It'll be interesting to hear what some of your guys' thoughts are on this - I know a lot of you are firm believers of being in "state" or the "think and you shall become" belief.
It's interesting how many extremely successful people, varying from interviews to books, are all obsessed with mental state and mentality. They all talk about how reality can't help but bend around their ambitions, how having the right mindset is the absolute key to success, how the strong-willed are almost superhuman in what they can achieve, how you make your own destiny, etc. Here's an interesting interview with Will Smith where he briefly touches on the concept, and a quick glance at the comments shows that not a lot of people really get what he's trying to say.
Now I'm not trying to get all New Age mystical bull**** on you guys, I'm not saying its some kind of magic or whatnot, but I am genuinely curious what your thoughts are on this. As if when we truly believe something, it's not necessarily that the universe that forms around us, but that we ourselves are put - whether it be subconsciously through mannerisms, thought process, etc - in the best possible situation/scenario in order to achieve it.
I wasn't really a huge believer of this until around seven or eight months ago, and after I started realizing that there may be something to be said about the state of mind. I've toyed around with this since then with mixed results, but let me lay out the scenario that really started to make me question if there was something more to "state of mind".
I was out of town visiting with my friends over the summer and we were meeting up with these girls for a party, and one of them was supposed to be this gorgeous girl that everyone in my friends home town wanted to get on but she was a total *****. Everyone wanted her in high school, but she was completely stuck up (not to mention had a boyfriend for the majority of high school) and would barely even give my buddy the time of day. He told me horror stories about her as we all got ready, and as I was hoping in the shower, I just envisioned the idea of me completely disarming her *****iness and busting her balls. I wasn't serious (like trying to psyche myself up or anything), I was just nonchalantly toying with the idea and pretending that was going to happen. I didn't think anything of it. We go over to her house with her friends and it turns out my buddy wasn't kidding - girl's a 10, and she even looks *****y. I didn't really talk to her that much for the first few hours, but there was something between us that we both picked up that I can't really describe. Fast forward two/three hours later, we end up talking by ourselves for a few minutes and then it just happened.
And you know the weirdest thing? I wasn't even surprised that it was happening. Here I was making out with probably one of if not the hottest girl of my young adult life and there was no moment where I was going "oh my god, oh my god, I'm actually doing this". It just felt natural. We went back into the shower and then to her bed, and my friend still is praising me to this day.
I don't know what it really is. I've tried replicating that with other scenarios/situations and have had varying degrees of success, but I feel like there's almost something to having the right mindset that makes it almost like a superpower in a sense. What are some of your guys' thoughts on this? I find this stuff extremely interesting.
It's interesting how many extremely successful people, varying from interviews to books, are all obsessed with mental state and mentality. They all talk about how reality can't help but bend around their ambitions, how having the right mindset is the absolute key to success, how the strong-willed are almost superhuman in what they can achieve, how you make your own destiny, etc. Here's an interesting interview with Will Smith where he briefly touches on the concept, and a quick glance at the comments shows that not a lot of people really get what he's trying to say.
Now I'm not trying to get all New Age mystical bull**** on you guys, I'm not saying its some kind of magic or whatnot, but I am genuinely curious what your thoughts are on this. As if when we truly believe something, it's not necessarily that the universe that forms around us, but that we ourselves are put - whether it be subconsciously through mannerisms, thought process, etc - in the best possible situation/scenario in order to achieve it.
I wasn't really a huge believer of this until around seven or eight months ago, and after I started realizing that there may be something to be said about the state of mind. I've toyed around with this since then with mixed results, but let me lay out the scenario that really started to make me question if there was something more to "state of mind".
I was out of town visiting with my friends over the summer and we were meeting up with these girls for a party, and one of them was supposed to be this gorgeous girl that everyone in my friends home town wanted to get on but she was a total *****. Everyone wanted her in high school, but she was completely stuck up (not to mention had a boyfriend for the majority of high school) and would barely even give my buddy the time of day. He told me horror stories about her as we all got ready, and as I was hoping in the shower, I just envisioned the idea of me completely disarming her *****iness and busting her balls. I wasn't serious (like trying to psyche myself up or anything), I was just nonchalantly toying with the idea and pretending that was going to happen. I didn't think anything of it. We go over to her house with her friends and it turns out my buddy wasn't kidding - girl's a 10, and she even looks *****y. I didn't really talk to her that much for the first few hours, but there was something between us that we both picked up that I can't really describe. Fast forward two/three hours later, we end up talking by ourselves for a few minutes and then it just happened.
And you know the weirdest thing? I wasn't even surprised that it was happening. Here I was making out with probably one of if not the hottest girl of my young adult life and there was no moment where I was going "oh my god, oh my god, I'm actually doing this". It just felt natural. We went back into the shower and then to her bed, and my friend still is praising me to this day.
I don't know what it really is. I've tried replicating that with other scenarios/situations and have had varying degrees of success, but I feel like there's almost something to having the right mindset that makes it almost like a superpower in a sense. What are some of your guys' thoughts on this? I find this stuff extremely interesting.