Your biggest problem is that you were a social misfit and now you're lost.

[Trainwreck]

How MUCH of a social misfit?

Like dakimakura using, 300 pound, mom won't let you do things on your own, misfit?

I would tell you, but it would cause an uproar/topic to be deleted. I'm not a 300 lb neck beard living in my moms basement for starters.

 

[AlexKaiser]

I would tell you, but it would cause an uproar/topic to be deleted. I'm not a 300 lb neck beard living in my moms basement for starters.

An uproar eh? That makes it even more intriguing. -desire to know more intensifies-

 

[bigneil]

Subtitled: OP is 19.

 

[SuckItUp]

Part of the problem are distorted views of the so called perfect life. Hell, Brad Pitt married a cluster B woman in Angelina Jolie.

Is growing up in this perceived "perfect" environment easier? Sure. Is it without problems? Absolutely not.

Yes, it is easier for some people, but unless you are dealing with mental issues like depression, bipolar disorder, ADD, Asperger's etc. there are things that you can do to work on yourself that are much more easily correctible than adjusting with mental health issues.

That's why guys need to work themselves to feel good about themselves before worrying about women.


Nobody here is saying conform or else. We're just saying here's how things work and here's what you can do.