Young girls, age gaps, break ups, mid-life crisis

[mikedee]

As you get older, it's natural to be interested in something more than fleeting encounters with random chicks. And you are right, it is nearly impossible for a man in his late 30's to get girls half his age without lying. There are only two exceptions to this general rule: a) being a celebrity and b) being a sugar daddy. It's safe to assume that you're not a celebrity and it doesn't sound like you have the desire (or the financial means) to be a sugar daddy.

But that doesn't mean you have to go for women your age. A man who is 6'2, attractive and confident enough to cold approach should be able to attract women in their mid to late 20's. Unfortunately, women in that age category tend to be some of the most difficult and disagreeable. By the time they reach 25, most attractive girls are old enough to lose their youthful energy and innocence and become jaded but not old enough to feel pressured by their biological clock. Perhaps that is why you gravitate towards very young girls.

As for the Slovak girl that you wrote about, her future doesn't seem very bright. You may have been the first man to "use" her but you certainly won't be the last. Attractive women get used, period. That's just a fact of life (and the reason why they become so jaded by their mid-20's). And the fact that she's in the modelling industry makes it ten times worse. Despite her upbringing, she has no chance in that kind of environment. It sounds like she has already been introduced to the c0ck carousel this summer. It won't be long until she gets introduced to drugs. Tens years from now, she will be a typical jaded 30 y.o. with what people here like to call "the thousand c0ck stare". You don't need me to tell you how the modelling industry works. She will have to return favours to keep her career moving in the right direction. And if/when her modelling career hits a dead end, it wouldn't be unusual for her to become a stripper or an escort. That is a common path for many aspiring models.

On a final note, you really need to think about what the rest of your life is going to look like. While there is nothing wrong with being a student at 37, I get the impression that you're doing it primarily for the opportunity to live on campus and meet young girls (if I'm wrong in that assumption, I apologize). But you are now at an age when women expect you to be financially established. The older you get, the more difficult it becomes to get by on good looks and height alone.

She is not a very good or promising model and she knows it, she is aware that it's not going anywhere, she told me already, we had a discussion about it.

She said she wanted to go to Seoul to give it a last shot, and for the experience of living abroad. She is 20 and she knows she is already too old. When she comes back in a month or two, she will drop that model stuff and focus on school I know her, she is a good and serious student. She won't have more opportunities after Seoul. Usually agencies sent girls to Seoul or Asia for development, if no action in Seoul, it's dead.

This drug/party lifestyle is a big stereotype and only applies to successful models, not struggling models that live 5-6 in a 2 bedroom flat on the outskirt of Seoul. I've been with many models, none of them has ever touched drugs, not even weed. Most models are good little girls from good families. Your description of the model industry is pretty inaccurate, yes what you're saying happens it's dirty sometimes but it's a tiny minority that get involved in such activities. Most girls model for 2-3years, realize they don't stand a chance, go get a degree instead of wasting their time, find a husband buy a house and have children. Done.

I don't think she got introduced to the c0ck carrousel, again your vision of the whole industry is distorted, and I don't believe in that c0ck carrousel thing, it's red pill junk. yes some girls are premium wh0res but again it's a tiny minority. BUT I'm 99% she will have/is having an affair with that Polish guy, a summer romance that will last a few weeks until she comes back. I know her well, she is not a Sl0t. I wouldn't thought about entering in rekationship with her if I knew she was that type of validation seeking, party, money hungry, entitled and superficial b1tch. She goes to church on Sundays and pray the lord before eating, she is one iˇof the best girls I've been with and I've seen quite a few.

That is exactly why I'm doing right now, I'm finishing my degree and thinking about my next moves. Your assumptions make sense but it's not the case, I need a degree that why I'm in school. Fvcking 20yos, been there done that when I was in my 20s. But as I'm studying in university and living on a campus, I can get a degree and enjoy the 29yos too. There is nothing fun in living in a dormitory, it's not wild as you might think, it's pretty uncomfortable and boring when you're 37. But this lifestyle is coming to an end soon and that is ok, time to move on.

Thanks for reading

 

[BaronOfHair]

She is quite "traditional", for her having sex is a big deal and makes her anxious, she is not an easy girl. She got an education where sex is considered as taboo and she should be very careful

Your continuing on with her after making such a discovery is no less ill-advised than allowing Unit 731 to babysit your newborn, even after being made aware of their more unusual hobbies https://www.pacificatrocities.org/blog/forced-pregnancy-of-unit-731

"Another experiment conducted on children was for a frostbite cure. A temperature sensing needle was inserted into the hand of a three-month-old baby and the infant was immersed in ice water, then temperature changes were recorded"

 

[Gamisch]

i think solomon mistakenly thought that your post was written by the OP? If so, he probably didn't read your post properly and only skimmed it (because if he had have, he'd have realised that the post was a kind of satire of the OP's post with you putting your own spin on it as if written by the OP in a self depricating way. People here are kinda dumb lol)

But yeah, whatever. Mikedee is one of the very few legit posters here. The forums is largely a bit of a laughing stock tbh. I don't think it would be wise to ask anyone here for advice about the kind of things that he's asking, and he's probably realising that now!

I don't know.

I have no idea what the burner reference is, I have no idea who Foe is and I have no idea why people would think I'm Foe and vice versa. I don't really care to be honest.

The reason I didn't reply to the second part of your comment is because it's not worth replying. Like 99% of everything you post here. You made an assumption about me, about her and about a one year relationship based on absolutely nothing. Same thing for pipeman84's and Foe's comments.

If you insist I will reply, but it's going to be a long post, and a harsh one, for you and for a lot of people on this forum. It's up to you. I don't have any animosity toward you or any other members of this board, I just want to make this clear. But it's time that somebody speaks up a stop that freak show.

Why would I care about you telling me that I lack maturity when you are the perfect example of a guy who's has no maturity at all. Why does a smart person like you spend his entire life posting on this forum hiding behind a ridiculous persona in order to get some validation of people who also do the same thing. You don't look like you have much going on in your life, you sit here all day pretending to get laid with pretty young and hot yoga teachers, models, etc. You talk about your vixens and your instagran flooded with girls begging for your attention and everything. One has to be either very very very naive and inexperienced with women or straight up retarded to believe that a 60 something retiree who looks like a clown (I'm talking about the whole outfit, the cat, the pirate eye, your below average face and your bald head), who spends his whole life on a seduction (borderline incel forum) forum can pull such girls, and pull such girls on a regular basis. It's just a joke. That is the definition of immaturity, you obviously suffer of some kind of personality disorder and you should seek professional help. Sorry man, you're a smart guy but you are a total loser. I know it's harsh but the comedy has to stop. What even more insane is that some people believe you and worship you. It just blows my mind, wow.
That's why I didn't reply, I just didn't care.

If you say that I'm immature because I said that I use hot young girls to compensate for self esteem issues, well I got new for you, it's the case of 99% of men. Not only I'm brave and transparent enough to expose quite personal issues and weaknesses hoping that you guys would comment with something constructive and helpful like @Gamish did, you instead go full on bashing mode for no reasons, assuming this and that based on nothing.
I don't play the tough guy, I don't put any persona and I've have never lied about anything since I'm on this forum. I don't want to sound pretentious but I'm one of the realest on this board. I'm the one who goes for it, I'm the one who pulls the 19yo models, I'm the one who cold approach at the grocery store, I'm the one who gets rejected, I'm the one who fvck up, I'm the one who struggles despite being 6.2, model look, handsome, extremely experienced with all the approaches and failures I have. I've travelled the world and approached women in Russia, Japan, NY, Serbia, Finland, Czech Republic, Canada, Estonia, etc. I even learned Russian and lived in Moscow to be able to pull the hottest girls in the world. Result? I dated countless of models, HBs 9, etc. Got laid quite a lot but rejected like no one here. Feel free to believe me or not, I don't give a damn. There is one member here who knows me personally, and he would tell you that I'm not bullsh1tting. Just today, 2 days after being flushed by a girl I really liked, with pain in my chest, I approached a solid 8, max 19yo, long hair, smooth legs, tight body, juicy lips, perfect breast on a crowded street outside the metro, in Czech, a language that I'm currently learning, it was awkward, but I still managed to get the info, texted her later and got blocked immediately. It pissed me off but I took my shot and made things happen, and I failed, failed like a fvcking champion, not like a fvcking keyboard jockey who doesn't know what I'm talking about.

So when I post a thread asking for help (I never post anything) I get premium bashing treatment by a bunch of 5.6 bald guys who have never been and will never be with the type of girl I date. To be honest, I don't care I just have pity for those guys, it's sad. I remember a few years ago, I started a cold approach thread, I was the only one approaching and posting the pictures of the girls I had approached, most of them were 8s and 9s. I'm the only one who had the balls to make a move. I'm not perfect, I have issues, shortcomings, like everybody else. I'm weak sometimes, I get hurt sometimes, I get attached to the wrong person sometimes, I ignore the red flags sometimes, I'm an azzhole sometimes, I put girls on a pedestal sometimes, I'm sad sometimes but I never lie about my lays, approaches, dates. I never bullsh1t. Im real. 100% real.

There are some very good posters here and that is the reason why I stay, I dont agree with all of them but I still think they have something to contribute: @characternote @Bokanovsky @Hoodie @SW15 @Gamisch @oldmanofthesea @RangerMIke @Velasco @Bigpapa @taiyuu_otoko
@Giovanni SouthSide
@Millard Fillmore I can't name everybody. Can't say the same thing about the rest, a bunch of phoneys, envious and ignorant people with very or no experience at all.. And you hear them saying "pull hotter and younger girls" when one get ghosted and is vulnerable, disappointed and need supports. Like pulling hot 20yo was as easy as buying a carton of milk at the supermarket, those clowns never pulled any "hot young girls" in their whole life. Ridiculous... and some mods shouldn't be mods. No.

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I don't know if my reply satisfies your endless craving for validation but thats what I had to say.
You can reply whatever you want now, I won't read. If I can give you a good piece of advice, shut up for once, stop trolling and take that cat off your shoulder you just look like a weirdo man. I have nothing against you, actually I think you a very smart person, good culture, and you look like a good person, a good jack. Just stop that sh1t, it's dumb.

@ Mods you can lock the thread, ban me, delete my account. Make my day! If you do, it will just prove that I'm right. We should help each other, go out there and get girls, one night stands, LTRs, whatever. Not whine like a bunch of little b1tches.

On a more positive note, I'm feeling a bit better today, it still svcks but that's life, at least I had to chance to be with a nice and beautiful girl like that, Im grateful.

It's okay bro. Don't let your emotions get the best of you.

The game is frustrating at times. But you'll find your way through it eventually. Keep grinding, keep sharing and obtaining knowledge, and keep growing.

This is fightclub coddammit.