Your experience with fillibusters?

[backbreaker]

i mean **** tony sopranos even took his plates out to eat and out of town. this is plate spinning 101. **** it really isn't plate spinning if you aren't manging her, it's more like.. ***** come bring me something to eat lol

 

[Warrior74]

i feel ya, but still just beucase you dn't see a future with them doesn't mean you can't treat the girl like a lady. that's all she wanted. just for you to show that respected her and treated her like a normal gal.

can't tell you how many plates i took out that there wasn't a future with but my whole thing is when i was spinning plates i wasn't screening for wifes i was just trying to have fun. i work extremely hard and i like to play and when i play i like ot have play mates, regardless if i am going to marry them or not.

is it really going to kill you to take a plate to a local comedy show? or take a plate to the go cart track? i mean we aren't talking diamonds and roses here

This. Back when I had money and a couple of girls, we'd go do something fun that I wanted to do. If I wanted to see a movie, they could tag along. If I wanted a good steak, they could tag along. If I wanted to check out a new club, they could tag along. You get what I'm saying here.

All chics fall out of the rotation eventually. Once they see there will be no relationship, or marriage, or future between you two, it's only a matter of time. But being unemployed, I see that period between banging and blow ot to be a lot shorter. It's only so much redbox, pop secret and dyck a chic is gonna put with.

No chic is gonna keep going for the straight up jump off action for too long. But they will hold out a lot longer if they get the trappings of a relationship (the occasional outing) than they will without it. I thought this was basic game 101? I thought everyone here knew this?

 

[backbreaker]

i had a plate named jennifer back in little rock. we actually dated when i was in high school and she went ***** lol and we reconnected in my early 20's and she was full blown


I mean she was one of those *****s that didn't even make any bones about being a ***** she knew what she was lol and she liked it. she liked to ****. she liked to **** differnet guys whenever she flet like it.

and i say that to say, **** even jennifer.. ****.. some maintance lol. we'd go play put put golf every once in a while or go get a meal together. i mean once in a blue moon but still.

I understand this whole deal about not wanting to be an AFC and all but dont' confuse with rolling up your sleeves and doing some work with being AFC. there is nothing AFC about taking a plate on a date lol. you'll be dealing with pretty much nothing but scallywags if this is your point of view on women. '

and **** i'm not even talking about full blown dates lol. a lot of times i would get a call from girl B or C or D and they would say hey backbreaker what are you doing, i want to see you, when can i see you.. and i'd say **** i can swing 30-45 imns later today meat me at TCBY i will get your skank ass some yogert lol. and we'd sit there and eat our yogert or what not and just talk for a mintue. that's all they want. maintenance.


I'll leave you with this analogy; the horse track, a normal horse.. races about once every 3 weeks. don't get me started on that, anyway, once every 3 weeks. not every horse in a stable is a champion, ****, or is even good. But to get them to run, they aLL have to be worked/breezed on avg once a week which is basically like a real race but short, and they all have to be galloped / walked every day. EVERY day. from the 5k horse to the 5 million dollar horse they all require maintenance.

you can't not maintained a horse and then expect it to run on queue when it's race time. you can't not maintenance a chick, rather she be plate A or plate F and expect her to run her race when you call her on a tuesday night at 11pm


keep it cheap, keep it fun, but you got to do something.

 

[Boilermaker]

Vatoloco and Rollo's posts.

OP was truly butt-hurt out of rejection, and he seems like he doesn't even have a clue what was happening with this girl.

I'd worry more about my skills in reading women, than treating self-entitled b!tches like ladies ... I definitely wouldn't want to hang out with Dora if she thinks making out is "doing nothing".

You don't have to do something at all. It's not your responsibility to entertain her. And barring some illegible essays, nobody suggests that. Read Warrior well, before getting excited, if YOU want to do something, they can tag along. And if you are not a couch potato, you DO want to DO something every once in a while. It all revolves around YOU, but if all you want to do is to fart on your cushions, yeah, that could be a turn-off.

That's the right attitude.

I recognize OP from a couple threads back from his boyish temper. We see evidence of it here as well.

Keep your eye on the ball, read them well, read them right. And screen accordingly. Then you can avoid embarrassing moments like this.

I mean, Dora WAS looking for an excuse to lash it out, apparently she had had it all the way up her neck ...

Cheers,

 

[DonJuanabe]

Having read all the posts in this thread here are my thoughts: if you had taken Dora out to do anything social -- dinner, drinks, video games at Dave & Busters, shooting hoops at a local bball court, barbecue at a friend's place -- she would have jumped your bones that night. She wanted to be slightly more than just a piece of asz.

 

[Lexington]

OP was truly butt-hurt out of rejection, and he seems like he doesn't even have a clue what was happening with this girl.

I recognize OP from a couple threads back from his boyish temper. We see evidence of it here as well.

What's the matter boilermaker, still have hard feelings from the thread about marijuana? I bet you were quite upset about Colorado and Washington legalizing pot, huh?

Talk about the pot calling the kettle black! Here you are accusing someone of having a "boyish temper" and you are the one resorting to puerile insults.

There's no "butt hurt" here....girl didn't want to fvck, so I nexted her. That's all there is to it. You would have known that if you read the texts, but then we know that reading comprehension isn't really your strong point.

 

[Jitterbug]

What I do with filibusters is that I don't give them an ending (i.e your Good luck text) to get all dramatic about. Just fade out. Go silence but be friendly if you run into her. Also, I fish a lot in my social circle so I have to protect my rep. Don't want to be known as butt-hurt guy. Besides, I don't get mad if some girl doesn't want to fvck me for whatever reason. No stress, just NEXT.

Regarding the holding out for LTR issue, you can always fake the appearance of a LTR to nail her then fade out or breakup. Cook the b1tch a nice dinner or something. Just the cost of doing business.

Edit: your Good luck text will be interpreted as butt-hurt by women, regardless of how you actually feel. Remember, they filter everything through their feelings.

 

[Boilermaker]

What's the matter boilermaker, still have hard feelings from the thread about marijuana? I bet you were quite upset about Colorado and Washington legalizing pot, huh?

Talk about the pot calling the kettle black! Here you are accusing someone of having a "boyish temper" and you are the one resorting to puerile insults.

There's no "butt hurt" here....girl didn't want to fvck, so I nexted her. That's all there is to it. You would have known that if you read the texts, but then we know that reading comprehension isn't really your strong point.

Haha, ok.

Girl didn't want to fvck and "you" nexted her... Felt like it was she who nexted you but right, it must be my reading comprehension.

Your crude ways are turning off girls, you need to change, couch potato routine won't cut it anymore. Friendly advice.

 

[mrRuckus]

"don't get butthurt and cop a damn attitude with me."

Is this really something that a woman you want to be around says?

Fvck her and fvck her attitude. She needs a slap across her damn face. All this other talk is nonsense because this woman already has 4 arrows all pointing at her that say "c u n t," because she was likely raised poorly if this is her idea of how a grown, feminine woman responds.

All this other talk about nexting and 3 date rule and sh1t is beside the point.

 

[BeDJ]

I agree with previous members, if you propose she come over and just chill everytime, her interest level is going to drop fast. Dora, as any other female, has seen flaws in the OP's "DJ" behavior, hence she tests it with her "power play," withholding sex. Lexington kept the same routine and Dora basically said screw it, since he didn't offer anything worthwhile. Had OP offered a change of environment on the second date, she would have put out.