I really wanted to bump this whole thread, and to continue its growth.
To all aspiring DJ's this post really helped me on my journey and some of the ideas listed really helped. I want others in the community to post some ideas and notions that helped them improve. Ive come a long way since I found this post (left this site for a while) right now I am dating multiple girls, working really hard in school, striving for my dreams, and working out everyday. I think that often what we struggle most in life is not the actual practice (inside all of us we possess social skills, work ethic, intelligence etc.) but finding the strength to get out of the malaise of our everyday routines and rhythms and break free to a higher discipline and a higher happiness. EVERYONE on this site possess the ability to attract a mate, what they need is help in finding their inner strength which will force them to TRY. How much do you actually TRY?
I used to keep to myself, slack off in school, be unfit, not care about learning or improving. Just another 5'6 angry sad kid trying to find his way but doing nothing about it. I just did the same thing everyday rarely breaking out.....until I fully embraced the notion of CARPE DIEM (SEIZE THE DAY)
EVERYDAY the world out there holds ENDLESS possibilities for F***ing hot girls, or getting a promotion, getting physical fitness etc... Its on us as men to GO OUT AND GET THEM
I wake up everyday with a huge grin on my face so happy close to tear, WHY? I realize just how beautiful it is that I get the chance to get up, get out, and get something. Life is Beautiful. There are countless opportunities for, intellectual stimulation, beautiful girls, deep emotional connections, fun, physical pleasure...AVAILABLE TO ALL OF US. I am so happy I get to go out and chase these things, think of all of those whose hearts no longer tick and no longer get these chances. With god as my rock (ill leave religion out) and a strong will to improve and actively pursue the things I want my life has improved dramatically (more than you could ever know).
Ill leave this post with a great quote which keeps me centered and helps me to take actions everyday.
"May your thoughts be of actions, and may your actions represent a man of thought"
I hope that I have helped the other aspiring DJs out there like this site helped me