Hitman10000
Master Don Juan
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It's very important to date women who are equal or greater in attractive qualities, not only do people socially group you and the girl together but they gauge how attractive you are to what kind of women you can attain. Not only that but it'll make you more happier as a person that you are with someone who are on equal terms of attractiveness because obviously being with someone who is less attractive makes you feel less passionate about her. I'm not saying that you should date someone average, but someone equal. If you are a 5 in appearance yet you're going out with a girl that's 3 in apperance then you're shorting yourself because you're with someone you feel "less than average" to. You don't want to be with someone just because that's the best you can do, because zero passion = crappy sex, And who wants that?
I'm posting this up cause recently a friend of mines who was dating an unattractive girl (or at least to his level) wasn't listening to my advice that he was wasting his time. He told things like "Oh it'll grow" or "Yeah, there are some fine ass ladies in my work building." which are clear indications he does not feel 95% with his current girl. My friend got dumped recently and he's bewildered at what happened. Girls are not stupid, they feel uncomfortable being with someone that doesn't have much passion for them. They'd dump/cheat/ignore you. In the DJ Bible, Pook said that "You buy into a relationship, NOT build one" His analogy to purchasing cars make a lot of sense. It only takes 1 meeting to know if a girl is sexually compatible with you, and she MUST be in order for it to be successful for LTR. It takes 1-2 more meetings to know if the both of your personalities mesh together. Too many guys just keep going and going thinking it'll get better but it won't. Be with someone you feel passionate for and perhaps complements your personality, it saves you a lot of time/energy.
I'm posting this up cause recently a friend of mines who was dating an unattractive girl (or at least to his level) wasn't listening to my advice that he was wasting his time. He told things like "Oh it'll grow" or "Yeah, there are some fine ass ladies in my work building." which are clear indications he does not feel 95% with his current girl. My friend got dumped recently and he's bewildered at what happened. Girls are not stupid, they feel uncomfortable being with someone that doesn't have much passion for them. They'd dump/cheat/ignore you. In the DJ Bible, Pook said that "You buy into a relationship, NOT build one" His analogy to purchasing cars make a lot of sense. It only takes 1 meeting to know if a girl is sexually compatible with you, and she MUST be in order for it to be successful for LTR. It takes 1-2 more meetings to know if the both of your personalities mesh together. Too many guys just keep going and going thinking it'll get better but it won't. Be with someone you feel passionate for and perhaps complements your personality, it saves you a lot of time/energy.