Your height in regards to her tallest pair of heels.

[Naughty Ninja]

Just a heads up. Remember whatever height the chick is she's adding in her mind her tallest pair of heels as one thing of many in determining if you are ok for her to date.

If you are 5'7 and she's 5'4 though you are still taller she might have three inch or more heels in her closet that she's thinking about that put you at eye level and or possibly an inch or two shorter than her depending on the size of her tallest heels she likes to wear out.

I've had many chicks stand next to me (I'm 5'11) to see how they "measured up" with the highest pair of heels they bought. Some have even said "Oh the guy is shorter than you or your height."

Just like they judge looks, personality, social value/proof etc. They are thinking about how tall they'd be next to a certain dude. And we all know chicks like tall dudes so they can look up to their Daddy.

I ain't joking. This is true life dealing with chicks in a Dept. store on a regular basis.

 

[Christopher Philip]

Yes of course. Women cheat with shoes. How about finding some shoes that cheat right back? They exist for the serious cheater. If a girl is short though, her "game" is destroyed when she gets in bed, unless she one of the ones who wears her shoes to bed!

She knows how tall she really is even if her preference is to feel safe with her tall man and heels are not an everyday thing for most girls. A girl who is 5'10" is limited and has to work much harder to find her taller man as she is required to overlook many shorter men. A short girl, with short legs, is competing with taller girls. Have you ever compared a short girl and a tall girl when their facial attractiveness was just about the same. The short girl drops in value and her legs start to look chubby, even if she looked fine by herself.

Sometimes we forget to look at things from her perspective. While she might accept a shorter man, what will her friends and family think? What will her vagina think? Women have the same sorts of selective pressures put on them too. I'm not saying you need to date a troll so she doesn't feel bad, but keep in mind that your relative sex rank compared to her and compared to her dating pool is what really matters. Most tall guys will choose a taller girl with long legs over a short one, so that leaves short girls needing some attention too.

Sometimes I wonder if the pick up market is trying to get EVERY girl. Face the facts and date within your sex rank and everything works out just fine. If your rank is so low, you can't get ANY girl, you have a big problem.

 

[PapiChulo]

Women are crazy when it comes to height. I once went out with a chick who claimed to be 6'1". And somehow she implied that I "could" be taller than what I appear. I am 6'5". Well I called her out on her bias and told that she was biasing me about her height, she admitted to all 6'3" of her height. Also one 5 footer called me a giant in the negative sense of the word.

 

[Gray The Prince]

Since I'm 6'4, I thankfully don't have to worry about this.

 

[SgtSplacker]

I have also noticed that chicks really do use the most primitive ways to initially measure a mans value to them. So much so that it suggests that they really don't know squat about what they really want just so long as you can be considered "better than the rest" in their minds. Sometimes I think that just pitching a girl in the right way will get her to go for a dude that she would otherwise swear against hooking up with.

The initial attraction a woman feels for a man seems very primitive.

HE HAV BIG LOIN MABUNGA LIKE!

After that it all about the POF profile crap they put in likes/dislikes.

For men the physical attraction is more purely physical than in women I think. When a dude thinks a girl is fine it's all about her appearance, rarely does a guy look at a girls potential to care for him or her salary or whatever. It's all about the boo-bs and a-ss. For a girl it's more about your "potential" to be a good male family unit...

Every single time i've hooked up with a girl in the same night it's been a celebration of those initial primitive attractors. Start talking about real life and you totally ruin it.

 

[5string]

Ninja is spot on, however, the only thing that concerns me is how those heels look when they are up in the air. No worries when you get to that point.