Your AFC-beta behavior will be documented

[Between_The_Lines]

Messing around with some girl tonight (with a boyfriend to boot), and at one point we begin talking about exes and break ups, and she enthusiastically reaches for her phone to play a voicemail of her "psycho ex" begging for her back, crying hysterically and apologetically.

I'm still pretty new here myself, but I've seen a couple of newer members pop in here recently who've either recently experienced a break up or seem like they may be on the verge of one, and this story is primarily for you guys. When your emotions are getting the better of you, as a deterrent (hopefully), keep in mind the "psycho ex" of this girl (who I practically just met, second time we ever hang out), and how any beta behavior, especially the kind that can be recorded, will stay with her for some time to come and may very well serve as great sadistic entertainment in the future, possibly even for the next dude(s) to be nailing her. Horrific, but this stuff happens.

 

[BraddH]

Any wise guy who knows that she keeps a voice mall like that will not even touch her.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

Messing around with some girl tonight (with a boyfriend to boot), and at one point we begin talking about exes and break ups, and she enthusiastically reaches for her phone to play a voicemail of her "psycho ex" begging for her back, crying hysterically and apologetically.

I'm still pretty new here myself, but I've seen a couple of newer members pop in here recently who've either recently experienced a break up or seem like they may be on the verge of one, and this story is primarily for you guys. When your emotions are getting the better of you, as a deterrent (hopefully), keep in mind the "psycho ex" of this girl (who I practically just met, second time we ever hang out), and how any beta behavior, especially the kind that can be recorded, will stay with her for some time to come and may very well serve as great sadistic entertainment in the future, possibly even for the next dude(s) to be nailing her. Horrific, but this stuff happens.

That's 100% true.

Biggest mistake many of us do is to believe there is some empathy or emotions woman has after she dumped you.There is NONE. Expect pure sadism and mental torture.Go total NC and ****ing keep it.

Men has much more honor about ex than women, we tend to respect as someone we loved, women mostly don't.Most probably they laugh off you with their friends and family.They have no honor.And remeber if she is talking trash about ex - expect same after you part.

When woman dumps you, you think it is you who got hurt but she believes it is SHE who got hurt by you so she will feel good to act as total *****.

There is only one permanent solution :

**** HER

and DO NOT leave any stupid things on chat or whatever which can later be used against you or to make clown out of you.Women has no honor or morals.Keep your head up.

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I once hooked up with chick, I ****ed her, and her ex was still begging her to come back and even sent her a lot money for travel, which we used for shopping :cheer: .That's how it is guys.After you are done with her, CUT HER OFF.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

After woman dumps you she gets pleasure from two things :

1) you begging
2) cheating on you in the meantime with other guy

If you beg and she ****s other guy she is in heaven - double pleasure. Perfect "revenge". Yes, they are that stupid,emotionless and retarded. It's very common.I had chick who was getting facial from me when her ex was sending text after text how she loves her,how he wants to marry her, how he cares.I felt sorry about the guy but it was a lesson about woman's nature.If you are woman's old toy don't ****ing beg - you giving her double pleasure.

NEVER BE THAT GUY If chick dumped you ALWAYS assume some other dude is nailing her already.

 

[JohnChops]

Yup, I was talking to this one girl and she showed me her "exes" voice mail of him crying and begging for her back. It was ****ing pathetic,I didn't even realize people did that.

 

[BraddH]

Yup, I was talking to this one girl and she showed me her "exes" voice mail of him crying and begging for her back. It was ****ing pathetic,I didn't even realize people did that.

You are even more pathetic for feeling pathetic to that guy. And also, stop spending time with those girls, it is not worth it.

 

[JohnChops]

You are even more pathetic for feeling pathetic to that guy. And also, stop spending time with those girls, it is not worth it.

oh snap guess im pathetic now , doesnt matter had sex!:crackup:

 

[BraddH]

oh snap guess im pathetic now , doesnt matter had sex!:crackup:

Sex ain't a big deal. But pathetic is!

 

[beyondunplugged]

This is true guys. When I was about 20-21 I got in contact with an old crush of mine and we had on/off again relationship for about three years. It got pretty bad and I was pretty much a ***** by the end of that but I wrote her countless e-mails. I don't know what I even said because it was about 4-5 years ago.

Anyways, I got back on Facebook and reconnected with her. We talked a lot and even considering trying again. Well guess what? One night I was chilling and she sent me a snapchat picture of ALL THE E-MAILS I EVER SENT HER. Again I really have no idea what I said although I'm sure it was pretty *****. I mean it was the way I felt at the time but I was really young and inexperienced so it memorialized that whole part of my life.

Anyways, I considered trying to "rekindle" just far enough to where I could get to her e-mail inbox and delete them HAHAHAH.

Then I just said you know what? Whatever, that's how I felt back then. I'll own what I said.

Point is, that ***** KEPT EVERY SINGLE E-MAIL FOR OVER 5 YEARS. Still has them.

Low and behold I cut her out about 2 weeks after getting back in contact with her but still, now it bothers the **** out of me that she has that ****.

Moral of the story.

Never write an e-mail, posting, text, voicemail or anything that can be stored in any format unless you'd be comfortable having that held against you for the rest of your life.

 

[Thorninmyside]

oh snap guess im pathetic now , doesnt matter had sex!:crackup:

Repped for The Lonely Island reference.

 

[VladPatton]

This is why you gotta limit texts, and keep them short. Very short...write like a caveman! And never, ever leave a pathetic voicemail, what's the matter with those mudderfaqquas????

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

This is why you gotta limit texts, and keep them short. Very short...write like a caveman! And never, ever leave a pathetic voicemail, what's the matter with those mudderfaqquas????

True, one of 48th Law of Power is to keep your ****ing mouth shut. The more you talk the more likely you will say something stupid. And it will happen if emotions are involved.I learned it the hard way.When I begged my Oneitis to comeback I wrote so much **** ... don't get me started ... not only I made myself look pathethic but it didn't help at all. Never ever write anything in emotional state you will really regret it later.

After woman dumps you she also dumps all the loyality - so expect your emails,texts and whatever be shared with all her friends and especially the new guy who is nailing her.This is how women built trust with new guy - by sharing her ex secrets and confidential information with new guy.

You should never trust your GF too much. Always keep in mind - if it ends in ugly breakup - will this information damage me ?

 

[JohnChops]

True, one of 48th Law of Power is to keep your ****ing mouth shut. The more you talk the more likely you will say something stupid. And it will happen if emotions are involved.I learned it the hard way.When I begged my Oneitis to comeback I wrote so much **** ... don't get me started ... not only I made myself look pathethic but it didn't help at all. Never ever write anything in emotional state you will really regret it later.

After woman dumps you she also dumps all the loyality - so expect your emails,texts and whatever be shared with all her friends and especially the new guy who is nailing her.This is how women built trust with new guy - by sharing her ex secrets and confidential information with new guy.

You should never trust your GF too much. Always keep in mind - if it ends in ugly breakup - will this information damage me ?

taht bold is the ****ing truth

 

[nzsnowman]

Unfortunately this is true. I had a bad case of oneitis last summer (winter for those in the northern hemisphere) and in the beginning when things were going well she told me about all this awkward desperate **** other guys had said or done to her.

Like her Christian ex-boyfriend crying in front of her and all her friends at a beach party begging her to take him back.

Or her other ex who had claimed to be an amazing kisser because he had experience with 30 stage kisses or something, when in reality he was terrible.

Like an idiot I eventually fell into a beta mentality, texting her way too much, sending her those sarcastic OBVIOUS emotionally charged messages on Facebook when she wasn't responding, getting emotional when she got emotional, etc. It was pathetic and I'm really not proud of it.

Unfortunately those Facebook messages will never go away. They will be a constant reminder to her of my beta behaviour. She told me about those other guys, why wouldn't she tell new guys about me?

 

[yoyoing]

Everybody at one point or another get very stupid/weak/emotional ...
The point you have to remember is not to feel ashamed of your action but work on not repeating them in the future. Remember it's only one girl ... Who care what SHE thinks there's alot of other people in the world. We are all the pathetic ex of someone else.
Alot of this is the ego. There is no ego when you live in the present. You can reinvent your life everyday.