Younger women, don't want my head and heart mashed up.

[englishman]

What do you think? I'm 53, I'm in not bad shape. Can't be that ugly as get women giving me their phone numbers time to time and occasionally taking me home for sex

So I was watching a band out doors in the city where I live, a pretty young thing came and sat close by. So I asked her what she thought of the music... seemed friendly, and said she was in this country for 3 weeks so far and staying 3 months total before going back to Asia.

She's just finished university and having a long break. She's 24 and so sexy!

Got her number..

So I called her up and we spent the afternoon and evening together, got on really well... subject turned to sex more than a few times, and I figured I'm in here.

So we ended up back at my place, fooled around, didn't get that far but didn't push it. Rubbing her up through her clothes etc..

Anyway drove her back to where she was staying.

She kept saying what a great time she had....

I was thinking fvck, I got to be careful here... it's almost like a fantasy come true! She turned up in this tight vest with lovely t1ts and cut off denim shorts that were so short.

We messaged each other, again how she had a great time....

So I'm thinking, things like that are almost like so good, so one off, that its almost like taking crack or something.... I couldn't sleep that night....

If it went so far as banging her and hanging out for the rest of her stay.... I honestly think I would be heart broken when she left, I can tell it would be one of those. Not to be a pvssy but it does happen right.

How to handle it??????

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

What do you think? I'm 53, I'm in not bad shape. Can't be that ugly as get women giving me their phone numbers time to time and occasionally taking me home for sex

So I was watching a band out doors in the city where I live, a pretty young thing came and sat close by. So I asked her what she thought of the music... seemed friendly, and said she was in this country for 3 weeks so far and staying 3 months total before going back to Asia.

She's just finished university and having a long break. She's 24 and so sexy!

Got her number..

So I called her up and we spent the afternoon and evening together, got on really well... subject turned to sex more than a few times, and I figured I'm in here.

So we ended up back at my place, fooled around, didn't get that far but didn't push it. Rubbing her up through her clothes etc..

Anyway drove her back to where she was staying.

She kept saying what a great time she had....

I was thinking fvck, I got to be careful here... it's almost like a fantasy come true! She turned up in this tight vest with lovely t1ts and cut off denim shorts that were so short.

We messaged each other, again how she had a great time....

So I'm thinking, things like that are almost like so good, so one off, that its almost like taking crack or something.... I couldn't sleep that night....

If it went so far as banging her and hanging out for the rest of her stay.... I honestly think I would be heart broken when she left, I can tell it would be one of those. Not to be a pvssy but it does happen right.

How to handle it??????

The handle it around here by calling these young ones with short attention spans "h0es". They make one into a plate and run several plates. The plates are going to do what they are going to do. But you set it up so you can have sex on demand with most of your plates, and if one leaves you just get another.

You can't lock onto one of these, because they are very impressionable and have a very short attention span. Plus your age gap is just too great unless you have a lot going on for yourself and even then you need several of these because some will join your flock and others will leave.

 

[englishman]

The handle it around here by calling these young ones with short attention spans "h0es". They make one into a plate and run several plates. The plates are going to do what they are going to do. But you set it up so you can have sex on demand with most of your plates, and if one leaves you just get another.

You can't lock onto one of these, because they are very impressionable and have a very short attention span. Plus your age gap is just too great unless you have a lot going on for yourself and even then you need several of these because some will join your flock and others will leave.

Sounds about right... for sure the age gap is too big and yes, the short attention span of young women like that.

I think I'll just have to tread that fine line and take the ***** and not get all soppy about things.

I'll come back here if I start to lose the plot and I need a ***** slap to remind me!

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

Sounds about right... for sure the age gap is too big and yes, the short attention span of young women like that.

I think I'll just have to tread that fine line and take the ***** and not get all soppy about things.

I'll come back here if I start to lose the plot and I need a ***** slap to remind me!

You can't stop on this one, keep it moving and you'll be fine.

 

[hithard]

What part of Asia was she from?

 

[englishman]

What part of Asia was she from?

Taiwan

 

[sodbuster]

SOME parts of Asia, the women LIKE older men. SHe MAY be looking to "wife up" to an old man. Maybe a green card deal or not..... Take her for a run and see what shakes out

 

[Cloudtopsun2100]

DO IT MAN. You are 53, you need to just have some fun. When she goes just tell her you will be in Asia sometime (trust me, you should go, its a nice place) and that you guys can kick it again. Proceed to pipeline other girls and set yourself up for an epic annual leave vacation later this year or early next year.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

You are old enough to know life and everything is not about to last forever but to enjoy the moment.You may be dead in year, so who care if she leaves you, enjoy the moments and let it go when it happen.

 

[hithard]

I love asian girls and some can have fantastic personalities when you first meet them. Don't fall head over heels though. Heaps of guys are not use to how well they can treat you. Relationships and attention spans can burn out pretty quick if you say or do the wrong thing. Enjoy it if you don't fold easily

 

[mikey2012]

Master Don Juan


If I were you I would stay WELL AWAY. This is what is going to happen ..

You will taste that young wet Asian Poon Tang and you will get emotionally involved.

She will make you feel special and young again and she will want to fuk you 6x a day.

You won't be able to keep up even if you wanted to, which makes you even more thirsty for her.

She will be up for anything, BJ in parks, 3somes etc. You will feel horny for her all the time.

You will fall in love with her and want to get married and start again.

She will string you along and ultimately she will dump you in which you will spend the next few years trying to get over her.

SO DONT DO IT...
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[englishman]

Master Don Juan


If I were you I would stay WELL AWAY. This is what is going to happen ..

You will taste that young wet Asian Poon Tang and you will get emotionally involved.

She will make you feel special and young again and she will want to fuk you 6x a day.

You won't be able to keep up even if you wanted to, which makes you even more thirsty for her.

She will be up for anything, BJ in parks, 3somes etc. You will feel horny for her all the time.

You will fall in love with her and want to get married and start again.

She will string you along and ultimately she will dump you in which you will spend the next few years trying to get over her.

SO DONT DO IT...
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All sounds good except for getting dumped at the end. You can get dumped by a 40 year old fatty too though, so phuk it I'll take my chances.

 

[glass half full]

Go for it Englishman! You're old enough to know better than getting stuck thinking about her for years if it stops. Spin those plates and live! At least she's not a snotty American witch. Enjoy

 

[englishman]

We plan to get together on Saturday. I'll update as to how it goes.

 

[englishman]

So we met up on Saturday in the afternoon. I'd got a message that sort of read that she wont be staying out late....

Anyway, we meet up... she's friendly and considering we'd only met twice before things felt OK, not awkward or anything.

Drove her around to a couple of places I know out of the way, one down by the beach.

Chatted a lot on the drive around... sex comes up a lot in our conversations... she a bit kinky, that's OK by me.

Anyway down by the beach came up the subject of my age again, up to this point I hadn't told her.... but it came up, was going to get stinky, so I chopped 10 years off and she seemed to go along with me being 43, made a bit of a joke about me being her uncle, so I smacked her on the ass and she shrieked and ran off down the beach laughing.... 43 year old 'uncle' giving chase.

Then we sat on these rocks looking at the scenery, she on the rock, me stood on the ground I had my head at about her pvssy height as she squatted down... so I stroked her thigh/ ass with my finger, she smiled , her eyes light up... but she moved away laughing.

Long story short, I ended up dropping her off, she gave me a big old hug and said she had a good time, and we agreed to meet again and drink some wine.

I since heard off her a couple times, sent her email address I asked for and I missed a call from her Sunday.

My thoughts on it so far???? I think I'm on a bit of a roll... had a couple of good experiences with 2 other women last few days. One of them has a kid and just separated, I'm not saying I'm taking the kid on or anything crazy...but she's a bit more mature, easy going and thats OK.... and she's old enough that it wouldn't be too odd to be seen together... also she lives in town where as the young hot one is leaving here in about 7 weeks or so. Another was a gorgeous Korean women in her 30's. Also a Japanese women I was seeing but got mad at her and she cried, seem to have re kindled the flame.

I'll still do the young one if I get the chance, but as I said in my post title, I don't want to get my head and my heart mashed in, and falling for this hot kinky Asian chick only to have to go tot the airport and wave goodbye.... well it has heart ache stamped all over it. And honestly in my life I've had so much saying good bye to old lovers, dying friends and relatives... I really don't think its good for my health.

So I'll see what happens, at the moment I'm feeling a bit relieved to actually not be quite as obsessed with her. I was reading about plate theory again and it makes a lot of sense to have other options and therefore not be devastated by 'the one' or this particular one.

 

[englishman]

But dam that young pvssy! Makes a man motivated!!!!!

 

[hockeyfreak79]

It's just your turn, ride the wave until it crashes.....no regrets!

 

[englishman]

A few things happened.... I sent a couple of ideas for things to do over to her.

Then yesterday at work, I got a text off her " I'm sorry but I won't be able to go to these beautiful places with you, I have to go back to Taiwan, maybe as soon as the weekend, kind of an emergency"

So my first thoughts were, this is probably BS, and maybe after saying I was 43 that was maybe a deal breaker.

So I messaged her back, hey really? it's OK... if it's my age or you don't want to hang out I'd understand.

She came back with "no no, you are so kind to me and its genuine"

So anyway i was installing doors at work, and I ended up putting the door in the wrong way round....

Called her after I'd finished work, she said "yep... family says come home and probably going to book a ticket in the evening, will text or email if its confirmed"

We agreed to get together before she goes, even if it was later today and she flies tomorrow, or maybe tomorrow and she flies out on the weekend.

When I woke up this morning there was a missed call off her at 1.45am . I turn my phone off at night so I don't get woken up by it... maybe that one I wouldn't have minded being woken up for.

Anyway thats where its at, so I guess I'll see what happens.... if she's going or staying.

Kind of a bit to much drama, but then again maybe I'm getting a bit of an old duffer and need dragging out of my comfort zone... Will see! Maybe I'll get to see that pvssy yet.

 

[englishman]

I would say this is neither her making drama nor you being old. It sounds like moderate interest on her part, and you have sort of a "sniper" mentality when you should be expanding your game and talking to other women. Simple as that.

Thanks, sounds about right.

 

[englishman]

Bit of a weird ending to this one.

What happened was I met up with her last night. We had arranged to meet up and drinks in a couple of bars in the gay district... she found it intriguing and it was something she wanted to do and I was OK with it.

So we meet in this pub, she'd bought her ticket back to Taiwan, sort of waved it at me and said " the leaving Englishman ticket" and I was a bit like... hmmm not really liking the kind of put down there.

So we eat and a couple drinks, we loosen up a bit, she gets out her phone and starts showing me pictures of her family and friends back in Taiwan....

When I saw her friends pictures I was thinking phuk they'er young!! and then I saw her parents and thought phuk they might even be a bit younger than I am.

So the drinks were flowing and I showed her some of my pictures, even went as far as to show her a picture of me as a young father..... at the time I was thinking probably not the smartest thing to do (understatement ... did it anyway. Hard to describe why, but by this time the alcohol had hit..

At that point I think it all tumbled a bit in her brain that, hey this Englishman might just be old enough to be my father and may have a daughter that's older than me.

So we leave that pub and go to this gay disco across the street... inside it's a mix of young people, some gay some straight and a drag show.

So she orders drinks, jaegar bombs and heineken.... we throw those down and start dancing to the music....

Goes on like this for about an hour, by this time both pretty drunk.

We head out of there and walk down to the beach by my place... must have been 1.am

on the way there talked about going to this local attraction today.... she saying what time shall we meet..... me thinking that we were at my place and hoping we would be sleeping together and still be together in the morning.

Into my apartment, open a bottle of wine... she sits on a chair, me on the couch...

So I say , hey come sit over here... she pulls a bit of a face and says no.... this went on for a while, she just sat in the chair... it was obvious at this point that nothing was going to happen...

Then she started giving me the lets just be friends speech!!!

At that point, I just sort of got pissed off. I said no, I have lots of friends thanks, come sit over here....

She says if your going to be like that im leaving when this glass of wine is finished.

And then waves the empty wine glass... as if to say Im leaving....

So I took the initiative and I got up and walked to the door and opened it...

She looked a bit shocked, and said will you walk me to the taxi stand..... so I said OK.

We walk for 5 minutes to the taxi place..... I couldn't contain the fact that I was a mixture of disappointed, a bit rejected and also feeling a bit like pissed off that I'd sort of done all this dancing around and ended up with no sex.


so I barely said a word to her and the atmosphere got real stinky in those 5 minutes...

We got to the taxi stand and I flagged a cab down, she got in and I just "bye" and turned around and walked away... no hug, no good bye...

It wasn't anything like I would have expected it to be. That thing crashed and burned over a 10 minute time span.

But anyway that was that... In a way I found that all to anxiety inducing....

My old man who is a bit of a casanova once said to me that, "you'd think being with young women would make you feel young, but it doesn't it make you feel older"

And I have to agree in this case at least it did...

Give me a chick thats in her late 30's early 40's one who I can relate a bit better too and I don't have to have this secret about my real age.