Feels like? She is a slut lol. She banged a random then got bored of him and dropped him. That's like the most clear cut definition out there
Mods sticky this. I usually keep my plates around because I fvck like champ but if i only made out with a chick or had drinks this is the story of my DJ life the last couple of years.
Nah Read the thread of @classguy its All you need to know for your case. Read it 5 times the rest is history.
We nailed this point for 2018.
Dont ever believe there is "nobody". Women always have plenty of orbiters they can turn to.
ill try to keep this short, this girl 7 years younger than me that I rarely saw at work put herself in my orbit digitally.
High initial attraction? She was telling her office friends about me. We smashed with Vengeance on second date she made it easy. 1 week later I come over instead of watching a second movie I make out with her we smash ( sex wasn’t as good I was hiding being sick)
Next morning she’s a b!tch, she never initiates contact again. And made sure to tell me how busy she had been when I Pinged her each week. After two weeks I asked her out last minute to somewhere I’m going (she’s busy) I call her out, after two weeks of (busy) Kind of beta I know but I figured best to not drag it out. I just had meanwhile been tagging myself doing fun sh!t without inviting her on FB
I got the “moving too fast” “we should slow it down” LJBF and get this “see where things go from there”
I wasted my time explaining my intentions in two long banter texts with her each time saying no to being “just friends without benefits” I told her if she changes her mind let me know Iwant to take a date to said event in two weeks blah blah.
She says she’ll think about it and let me know (every one of our dates she framed as “I’ll let you know”) then forthe third time she says she wants to just be friends and not date. I again explained why that wouldn’t work, “forget about the date for now, let meknow if you change your mind I’d be happy to hear from you maybe we can work something out”
NC has been in effect for 5 days, i did see her at a conference she smiled at me I just stared at her and lookedaway. (I literally couldn’t smile back) I’ve been trying to meet new plates not getting many bites that I’m interested in, only the uglies. I did have a 5.8 following me around last night. I considered... stared right at her. I Got up and left
I guess there’s not much else I can do? What should I have done differently? Remember I work with her so...? What do I do if she starts to breadcrumb me in the future?
She is shy and boring but does have lots of guy friends already, I take her for a man eater/trophy hunter but she did hint at us being long term a few times. I never bit. Also she has terrible acne, how the **** did I get rejected lol
This post is true. Though I don't entirely agree that any contact from hereonout will be her just playing games with him. It very well could be, but it doesn't necessarily have to be. He undoubtedly turned her off (whether it was the size of his peen, bad sex, or his neediness. Most likey his neediness.) But, not to give the guy false hopes, the boomerang could come around again with strict no contact on his part. That's a big maybe. It happened to me several years ago when I was a foolish beta. Reading your reply brought back painful memories for me because those are the exact lessons I had to learn from doing something very similar to what OP did. We had no contact for THREE YEARS. And I had only known her for maybe 6 months. We had no contact in those three years, except for her occasionally dropping me a simple greeting. Three years after she kicked me to the curb, she messaged me on facebook (we had different phone numbers) and she was trying to catch up with me. I arranged a get-together and we smashed. We ended up forming into good FWB. She ended up getting into a LTR with some putzy dude but she still keeps her finger in the water with me. And we both know that if we're both single again, we'd be down to pick up from where we left off.
He did something wrong. When a woman leaves a guy it's always behind something he did wrong i.e. what he said or didn't say, what he did or didn't do. In this case, he chased her like a little puppy when he got the pu$$y instead of ignoring for a few days.
You sound like the product of a single mom. Its female logic. Women can do no wrong.
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High initial attraction? She was telling her office friends about me. We smashed with Vengeance on second date she made it easy. 1 week later I come over instead of watching a second movie I make out with her we smash ( sex wasn’t as good I was hiding being sick)
Next morning she’s a b!tch, she never initiates contact again. And made sure to tell me how busy she had been when I Pinged her each week. After two weeks I asked her out last minute to somewhere I’m going (she’s busy) I call her out, after two weeks of (busy) Kind of beta I know but I figured best to not drag it out. I just had meanwhile been tagging myself doing fun sh!t without inviting her on FB
I got the “moving too fast” “we should slow it down” LJBF and get this “see where things go from there”
I wasted my time explaining my intentions in two long banter texts with her each time saying no to being “just friends without benefits” I told her if she changes her mind let me know Iwant to take a date to said event in two weeks blah blah.
She says she’ll think about it and let me know (every one of our dates she framed as “I’ll let you know”) then forthe third time she says she wants to just be friends and not date. I again explained why that wouldn’t work, “forget about the date for now, let meknow if you change your mind I’d be happy to hear from you maybe we can work something out”
NC has been in effect for 5 days, i did see her at a conference she smiled at me I just stared at her and lookedaway. (I literally couldn’t smile back) I’ve been trying to meet new plates not getting many bites that I’m interested in, only the uglies. I did have a 5.8 following me around last night. I considered... stared right at her. I Got up and left
I guess there’s not much else I can do? What should I have done differently? Remember I work with her so...? What do I do if she starts to breadcrumb me in the future?
She is shy and boring but does have lots of guy friends already, I take her for a man eater/trophy hunter but she did hint at us being long term a few times. I never bit. Also she has terrible acne, how the **** did I get rejected lol
Go **** two other girls at the same job. Lol
