YoungSir DayGame Direct Journal

[YoungSir4sho]

Some of u know me some don't. I'm 25 wit my own crib, good job, live in NYC, black,had alot of gfs but been in a slump for like 2-3 months. It's real frustrating so I'm gonna start doing direct game in da daytime.

I play ball so my goal is to talk to at least 10 girls a day fo 5 days each week until I find da right girl/ girls fo me. I would def like a great LTR but only wit da right one. I work from 12 am to 8am 5 days a week so sumtimes it could b difficult having da WiLL to do it 5 days. But I will to I reach my goal. I will update this daily.

 

[macallik]

I might end up with a similar work schedule. Anyways I'll be watching from Chicago. Good luck

 

[YoungSir4sho]

Well one week from when I made this thread.. And all I did was nothing besides play ball n watch my lakers win another championship lol.. It's sad tho cuz I've been procastinating to go outside after work and talk to girls..

What I usually do after work like 9am is watch sum tv, then 10am I go to the park and practice for 2 or 3 hours.. When it's like 1pm I'm tired and just play few videogames then sleep at like 3 or 4 till 11 then I wake up for work.. That's basically my routine for 5 days...

It's now officially summer.. My choices r to do this direct game and keep talking to girls everyday.. Or keep doing the online game which rarely works n mayb ge lucky wit a few for this summer like how I always do.. Or do the phone chat like vibe or live links n get a few girls from that...

My choice will b doing direct game this whole summer starting today.. So after I play ball from like 10 to 12 I will wash up then go outside to the mall, etc n talk to some girls.. Let's see wat happens later on today..

 

[escaleraroyal]

how is that a good job from 12am to 8am?

 

[YoungSir4sho]

Good job meanin as good paying job for now.. I'm a doorman... Don't really do nothing at work.. Before I was a doorman 2 years ago I always used to stay up till like 5 or 6am anyways so y not do a 12 am to 8am shift getting paid feel me.. Anyways I'm almost done from work 1 hour left so hopefully today will be a good day.. I'll update u guys Tom Mornin when I'm at work..

 

[YoungSir4sho]

Dis is terrible.. Just finished practicing outside.. N now I don't feel like going to the mall to talk to girls.. Y is it that I feel like can take on the world earlier but then when it's almost time to do it I back down??? Anyone else feels this way sometimes?? I know I'm easily capable of going outside to the mall by myself n talking to hb9's n up but it's such a struggle sometimes to do it...

So choice is to either lay down n go to sleep for a few hours.. Or get ready n go talk to some girls....

 

[n00bPimp]

You should always do warm up approaches before going up to the hbs. Ask functional openers, like ask for directions, even if its to an old man, open 3 or 4 warm up sets and this will get you into a social mood.
Even if you dont approach, here are 2 excercises i want you to do when you go out anywhere.

1. Everytime you see a hot girl you will smile, it doesnt have to be at them, it could be after they passed you or when they're just near you. This excercise is to rewire your brain into feeling positive when you see a hot girl. Do this 100 times and you will start feeling a difference, do it 500 times and your perspective on women will be very different. Rather than getting into an anxious, defensive, 'what the **** do i do' mode, you will feel happy and comfortable when you see a hot girl.

2. When you go out, observe your environment. See what everyone is wearing, what the place looks like, look for funny things all around you. Pay attention to everything. This will do 2 things, it will get you out of your head, and it will give you something to talk about when you see a hot girl, if you chose to approach her. For example, if you see a hot girl and you notice that her and her friend have matching outfits, you can comment on that, or if shes wearing your favorite color, or if you notice a stray dog... etc, you get the point.
Good luck man

 

[escaleraroyal]

But i think it's unhealthy to work over night.

 

[YoungSir4sho]

Good looking out Noob.. As most know I didn't go yesterday n instead fell asleep.... I will try those out tho Noob... Cuz I always do get looks from good lookin girls.. Few smile etc.. I usually have that grill on my face or just normal face when i see them.. I don't smile but I need to when I see them.. I guess I didn't wanna smile cuz if I did n they just look thinking y am I smiling at them for like if I'm weird or something.. But I will do it from now on..

Today is a new day, I get off from work in 30mins.. At 10am I will practice again playing ball.. Then b finished by 1.. This time I will leave my crib at 2 n sarge.. I'll update u guys lata on

 

[YoungSir4sho]

So today I finally got sick of da situation that I was in n finally went out to da mall n talked to some girls. I played basketball earlier after work then about 12pm I got ready for da mall.. I was planning on going by myself n when i was heading for the train I saw one of my friends that used to wing wit me to talk to girls so he wanted to come along.. So we get to the mall about 1:40.. He already starts talking to like 3 or 4 wit no success.. It's about 2:15 n i still haven't talked to one.

So when we was going up the esclator I said excuse me to this girl n was trying to talk but she just ignored me n I said word u can't even talk n jus laughed.. She was hb7.5...... 2nd one was in a store she was working as a cashier.. No one was basically in there except for her co worker so I said excuse me.. I was walking by n I just had to talk to u.. She said thanks but then said she's working n can't talk.. I'm like wats ur name n said nope can't tell me.. I'm lmao n I'm like iight n leave.. My friend was talking to her co worker n wasn't getting anything either.. Lata on my friend finally gets a number but she was 38 but still at least he got something.. That was like his 10th girl he talked to..

So my 3rd was in payless.. Went in da store to talk to her.. She said can I help u.. I said yea n said my lines n she said she had a man..

Basically I was Lil depressed dat I kept getting rejected.. So i tell my friend let's leave.. It's basically 3pm now.. Once we get out da train I see this girl n say can I talk to u.. She said no lol.. Yup dat was my day today... I'm gonna keep on trying but i think I'm done wit da mall scene.. Gonna try talking to girls outside n places like that.. Wat does everyone think i should do..

 

[T From CA]

So today I finally got sick of da situation that I was in n finally went out to da mall n talked to some girls. I played basketball earlier after work then about 12pm I got ready for da mall.. I was planning on going by myself n when i was heading for the train I saw one of my friends that used to wing wit me to talk to girls so he wanted to come along.. So we get to the mall about 1:40.. He already starts talking to like 3 or 4 wit no success.. It's about 2:15 n i still haven't talked to one.

So when we was going up the esclator I said excuse me to this girl n was trying to talk but she just ignored me n I said word u can't even talk n jus laughed.. She was hb7.5...... 2nd one was in a store she was working as a cashier.. No one was basically in there except for her co worker so I said excuse me.. I was walking by n I just had to talk to u.. She said thanks but then said she's working n can't talk.. I'm like wats ur name n said nope can't tell me.. I'm lmao n I'm like iight n leave.. My friend was talking to her co worker n wasn't getting anything either.. Lata on my friend finally gets a number but she was 38 but still at least he got something.. That was like his 10th girl he talked to..

So my 3rd was in payless.. Went in da store to talk to her.. She said can I help u.. I said yea n said my lines n she said she had a man..

Basically I was Lil depressed dat I kept getting rejected.. So i tell my friend let's leave.. It's basically 3pm now.. Once we get out da train I see this girl n say can I talk to u.. She said no lol.. Yup dat was my day today... I'm gonna keep on trying but i think I'm done wit da mall scene.. Gonna try talking to girls outside n places like that.. Wat does everyone think i should do..

When do you sleep? I used to work the graveyard shift and I would be sluggish and groggy all day because I couldn't sleep more than a couple hours at a time.

 

[macallik]

B1tches be tripping haha.

Better luck tomorrow. Keep em coming.

 

[YoungSir4sho]

Idk it's weird wit me.. Alot of ppl don't like da graveyard shift but I kind of love it.. The main reason y I do is cuz I'm used to being up late at night.. Before I was even working I used to play videogames all night long till like 7am or b on the computer all night feel me.. So I feel like if I was doin that for free imagine working gettin paid to stay up while ppl r sleeping.. Depends how tired I am.. Sometimes I'm knocked out once I get home for like 4 or 5 hours.. Then I'm up da whole day till bout 9 n get 2 more hours sleep.. Most days I get from 3 to 5 hours of sleep unfortunately n dats not even straight cuz like u said it's hard to stay sleep da whole time... Eh I get my hours bac newayz on da weekends mostly sleep da whole sunday so it's cool..


N yea I'm gonna keep on trying wit these girls no matter wat.. If i get rejected this whole summer then so b it.. I want whoever is following this to join me n start talking to girls also.. I know it sucks to get rejected or ignored but it's the only way we will get success... I feel like even tho I'm getting alil depressed from the rejections... Sooner or later I'm gonna pull through.. Don't kno when.. But when it happens u guys will b da 1st to know.. At work now so if any1 wanna talk hit da pm box or in here..

 

[T From CA]

Stay with it man, I'm already counting down to my weekend day approaches

 

[Junkyard]

Dayam Youngsir still grinding or what?! Nice. Ive was seeing a girl for a bit but im back on the scene. Lmk if u wanna hit up the city!

 

[YoungSir4sho]

Yea I'm still gettin it in junkyard.. Yea let me kno whas good wit dis week or next week in da city..

Yesterday I talked to 2 girls.. When i got off from work a girl was coming out of da train so I said how u doing but she continued to walk lmao.. Idk if imma continue to count ones that don't say anything back...


N da other one was when I got out my train station walking home I saw this hb7. I walked slower so I can wait for her to catch up to me. She had her iPod but I didn't care. I stopped n said excuse me.. She stopped n took one earpierce off. I said I saw her walking by n I had to talk to her cuz she was beautiful.. She said thank you and then started to walk off.. I said can we talk.. She said no... Lmaoooooo

Idk if I should use da beautiful line in... I'm usually against complimenting a girl looks especially when we first talk.. Should I continue that?? So in total so far I'm 0-6... Goal for the summer is to talk to at least 1000 girls before sept... Hopefully i won't b 0-1000 but if so.. So b it lmao...

 

[Junkyard]

Aite im mostly likely gonna be out in LES this weekend.

The thing about subway approaches is people already feel uncomfortable in general, so they get even more uncomfortable by someone approaching them. I'd stick to parks and malls for daygaming. But then again, any practice is good for getting rid of aa and desensitizing yourself.

Complimenting looks is not a good thing to say in the beginning. It's like your paying her a compliment and expecting her to respond positively. Its validation seeking. Besides, this is NYC so girls get hollered at constantly with the "baby you look good" lines. Approach her with the "she seems interesting, i'd like to get to know her" mindset. And then later you can compliment if you want, just make sure its genuine.

 

[YoungSir4sho]

Yea imma try that.. I talked to 2 yesterday but none said anything back. I never said this b4 but me n this girl that works in mcdonalds I liked for awhile now.. I talked to her a month ago etc for a few mins but she was busy.. So I decided to write alil letter wit my number in it. I went there yesterday n she was at the cashier.. I handed her the letter afta i paid for the food.. She looks at me like what is it lol.. I said don't worry n she opens the letter n I said u could wait cuz the other ppl was waitin so she took care of them... I'm guessing she put it in her pocket n read it later on.. I doubt she gonna call ke but I had to at least try...

 

[n00bPimp]

Good **** man. I think you have what it takes.

 

[r0cky]

Yea imma try that.. I talked to 2 yesterday but none said anything back. I never said this b4 but me n this girl that works in mcdonalds I liked for awhile now.. I talked to her a month ago etc for a few mins but she was busy.. So I decided to write alil letter wit my number in it. I went there yesterday n she was at the cashier.. I handed her the letter afta i paid for the food.. She looks at me like what is it lol.. I said don't worry n she opens the letter n I said u could wait cuz the other ppl was waitin so she took care of them... I'm guessing she put it in her pocket n read it later on.. I doubt she gonna call ke but I had to at least try...

Something I like about you is that you're fearless and will try anything. this is key to becoming succesful at pick-up. A lot of guys take time to get over their fear of approach and this slows down their progress at the beginning, so they usually end up giving up.
I see that you have the right form and now all you need are the right tools. You're like a pro basketball player with a bumpy ball. We gotta meet up sometime so i can show you a few tricks of the trade.