From your own personal experience what are some things that have made your lose attraction real fast in a woman? I'm not talking about the million little things women have done with you that annoyed you, but rather the things that were so offsetting for you that you got rid of her soon after. I'm talking about the big things that they have done that led you to dump them soon after.
I'm not talking about loss of attraction over time but something real big she did that made you lose attraction right there and then.
My own examples
1. Trying to control me/doubting me: I had a great affair up to that point in fact no fights no nothing she was great.
One day she called me on a saturday and of course I didn't answer I was out with my friends. :rockon: I try to follow that rule of not answering calls or txts on the weekends (Tom Leykis)
She then sent me an email the day after telling me how it was obvious that I am seeing someone else cause I always go out on saturdays and don't come back till late. She canceled our scheduled meeting that we had (motel) and told me to forget it.
Considering she was just an fb and nothing was official up to that point (although we talked a lot and she probably thought herself as more) I realized that I had her hook line and sinker. But instead of feeling like I had her won over due to her jealousy I lost all attraction right after that. I didn't even care I had her on the palm of my hands.
It was a huge red flag for me since if she tries to control me then when we weren't even official I could only imagine how she would be if we were official. No woman has the right to be asking you what you do on a saturday night if you're an adult male.
I diffused the situation told her I just go out with friends bla bla bla and told her I wasn't seeing anybody. I banged her 1 more time then I gave her the friendship card.
I never expected to lose all attraction for her so fast but the moment she started doubting me and in my view trying to control me I just lost all attraction. Maybe some guys will tell me she was in the right to know what I'm up to on saturdays and that I was a bit harsh but the loss of feeling was just too strong.
It was the first time with any woman I been that I had lost attraction in such a short span of time. Usually like most people it's a process that takes time but all it took for me was just 1 email.
I'm not talking about loss of attraction over time but something real big she did that made you lose attraction right there and then.
My own examples
1. Trying to control me/doubting me: I had a great affair up to that point in fact no fights no nothing she was great.
One day she called me on a saturday and of course I didn't answer I was out with my friends. :rockon: I try to follow that rule of not answering calls or txts on the weekends (Tom Leykis)
She then sent me an email the day after telling me how it was obvious that I am seeing someone else cause I always go out on saturdays and don't come back till late. She canceled our scheduled meeting that we had (motel) and told me to forget it.
Considering she was just an fb and nothing was official up to that point (although we talked a lot and she probably thought herself as more) I realized that I had her hook line and sinker. But instead of feeling like I had her won over due to her jealousy I lost all attraction right after that. I didn't even care I had her on the palm of my hands.
It was a huge red flag for me since if she tries to control me then when we weren't even official I could only imagine how she would be if we were official. No woman has the right to be asking you what you do on a saturday night if you're an adult male.
I diffused the situation told her I just go out with friends bla bla bla and told her I wasn't seeing anybody. I banged her 1 more time then I gave her the friendship card.
I never expected to lose all attraction for her so fast but the moment she started doubting me and in my view trying to control me I just lost all attraction. Maybe some guys will tell me she was in the right to know what I'm up to on saturdays and that I was a bit harsh but the loss of feeling was just too strong.
It was the first time with any woman I been that I had lost attraction in such a short span of time. Usually like most people it's a process that takes time but all it took for me was just 1 email.
