Younger man/ older woman reality show….WTF???

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Sinistar said:
The socio-programming is telling him that older women are more experienced (think the typical High School male fantasy of having an older woman rock his world, teach him everything, etc).
Older women ARE more experienced. It's basic common sense that an older woman will have more experience. The longer a woman has lived, the more sexual experience she will have, granting she is attractive...though you can't necessarily confuse "experience" with how "good" they are in bed. A MILF can have slept with 150 guys in her life which would give her a lot of experience, but she can still suck at giving you sexual pleasure.
 

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edger said:
Older women ARE more experienced. It's basic common sense that an older woman will have more experience. The longer a woman has lived, the more sexual experience she will have, granting she is attractive...though you can't necessarily confuse "experience" with how "good" they are in bed. A MILF can have slept with 150 guys in her life which would give her a lot of experience, but she can still suck at giving you sexual pleasure.
...I agree with you, older people have more experiences in life by default (because they are older) and older women [in general] will have more sexual experiences than you currently at age 27.

However, I'm trying to make a point from my past experiences - with older women. That it was a farce. When I was your age I probably would have written exactly what you did. I would have been proud of hooking up with an older babe. Heck, if she had a nice home and nice car left after a messy divorce that was even better. I have to laugh because my mentality was that of bagging a cougar was a trophy. Yuck!!!

What should I have been doing instead?

I should have been dating those fine younger HB's. Sure they are flaky, quirky, shallow, etc. But guess what, I would have been learning [at a much younger age] how to lead and take charge - instead of repeatedly falling into the cougar's frame. Basically wasting a lot of my time. A man who learns early in life how to shape and guide a woman to his liking (w/o being a pr!ck) will be the one who ultimately has that fine HB hanging on his arm, looking up to him when he talks to others and walking beside him, not ahead of him. If he's lucky he'll end up with a few good lookin' well behaved kids too.

And then there's logic. These older women (at your age) are no big deal. But come back here when you're 35 or even better yet 40+ and tell us again that the older women are the ticket. Tell us this when your 40 and the older women is like 48 or 50+

I don't think I'm alone in my advice. Countless guys have went through the older woman stage and come out of it discouraged, feeling their time was wasted and with lots of needless emotional crap and drama along the way. Your actual mileage may vary.
 

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Look at the flip side of this.

I think it makes large dating gaps more acceptable. Let's face it, North America is one of the few places in the world where a guy in his 30s dating a 20 year old will be looked upon as unacceptable. It is one of most conservative places in the world.

Maybe this type of show works in our favour??? The 40 year old bags won't be so bitter when we date 20 year olds?
 

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Sinistar said:
And then there's logic. These older women (at your age) are no big deal. But come back here when you're 35 or even better yet 40+ and tell us again that the older women are the tickert. Tell us this when your 40 and the older women is like 48 or 50+....
Oh why did you go there???!!!! :woo:

But you're right. Years ago I wouldn't have mind going out with a woman 10-12 years older. In the last couple of years I've cut that number by half, however I've doubled my younger range from 4 years to 8. The problem I'm running into is an abundance of younger women who want to start families. That's why I don't actively sarge women younger than 30, it seems that they all would like a little Francisco running around.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
The problem I'm running into is an abundance of younger women who want to start families. That's why I don't actively sarge women younger than 30, it seems that they all would like a little Francisco running around.
Doesn't Francisco mean "Little Frank" already?
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Doesn't Francisco mean "Little Frank" already?
Hey, that's a bit personal!!! :woo:
 

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edger said:
Older women ARE more experienced. It's basic common sense that an older woman will have more experience.
Common sense and woman do not ever belong in the same sentence. Not the same zip code or even on the same fvcking planet.

Ever.
 

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this show is going to be wicked, it stars Mark the 'poo' Philapoussis. He's from my suburb. GO POO!
 
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This is so passe - a continuum of the feminist hor agenda - "Older hors are just as desirable as young hors" -- as Cypher in The Matrix said, "What a mind job!!!!!" Hors, Homos, and the most corrupted are owners of the Media!!!
 

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This is so passe - a continuum of the feminist hor agenda - "Older hors are just as desirable as young hors" -- as Cypher in The Matrix said, "What a mind job!!!!!" Hors, Homos, and the most corrupted are owners of the Media!!!
Is it just me, or does this dude always sound like someone's crotchety old grandpa?
 

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Is it just me, or does this dude always sound like someone's crotchety old grandpa?
Crotchety old geezer who is apparently infatuated with the Matrix films.


And 'hors . . .
 

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Haha, saw most of the show on DVR tonite.

I have to admit a couple of the cougars looked decent. I liked Lyn??? the 40 yr old (I think), she was pretty cute. And the one 46 or 48 year old that looked about 38 was pretty hot too.

Still no substitute for smooth skin, firm breasts, and the tight ass of a woman in her 20's......
 

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Dunno, watched this show with my 23 yo gf and I have to say, MOST of the older ladies were FAR better than the younger ones. That is just my opinion but a few things I noticed...

1) I couldn't stand the attitude of the 20-somethings. Totally turned me off. Something about the immaturity really gets me now. Its like talking to aliens, or people of a foreign language. I can LEARN it and DO it, but it fricking hurts my brain.

2) The 40 year old ladies were not marginally WORSE than the younger ones, the Delta is so minimal that unless some 20 something beauty knocked me over with her personality, most of the 40 year old women would win. I saw only 1 40 yo woman resort to being immature, and that was when they monopolized said bachelor's time.

3) I dug the chests and bodies. Lord knows the older women, by and large, will be FAR more sexually confident and well-rounded. As beautiful as those women feel IN society, and IN clothes, they're very insecure behind closed doors. An older women albeit has run the gamut, BUT, she has been through alot and to look like that is incredible. SURE, when he's their age, it's a HUGE setback in the looks department, but you don't have the crap of younger women.

4) To say this won't piss off younger girls who solely rely on looks is an understatement. My own gf continued to ask..."but guys wouldn't want that right?" I was like.."are you kidding? I'd take a 40 yo all day everyday if they're like those women, but not all women are like that." Some of them needed more makeup, but by and large, unless she's an escort, a ONS, and a FWB, a 20 something isn't worth it. She hasn't shaken those mental issues out yet.

I've gone as low as 17 yo with a hard body, big boobies, and a round rump, and there's FEW girls who can be matched personally to a mature woman. Once you cross the banging/hormonal stage, there's more to be offered by an older woman. Culture. Cooking. A settled home. Better social skills. The allowance of a man to do what he wants without feeling neglected. Her own sense of purpose, hobbies, and life. Sure, some of those ladies had children, and no guy should take a used woman, but ya know, some women DO make mistakes. Some DO get knocked up, and the guy is a total wimp and she's left bereft. None of us is 100% infallible, so we can't put their divorce or children on society, feminism, or anyone else. Just life. Just the roll. My own aunt was lovingly married for 16 years, 4 great kids, the perfect wife ANY guy here would want, a milf to boot, and my executive uncle awoke from his drunken stupor to realize marriage and kids weren't his thing. Divorced her a year later. Then had the audacity to remarry just 2 weeks ago, a mere 2 years later after saying marriage wasn't his thing. In that situation was there anything she could have done? Yeah, not marry him, or divorce him while having kids, something MOST dedicated women won't consider if there's no reason or abuse. I chuck out the theory that all women over 40 with kids/divorced are hores.

It's interesting b/c it doesn't appear the older ladies would get catty...but they are forced to. Moreover, its just low for what I'd consider high quality women to be stupid enough to do such things for attention. Those 40 year old women are FAR fewer and more RARE than the 20 year old hotties. NONE stuck out to me. NONE. Period. 1 had breast implants. The ones who thought they were hot, weren't. Some overworked it. The thing is...and the REAL thing is...women, like men, have no fawking clue what men want or find attractive. All the girls who are beautiul, don't realize, and the ones who think they are, aren't. That's because they judge what's beautiful to MEN from a WOMAN's perspective.

My own gf thinks her blonde 'skinny' friend is more beautiul. This friend is probably a size zero, no boobs whatsoever, no arse to speak of speak, shoulder bones sticking out, and a very thin face with semi pale skin. My gf is tan as can be, brunette hair, highlights, c cups, and booty like Jlo/vida. She's a size 6-7, flat tummy, who always wears revealing, classy clothing. She described her friend as "thin and having a pretty face." I'm like...men don't fawking want that! They want a booty to smack or grab, tits to suck, thights to be wrapped in, and clothes that are filled out. We want curves of some size!" But women don't see that. When a woman is built to breeds kids, they think low of themselves, when in reality, that's probably the most beautiful woman we know, even if your type is skinnier, she probably has SOME butt and SOME boobs, i.e not the typical model.

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20 years of experience, or 2 months of experience repeated over and over for 20 years. And what have they learnt and how did they learn it? Presumably they learnt how to give pleasure to a man according to what they have been shown by other men.

OK if you want to receive the kind of pleasure which another man has taught your woman to give, go ahead and accept it. And when you play your little "experience" games with your cougar, she can then train you to enjoy what she was trained to enjoy. One woman who had been married for 18 years told me that she never had an orgasm even once with her former husband. Great experience.

As for the physical, I refer you to MacAvoy's last thread.
 

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Too many years of tanning and/or smoking can catch up to a woman (free radicals will do what they'll do), but I do see plenty of 40something women that look pretty hot. It's all a matter of how she takes care of herself.

Unfortunately, most youngsters act as if they're immortal, and the oddest thing is that a lot of the gals who are most dependent upon their looks (models, actresses, strippers, etc.) often have the greatest tendency to do things to deteriorate their appearance (smoking, too much alcohol, drugs, tanning), and in 10 or 20 years the nerdy office gal or college professor who keeps in shape looks way younger and hotter.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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I'm telling you guys...the show is designed for a 40+ year old woman to win. And I'm sure they selected the candidates (20s and 40s) with that in mind. 40+ women spent more $$$ on buying products (advertisements) than the 20 somethings.

It is a marketing trick.
 
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