same time that the taxes are getting higher and going to get higher. It doesn't deny the FACT the regulations make it harder to start and stay in business. It doesn't deny the FACT that the cost of living is higher and going to get higher. It doesn't deny the FACT that the cost of education so that you can GET to a point to make the decent amount of money in these fields, is higher and going to get higher. Just because you have positives in your favor does not mean there's no presence of negatives.

- Same with law, you could have a Judge that provides accurate justice in one case, no so much in another case.

- With women, getting laid is one thing, but what about the Court System? Getting laid is by far the only true major positive left that you receive from women, everything else is risk management in terms of the Family Court System looking to screw you in divorce and child support cases, DV cases usually are always favored by women, women can cry RAPE and put you in jail until you have fought for your life to prove your innocence, etc. Women are also disloyal and back stabbing, even other women will tell you that. Women also start the divorce proceedings more than men do. There's positives and negatives, just because someone is getting LAID doesn't mean these negatives all of a sudden disappear, I'm not sure why this Zarky person would even say this crap?

 

[sodbuster]

Dumbest post ever by Zarky....

Getting laid is easy, like ordering a pizza. Does it mean I want to buy a Pizza Hut? Can I ***** about the store management? Or does that mean I'm not getting any pizza?

I'm making 200k a year, but with the current economy sucking, the fact I ***** about taxes and economic policy keeping me down.... Does that mean I'm not making 200 or knowing that I could make 300 if the situation was better?

 

[evan12]

I make 7 times what minimum wage worker make , and I was fit until last month (I start growing belly again ) . But that didnt improve my chances with women , in fact the men who make 1/7 of what I make getting far better women that I can get . So not sure if that guru is really correct .

 

[Bible_Belt]

Money=pvssy only if you already get pvssy. If so, money will get you higher quality pvssy. But if you can't get laid at all, money is not your problem.

 

[backbreaker]

the only guys i know who don't b*tch about women are the ones who don't have any experience with them

the only guys who I know don't ***** about women are the ones that actually have positive experiences about women


lol this forum is full of guys that ***** about women and they don't' have any lol

 

[Tenacity]

Lol, yes, because of course "getting laid" and "being in a relationship" with one or multiple chicks means that ALL OF YOUR WOMEN problems go away right?

I mean the logic of some people, but man do I WISH that was true though. That all I had to do was SEX a chick right and:

- I never had to hear her nagging and bytching

- No more PMS

- No getting her knocked up and her putting me on child support

- No back-biting

- Not having to deal with her unattractive girlfriend who HAS NO MAN but can tell my girl all day what HER MAN ought to be doing

- No potentially falling in love, getting married, and getting financially RAPED in 5 years

Of course ALL of these things go away as long as you are hitting the P**** right lol!