Younger Guy with Slightly Older Woman

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So I'm 19 and I met this 26 year old. Awesome sex, she treats me like a king and is very sexy. The only thing is she's quite a bit older, and that's a red flag to me. Why would she go for the younger man? I don't even have my financial situation straight at this point, don't birds that age want a man with his sh!t together?

One of my friends said he thought it was odd and that got me thinking. Even some of her friends were telling her the same thing, that I'm too young. I like this girl so I would date her, but I'm hesistant. I'd like some outside perspective
 

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What is your goal with this woman? What do you think her goal is regarding this thing with you?
 

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Why would she go for the younger man?
Probably the same thing as female teachers banging their students, which is a more extreme example compared to yours… They need to feel like they're in control of the situation. It most likely stems from their own insecurities or arises from past abuse issues.
Then again, ask yourself why men go for younger women. That might be your answer, but regardless, it will be a learning experience for you. Just don't fall for her.
 
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I think it's a good opportunity. When I was your age the Public Relations officer at my college came on to me several times. I was to stupid to realize what was going on. She was late 20s and hot. I regret not getting some of that. I know better now but alas it's to late.
 

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So I'm 19 and I met this 26 year old. Awesome sex, she treats me like a king and is very sexy. The only thing is she's quite a bit older, and that's a red flag to me. Why would she go for the younger man? I don't even have my financial situation straight at this point, don't birds that age want a man with his sh!t together?

One of my friends said he thought it was odd and that got me thinking. Even some of her friends were telling her the same thing, that I'm too young. I like this girl so I would date her, but I'm hesistant. I'd like some outside perspective
Remember...all women have "Anita Mann" syndrome...so no surprise there!:p
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Probably the same thing as female teachers banging their students, which is a more extreme example compared to yours… They need to feel like they're in control of the situation. It most likely stems from their own insecurities or arises from past abuse issues.
Then again, ask yourself why men go for younger women. That might be your answer, but regardless, it will be a learning experience for you. Just don't fall for her.
Yep, some of the woman want to feel like the "dominant" one in the sexual interaction. Like they know the ropes and teaching...
 

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I think you should just keep smashing and see where it goes
 

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Don't think I need to tell you this--but don't cash in your chips for anything longterm. You'll only be on the up & up--and she's be staring down the decline. Wrap up! Especially if she's financially set.

But, yeah, like others mentioned, the older woman/younger man pair up makes sense on an SMV level. You and she are about even. You get to make use of her experience & higher investment than girls your age; she gets sexual access to a 'hotter' guy than she could get in her age range or older. Easy to frame it for you to open up your side of any potential relationship--"Oh, I'm just young and need the chance to experience life. "
 

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I've dated a fair number of older chicks over the years and they can be intoxicating, especially for the mature male. But understand that they will likely be looking for commitment from age 25 onward, so be wary. I'd carry on spinning other plates.

As has been said, you've got another 20 years before you've reached you're peak (SMV). She's basically reaching hers over the next 5-10 years. Be sure that a younger, hotter model will turn up sooner or later.
 

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The real question: why do YOU feel the need to make this exclusive?

None of us cares what she wants.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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. Why would she go for the younger man?
the same reason men do, either she likes young pretty boys or has a fetish for playing mommy or something like that, maybe she just likes you so much she dates you in spite of your age.

I don't even have my financial situation straight at this point, don't birds that age want a man with his sh!t together?
not every single girl is some gold digger who dates for money lol.

One of my friends said he thought it was odd and that got me thinking. Even some of her friends were telling her the same thing, that I'm too young. I like this girl so I would date her, but I'm hesistant. I'd like some outside perspective
it's totally possible that she's not enough to satisfy the average man who wants to date a 26 year old, so she finds a man who only wants a cute girl to fvck or maybe she doesn't want to settle down and needs to find a man who most likely has no interest in it either
 
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