your not aloneI travelled to the other side of the world and rented an Airbnb for two weeks to be with a woman i met online, she left early because i didn't pay for dates and claimed that her grandfather had a heart attack.
I spent 20+ hours on a flight, paid for the airbnb and she still expected me to pay to go out to resturuants every day. She called me childish because i didn't do that.
I sacrificed a lot just to make that trip, I had to sell my Nintendo 3ds and several Rare video games I had to get enough money. Had no job at the time as well.
Despite this woman being older by 5 years and a gold digger i still wanted to be with her, she got more and more distant over text until i finally snapped back to reality and just broke up with her.
This was the darkest time in my life and an excellent learning experience. I don't think any story in this thread would beat mine, I'm ashamed at how pathetic i was back then.
I don't think any story in this thread would beat mine
[/QUOTE
i'll try
my latest ex gf
i met her online , and she flaked like hell after the first meet up.
then she told me her mom kicked her out i thought this was my chance , i threw that shining armor right on and invited her to come stay with me at my brothers house(which i was unaware at the time she was actually moving in to get closer to him) .
disrespect level from her went through the roof.
eventually after moving out after me and my brother got into a fist fight.
she started flirting with the new neighbor who i later found out she ****ed. we moved againnn
,she stopped taking her birth control pills and got pregnant.
the last straw was when she decided to disrespect me in front of the new neighbors by taking the child outside while we argued , she slammed my laptop on the floor and shattered the screen , she got physically aggressive and then i found out that the child was not mine. all this because i was desperate for some ***** yall. i spent 2 weeks homeless. lost my bmx bike , 3-4 skateboards . lost an 800$ iphone that i dropped after a drunk fight and deciding to leave to work early.
this was alll my fault for catching oneitis and wanting ***** so badly and i do not regret these events not even a little bit, because this a lesson i will never forget
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
That's some simping on a whole new level.. Record breaking ****.. However good to hear you realised how F'd up that was.I travelled to the other side of the world and rented an Airbnb for two weeks to be with a woman i met online, she left early because i didn't pay for dates and claimed that her grandfather had a heart attack.
I spent 20+ hours on a flight, paid for the airbnb and she still expected me to pay to go out to resturuants every day. She called me childish because i didn't do that.
I sacrificed a lot just to make that trip, I had to sell my Nintendo 3ds and several Rare video games I had to get enough money. Had no job at the time as well.
Despite this woman being older by 5 years and a gold digger i still wanted to be with her, she got more and more distant over text until i finally snapped back to reality and just broke up with her.
This was the darkest time in my life and an excellent learning experience. I don't think any story in this thread would beat mine, I'm ashamed at how pathetic i was back then.
I for one am giving you a "Hallpass" on this one! The way I see it, you were very young and were going to go get you some Pooner no matter what it takes. I raise my glass. But don't ever ever ever never ever do that again!I sacrificed a lot just to make that trip, I had to sell my Nintendo 3ds and several Rare video games I had to get enough money. Had no job at the time as well.
Where was this woman from out of curiosity?I travelled to the other side of the world and rented an Airbnb for two weeks to be with a woman i met online, she left early because i didn't pay for dates and claimed that her grandfather had a heart attack.
I spent 20+ hours on a flight, paid for the airbnb and she still expected me to pay to go out to resturuants every day. She called me childish because i didn't do that.
I sacrificed a lot just to make that trip, I had to sell my Nintendo 3ds and several Rare video games I had to get enough money. Had no job at the time as well.
Despite this woman being older by 5 years and a gold digger i still wanted to be with her, she got more and more distant over text until i finally snapped back to reality and just broke up with her.
This was the darkest time in my life and an excellent learning experience. I don't think any story in this thread would beat mine, I'm ashamed at how pathetic i was back then.
She was from Belarus and I was in Australia, I'm thankful i learnt from it when i was still a naive teenager, I've gotten a lot better with women since then.Where was this woman from out of curiosity?
This is pretty intense but you should commend yourself for being able to face reality, cut this woman from your life and saw it as a learning experience. There are tons of men who have this mental frame of existence and they NEVER learn and continuously make the same mistakes over and over again. Also, unless a man was a natural player as a child, very few men were, at some point in your life you will behave as a simp towards a woman. Ideally this behavior is one and done by the time a man has graduated high school, or college if he was a little more of a late bloomer socially. However, there are tons of men who are well into their 20s and approaching 30s, perhaps beyond who still haven't learned this and it sets them really far back.
Thank you for sharing this story, I'm hoping others can learn from this.
That's pretty young and given where she was from it's quite obvious what was really going on. This is one of the reasons why I feel western males should avoid looking to go overseas to try to meet women. The whole dynamic is one of a desperate male who for a multitude of reasons cannot land a woman in his own country and is more or less setting himself up to get taken advantage of by women who live in these less fortunate set of circumstances that want better for themselves.She was from Belarus and I was in Australia, I'm thankful i learnt from it when i was still a naive teenager, I've gotten a lot better with women since then.
I had the very naive view that all foreign women were better, i took literally the first girl i found and ignored every red flag.That's pretty young and given where she was from it's quite obvious what was really going on. This is one of the reasons why I feel western males should avoid looking to go overseas to try to meet women. The whole dynamic is one of a desperate male who for a multitude of reasons cannot land a woman in his own country and is more or less setting himself up to get taken advantage of by women who live in these less fortunate set of circumstances that want better for themselves.
Love you manIt’s not a matter of loosing frame. It’s he never had one. Men operating in the feminine social structure have no frame other than their buy in to walk the path to the guillotine like a good little boy.
With many of the men here, they can’t see it in themselves. Especially the ones who have been here a long time. (Years upon years)
Those little things are very subtle and below awareness. Someone outside of it can see it plain as day. They are still trying to resolve their cases by talking about the same things over and over but find they fall short in the real world. Vicious, vicious cycle.
Dude do you have this chicks number or IG?She was from Belarus and I was in Australia, I'm thankful i learnt from it when i was still a naive teenager, I've gotten a lot better with women since then.
Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.