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beastmaster79

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alright so i'm in a bit of a slump. i haven't hooked up with a girl in almost a month. i'm thinking i should just lower my standards, **** a girl who is kinda cute then work my way up. does that work for you guys? it seems to have worked for me in the past.

like **** a 5 or a 6 then a 7 then an 8 than a 9 or 10. does that make sense?
 

tsmith2334

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wjh said:
forget the number scale.
+1. forget the number scale, it's mostly bullsh1t. try to hook up with someone you feel attracted to.

by the way, a month sucks, but it's not bad at all.

some people go on a slump for years or die a virgin. keep everything relative and don't get too discouraged.
 

Nutz

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By the very nature of being involved with a woman your desireability will go up (preselection). What I've noticed first hand is that the hotter the woman you're with the hotter in general the women desiring you will tend to be, not to mention way more women will want you. I guess it's the whole "if *she* is with him then he *really* must have it going on!"
 

Effington

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If it helps you get your confidence up to go after the uglier one once in awhile, go for it.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Metaphysical

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yes. it works but it takes some time. you need to get experience down before you can expect to bang a dime.

it took me over a year (20 women) to work my way up from banging pretty much fugly girls to very hot ones.
 

young_gun

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Damn, I know that now if I went a month without sex, I'd go certifiably insane, but one month is not that bad.

I went 20 solid months without sex a couple years ago. Not fun.
 
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