Your woman can cheat and still love and respect you?

[IKO69]

I guess it's possible. I've had a few discussions with women on the subject that nonchalantly said "everybody cheats", so I guess it's not a big deal..... lol.

Maybe some women can do it. I couldn't bring myself to be/stay with such a person tho.

 

[Pandora]

Monogamy isn't natural and women don't seem to idealize it the way many men do.

Most men on this forum have a very difficult time with this fact you just stated. I just recently accepted this as true.

Women publicly uphold monogamy as important but deep down they really don't care about it. They are always crying about cheating and are obsessed with cheating etc. But this is not how they really feel.

 

[Pandora]

You keep believing what you believe in...

This is true man..i know it's scary to accept. A females sexuality is very versatile. They can compartmentalize too ( for short periods of time).

Women really just need to be turned on enough to cheat. If the physical attraction is present she will manufacture the emotional connection.

If women always needed an emotional connection there would be no such thing as " same night lays".

Some women need an emotional connection at certain phases in their life. The more healthy ones need an emotional connection....but many of them don't.

 

[Pandora]

I guess it's possible. I've had a few discussions with women on the subject that nonchalantly said "everybody cheats", so I guess it's not a big deal..... lol.

Maybe some women can do it. I couldn't bring myself to be/stay with such a person tho.

Yeh i agree. I can't stay with one long term. But yes women view sex more cavalier than we think. This is especially true once they have given up on the fantasy of true love. After a couple casual sex partners they have pretty much given up on love. So now they are more able to smash without emotion. It's a scary thing for men to accept.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Which Muslim country do you live in?

Saturn; and I'm the god Saturnus who reap my sown wild oats in my realm.

 

[Striker_93]

I guess it's possible. I've had a few discussions with women on the subject that nonchalantly said "everybody cheats", so I guess it's not a big deal..... lol.

End of thread

 

[Striker_93]

Women are only really able to go from one Lover to the next. In my entire career I’ve only met a handful of women who actually like getting fvcked by multiple guys. It’s very rare. The vast majority of women want one guy, her best, and then hypergamously switch when needed.

What you’re experiencing is Alpha fux/Beta bux. It’s highly unlikely these cheating women are going home and having sex with their husbands.

I know we’ve gone over this before. But it’s worth mentioning. Women aren’t into poly. When it comes to fvcking it’s almost always one-by-one. A slvtty woman tends to rapidly switch her sexual fixation from one man to the next. But it’s not simultaneous. Woman are always selecting “the best” - it’s how their mind works. Whereas guys are more about “put ma d1ck in somfingz”

Some do, some don't, some will, some wont, Nothing is black and white.

Different types of women out here, I've known plenty of sluts who fvck multiple men simultaneously, it's not rare unless you roam in "square" circles.

We use to call them "bussdowns" in my youth lol

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Women are only really able to go from one Lover to the next. In my entire career I’ve only met a handful of women who actually like getting fvcked by multiple guys. It’s very rare. The vast majority of women want one guy, her best, and then hypergamously switch when needed.

What you’re experiencing is Alpha fux/Beta bux. It’s highly unlikely these cheating women are going home and having sex with their husbands.

I know we’ve gone over this before. But it’s worth mentioning. Women aren’t into poly. When it comes to fvcking it’s almost always one-by-one. A slvtty woman tends to rapidly switch her sexual fixation from one man to the next. But it’s not simultaneous. Woman are always selecting “the best” - it’s how their mind works. Whereas guys are more about “put ma d1ck in somfingz”

Also women doesn't do anything out of the blue so to speak.
They plan these things way ahead (cheating, breakups, divorces etc.) and even like long time before they actually take action. I heard about some women planning for 3-4 years behind the guys back before finally pulling the trigger. And usually she ahs a backup dude waiting when she does it.

 

[Striker_93]

Also women doesn't do anything out of the blue so to speak.
They plan these things way ahead (cheating, breakups, divorces etc.) and even like long time before they actually take action. I heard about some women planning for 3-4 years behind the guys back before finally pulling the trigger. And usually she ahs a backup dude waiting when she does it.

Women act on emotions and have the impulse control of a 12 year old lol are you kidding me ?

 

[AureliusMaximus]

End of thread

One problem with that argument is that women never tell the truth to men about these things. Heck they might not even be aware of it and why they do to themselves as women operate after their feelings and biological behaviors that nature has encoded in them from birth.

 

[Striker_93]

One problem

No problem, you're finding one because you don't wanna except the truth.

Why the hell would a woman lie about cheating NOT being a big deal

Anything to cope I guess

 

[AureliusMaximus]

Yep. Reading these threads is like reading a Male Wank Fantasy and it feels quite gay.

These dudes clearly don’t understand/have experience with women.

Indeed.
They are so eager to show that they are REAL dj's that have a big swinging d|cks. They love teach others about their great experience about women at SS which clearly do not have much real knowledge about.

If people where smart they would take more humble approach of a student´s mentality; listen and learn instead from the older members of SS etc. instead of attempting to peacock and brag about how good they are.

But that is I suppose also why there is all these snowflake threads these days where people are just complaining about girls, chads, and "how hard it is".

I kinda made a comment about that in my post here in the new thread "Is it really as bad as this forum makes it?":

Is it really as bad as this forum makes it?

Everyone lives in their own reality, as in, everyone is not having the issues being described here, dating has not gotten harder, it's easy, at least in the circles I roam in and the people I'm around. This is the only place where I see these things being discussed, in the real world, with guys...

www.sosuave.net

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This is my experience

It's reality and many of us on these interwebs got to view hundreds of other situations, this is how it plays out. This is also how if you keep cheating on your gf with someone else you won't care enough about her anymore, the brain protects it's view of itself.

 

[Pandora]

Some do, some don't, some will, some wont, Nothing is black and white.

Different types of women out here, I've known plenty of sluts who fvck multiple men simultaneously, it's not rare unless you roam in "square" circles.

We use to call them "bussdowns" in my youth lol

Exactly. We had names for these girls like "rollers". No offense to Pan_87 I am sure his experience is valid within his circles. What he does not understand is that there is a whole other world out there where women do smash multiple men simultaneously. Will they keep smashing multiple men indefinitely...no. But women do not have a problem letting multiple ATTRACTIVE guys smash in the short term. If women did not smash multiple guys simultaneously there would never be any confusion about paternity. But we know that there whole industries are built off paternity confusion ( Maury show, DNA test industry).

 

[Pandora]

Women are only really able to go from one Lover to the next. In my entire career I’ve only met a handful of women who actually like getting fvcked by multiple guys. It’s very rare. The vast majority of women want one guy, her best, and then hypergamously switch when needed.

What you’re experiencing is Alpha fux/Beta bux. It’s highly unlikely these cheating women are going home and having sex with their husbands.

I know we’ve gone over this before. But it’s worth mentioning. Women aren’t into poly. When it comes to fvcking it’s almost always one-by-one. A slvtty woman tends to rapidly switch her sexual fixation from one man to the next. But it’s not simultaneous. Woman are always selecting “the best” - it’s how their mind works. Whereas guys are more about “put ma d1ck in somfingz”

Pan87 if women did not smash multiple men then they would never be any confusion about paternity. What we see in the real world is that woman often have confusion about paternity. This directly contradicts your premise that women do not smash multiple men at the same time.

Is it their IDEAL long term mating strategy....no. But it is a very common short term mating strategy for many women. No offense but I think the circles you have been in are more conservative than the circles I have experienced. Date strippers, bottles service girls, etc and then let me know if they are not ****ing multiple guys. I know for a FACT they do. Again no offense. Maybe Australia is different.

Oh and more women than you think enjoy threesomes ( with attractive guys) in the moment. They feel like crap afterwards but in the moment they enjoy it. Its sickening I agree. But again female sexuality is more sick than we think especially if they didnt come from a good family.

 

[Striker_93]

Exactly. We had names for these girls like "rollers". No offense to Pan_87 I am sure his experience is valid within his circles. What he does not understand is that there is a whole other world out there where women do smash multiple men simultaneously. Will they keep smashing multiple men indefinitely...no. But women do not have a problem letting multiple ATTRACTIVE guys smash in the short term. If women did not smash multiple guys simultaneously there would never be any confusion about paternity. But we know that there whole industries are built off paternity confusion ( Maury show, DNA test industry).

Yep, that pan87 guy exposed himself on the other thread lol. You let these guys type long enough and they tell on themselves everytime

 

[Pandora]

You didn't read what I wrote bro.

Women are not smashing multiple men simultaneously. What happens is she secures a Beta provider, and then goes and gets impregnated by the Alpha. This isn't confusing for the woman, or the alpha. It's confusing for the Beta.

Or she is smashing two alphas. Women often get hit on by guys that are almost equally attractive. They go on dates with guys that are almost equally attractive. They become confused as who to pick. They sleep with both in the short term until they can choose. Boom....she gets pregnant by one of the alphas. Its this simple.

A women can be sexually attracted to multiple men within a social circle. This is especially true if they social circle contains young, fit, athletic men. This is what is happening at my work place now. An attractive female is sexually attracted to more than one man.

 

[Striker_93]

Dude. You need to get over me. You're a total loser and I don't want to have anything to do with you. You've got the intelligence of a pigeon with downs syndrome

Or she is smashing two alphas. Women often get hit on by guys that are almost equally attractive. They go on dates with guys that are almost equally attractive. They become confused as who to pick. They sleep with both in the short term until they can choose. Boom....she gets pregnant by one of the alphas. Its this simple.

A women can be sexually attracted to multiple men within a social circle. This is especially true if they social circle contains young, fit, athletic men. This is what is happening at my work place now. A attractive female is sexually attracted to more than one man.

Yeah their called sluts, Pan87 is such a square he thinks there's no such thing as sluttty women

 

[Pandora]

It’s anecdotal, but here’s an interesting example of how Male Wank Fantasy Projection blows up in your face.

I have a friend in Sydney who’s a very successful musician. He had a beautiful girlfriend who he instigated a poly relationship with. Part of his “thing” was he would select male friends of his to have threesomes with her. In turn, she would source girls on Tinder for him.

How did it end? Out of the blue she abruptly leaves him for a monogamous relationship with one of the “studs” that my friend selected for a threesome. She then immediately proceeded to block him everywhere and got police AVO in place. According to her, the poly aspect was to appease his obsession with promiscuity. She resented it, but accepted it because he was a high status musician. But eventually the resentment got too much and she light-switched on him.

He never heard from her again. This was 4 years ago.

This is one example of a poly relationship where everyone was apparently getting their needs met. And it exploded.

Here’s the lesson. Women will go along with your Male Wank Fantasy if they are getting other benefits like your status/proof/money. But they resent it.

Pan87 i think Australia is different than America. Actually I had pictures of my Chad homies running a train on this girl from Australia when I lived in Vegas. I swear on my life. I didnt take them. The roomate did and he sent it to me. They went to club and brought her home. She was hot too. If i find the pics I will personally send them to you. I probably dont have them anymore but this is 100% a true story I can get text evidence from the roomate that took the picture.

This is not a wank fantasy brother. There are many girls out there that dont mind smashing more than one guy in a social circle. The real sluts dont mind experimenting with group sex. It makes me sick but its true.

As a matter of fact the girl I am dating now did group sex ( with another couple) and I am thinking about cutting her off because of it. I think you have to humble enough to admit that maybe you just ran into square girls.

 

[Pandora]

That's difficult. Women can't really have "2 alphas" in her life. She is configured towards selecting her best. This is how women work, she's filtering down her options until she refines it to her best. She also has an interest in having a huge pool of men to choose from, so then she can choose the best out of a huge pool.

What is more likely to happen is that she will entertain 2 or more Alphas in her selection process, and then choose who she likes more. She might keep the other ones as orbiters or back-ups.

Wait, are you saying that women cant smash two alphas at a time. Brother many women have smashed multiple men in the same day. They have admitted this to me personally and online. Do you want me to find the videos of them admitting this online? I bet you know girls that have smashed 2 dudes in one day.