Your opinions on the big picture

[lonegun]

Ok, so we know that most guys are AFC's and not getting much action , or otherwise married off, oneitis etc. So that puts a whopping bloody pool of men not in the action .. and what?? a much larger pool of 5.0 + women getting all they want ?

So the Alpha / DJ / Jerks pool is f**king their way through a much bigger pool of ladies. Right?

What is the ratio here? I mean , no math formulas, just does the above seem correct?

 

[ER!C L!VE]

That was uncool of me.

I'm sure someone here has an answer for you.


EDIT: Eric noticing his bad behavior.

 

[lonegun]

Read again

If there's a just a small pool of DJ's in the population, they're getting lots. Most AFCs are getting little in any. Yet most 5.0 girls can get whenever they want.

 

[Survivor]

I fail to see how this relates to mature men, lonegun.

 

[lonegun]

Yeah you're right

.. but just trying to get the overall picture . It doesnt really pertain to the Mature forum or any one in particular. Just that the
vets here can see the bigger picture better than others.

Just sheer curiosity.

The other implication of this is that it is the women ( most women ) getting WAY more action than the average Joe , who , lost in the Matrix doesn't even realize it. Course that's why the Playa's call em Ho's

 

[Survivor]

Well let's focus less on the social and more on the psycological.

How about pondering this question.

Do you believe a man's chances of becoming a "DJ" increase or decrease as he grows older?

 

[GirlCrazy]

Do you believe a man's chances of becoming a "DJ" increase or decrease as he grows older?

INCREASE !!!!

 

[stevera004]

Originally posted by Survivor

Do you believe a man's chances of becoming a "DJ" increase or decrease as he grows older?

Increase. As men get older, the only thing women have over us (ie. their sex appeal) diminishes. They get older (and in general, less attractive); men also are older, and less interested in sex. Early to mid 30's are prime DJing time. You're still young enough to be interested in the chase; but not so young to be stupid about it.

 

[Jay Gatsby]

Originally posted by stevera004
Increase. As men get older, the only thing women have over us (ie. their sex appeal) diminishes. They get older (and in general, less attractive); men also are older, and less interested in sex. Early to mid 30's are prime DJing time. You're still young enough to be interested in the chase; but not so young to be stupid about it.

And yet it is when a man in his early-to-mid 30s acts like a DJ, he's characterized by a single woman his own age as shallow, immature, unable to commit, and given similar negative labels.

Why?

Because he won't settle down with her, that is, an early-to-mid 30s woman whose looks are going and is "ready" to settle down and have children. During her early-to-mid 20s, she had her fun, played around and slept around. The man who acts like a DJ in his early-to-mid 30s spent the same time period of his life going to graduate school, getting his career established, making enough money to buy a nice place, new car, nice clothes, and similar indicia of success. Now that he has those things, he wants the still attractive woman in her early-mid-20s to date, if not ultimately to become his wife.

No man who has earned his way through hard work during his early-to-mid 20s should be ashamed for wanting a woman who has not given away her youth and beauty to another man. It would be, as some in ASF have put it, like giving an all you can eat buffet to a bad boy, while sticking the nice guy with the check. A man who has earned the money in his pocket should not settle for hamburger (or even meatloaf) when he can have filet mignon.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by lonegun
Ok, so we know that most guys are AFC's and not getting much action , or otherwise married off, oneitis etc. So that puts a whopping bloody pool of men not in the action .. and what?? a much larger pool of 5.0 + women getting all they want ?

So the Alpha / DJ / Jerks pool is f**king their way through a much bigger pool of ladies. Right?

What is the ratio here? I mean , no math formulas, just does the above seem correct?

Who cares about the ratio, just make sure your on the winning side.

 

[dietzcoi]

It has been said that 20% of men get 80% of women, and the other 80% of men are left with the 20%...

THis refers to single people having sex with others, not the final AFC the woman settles down with.

Yes, the hos get fukked by a number of DJs while the AFC wait for the women to want to setlle, then take her.

I would bet the average woman (ho) nowadays has had more partners than the "average" man. Of course DJs are not "average"!

Dietzcoi

 

[Austin Allegro]

Originally posted by Jay Gatsby
And yet it is when a man in his early-to-mid 30s acts like a DJ, he's characterized by a single woman his own age as shallow, immature, unable to commit, and given similar negative labels.

Why?

Because he won't settle down with her, that is, an early-to-mid 30s woman whose looks are going and is "ready" to settle down and have children. During her early-to-mid 20s, she had her fun, played around and slept around. The man who acts like a DJ in his early-to-mid 30s spent the same time period of his life going to graduate school, getting his career established, making enough money to buy a nice place, new car, nice clothes, and similar indicia of success. Now that he has those things, he wants the still attractive woman in her early-mid-20s to date, if not ultimately to become his wife.

True dat. And I bet a lot of these women were the exact same ones who, aged about 22, dated men around 30 because they were more 'mature' (ie richer and more DJ-like) than men their own age. Thus the sick cycle continues...

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Some of these women are the same ones that go throught their 20's acting like no man is good enough for them. Then they hit their 30's, their looks start to slide, and they haven't worked on their personality enough to keep a guy interested, and they whine about men and how alone they are. Mix that with a whole bunch of feminist bullsh*t and you get something that you should run like hell to get away from.