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londonzen

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hey all i just wanna know about everyone

1)from 1-10 what would you call yourselve looks wise?

2) 1-10 personality wise?

3)if you are/were an afc why do you think that is(parents,first girl,other)

4) do you get jealous easily?do you let it show?

5) what is the worst reaction/rejection you ever had from a girl?

6) what is the best reaction you ever got from a girl(on the spot)

7) have you ever been cheated on. what did/would you do?

8) have/would you ever cheated on a girl you were/are in a relationship with.

9) do you get on socialy with alot of your female relatives (sisters,cousins)

10)have you been in a relationship with an alpha female or hb10 how did that work.
 

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1)from 1-10 what would you call yourselve looks wise? 7

2) 1-10 personality wise? 10 :)

3)if you are/were an afc why do you think that is(parents,first girl,other) parent - mum

4) do you get jealous easily?do you let it show? i get jealous, but dont show it

5) what is the worst reaction/rejection you ever had from a girl? havent really had any spectacular rejections, the main rejections i get is when i get the number then they flake.

6) what is the best reaction you ever got from a girl(on the spot) She told me she was coming back to my hotel room and we would do whatever i wanted :) (she was pretty drunk haha)

7) have you ever been cheated on. what did/would you do? nope. If i was in an exclusive relationship with a girl I really liked, no I would not cheat.

8) have/would you ever cheated on a girl you were/are in a relationship with.
Nope

9) do you get on socialy with alot of your female relatives (sisters,cousins)
Yeah

10)have you been in a relationship with an alpha female or hb10 how did that work.
I think my first girlfriend was an alpha female. She was one crazy ***** haha...it was like, constant sh!t tests, always trying to grab the upper hand in the relationship. Then she would go from this hectic chick to the most innocent, vulnerable person in the world that needed my protection. Crazy experience. Now that I write it down it sounds like she was BP haha.
 

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londonzen said:
hey all i just wanna know about everyone

1)from 1-10 what would you call yourselve looks wise?
8

2) 1-10 personality wise?
6
3)if you are/were an afc why do you think that is(parents,first girl,other)
mum definetly shes a nightmare i rember when my bro brought his girl home my mum got all involved and 1 time he was in my room and my mum walked into his room(the girls in there) then comes into mine and shouts at my brother "shes calling you never keep her waiting" lol. she used to always say we would be or that girls were to good for us.
4) do you get jealous easily?do you let it show?
i never used to but now i do and sometimes it shows in my face ie a girl at work who at first we were very flirty and then 1 day she got set up in an arranged marriage and told me,i swear i must of looked shocked but knowbody noticed
5) what is the worst reaction/rejection you ever had from a girl?
nothing 2 bad most rejections are polite

6) what is the best reaction you ever got from a girl(on the spot)
a work expirience girl at work on her 1st day i joked to my workmate that if she came into our room i would chat her up. well on her third day i walk into the room and whos standing there alone...her .she had headphones on and a very stern look i ask her is she ok within 10 mins her head phones are in her bag and shes smiling constantly shes on my nutz until my big mouth colleauge gets involved.any way she leaves her number on a post it not when she leaves on the fifth day but my jealous colleague dashes it out(my other colleauge a woman tells me) and all the reception girls say so aswell

7) have you ever been cheated on. what did/would you do?
na


8) have/would you ever cheated on a girl you were/are in a relationship with.
na
9) do you get on socialy with alot of your female relatives (sisters,cousins)
na
10)have you been in a relationship with an alpha female or hb10 how did that work.
yes at college there was this girl a hb8 but in her mind she was a hb10 but she litteraly had all the other girls to scared to talk to me i got bored of her,she made sure i saw her a few months later looking hot got my # again just to leave me hanging(so childish)
 

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hey all i just wanna know about everyone

1)from 1-10 what would you call yourselve looks wise?
7

2) 1-10 personality wise?
9

3)if you are/were an afc why do you think that is(parents,first girl,other)
Parents

4) do you get jealous easily?do you let it show?
No

5) what is the worst reaction/rejection you ever had from a girl?
Told a girl I liked her. She said "What am I supposed to do with that?"

6) what is the best reaction you ever got from a girl(on the spot)
Got a kiss.

7) have you ever been cheated on. what did/would you do?
Nope.

8) have/would you ever cheated on a girl you were/are in a relationship with.
Yes.

9) do you get on socialy with alot of your female relatives (sisters,cousins)
I get on okay...

10)have you been in a relationship with an alpha female or hb10 how did that work.
She was an HB10 but she fell deeply in love with me and became obsessed and there were a few problems where I tried to get away and she threw a boiling pot of spaghetti at me.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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1)from 1-10 what would you call yourselve looks wise? 11

2) 1-10 personality wise? 11

3)if you are/were an afc why do you think that is(parents,first girl,other) i used to be a people pleaser, and i was a selfish nice guy.

4) do you get jealous easily?do you let it show? I don't get jealous easily.

5) what is the worst reaction/rejection you ever had from a girl? Girl looked at me and said ew no.

6) what is the best reaction you ever got from a girl(on the spot) "there's only 1 cute guy at this party." of course she was talking about me.

7) have you ever been cheated on. what did/would you do? i've been cheated on a couple times. i moved on cuz the *****es weren't worth my time or anger.

8) have/would you ever cheated on a girl you were/are in a relationship with. Never have never will.

9) do you get on socialy with alot of your female relatives (sisters,cousins) i party with my older sister. that's about it.

10)have you been in a relationship with an alpha female or hb10 how did that work. i sure did and it was awesome.
 

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1)from 1-10 what would you call yourselve looks wise? 10

2) 1-10 personality wise? 10

3)if you are/were an afc why do you think that is(parents,first girl,other): being shy, idealistic, lazy

4) do you get jealous easily?do you let it show?sometimes i do but i keep myself in check emotionally quite well

5) what is the worst reaction/rejection you ever had from a girl? its never gone that badly for me

6) what is the best reaction you ever got from a girl(on the spot): i dont chase, and im not dating currrently, so my experience with women isnt much. i get attention from girls where i work and when i go out -- until i want a woman in my life, im fine with that

7) have you ever been cheated on. what did/would you do? nope

8) have/would you ever cheated on a girl you were/are in a relationship with. nope

9) do you get on socially with a lot of your female relatives (sisters,cousins): we keep in touch, thats about it

10)have you been in a relationship with an alpha female or hb10? how did that work: nope. i could if i wanted to, but im not looking to date right now
 

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hey all i just wanna know about everyone

1)from 1-10 what would you call yourselve looks wise?
I'd say I'm a 7.5. what do you think? lol. http://www.facebook.com/wiseffl#!/photo.php?pid=32926406&id=57105740&fbid=564718373262
2) 1-10 personality wise? (8)

3)if you are/were an afc why do you think that is(parents,first girl,other)
Parents: grew up without parents, raised by different Uncles and Aunties who were quite strict.4) do you get jealous easily?do you let it show?
Not really. Who knows I can be an open book.

5) what is the worst reaction/rejection you ever had from a girl?
I was at the club and I saw a group of girls standing together I asked my friend to come with me so we could talk to them he declined. I proceeded on my own, before I could say a word to my object of affection she put out her arm (with palm open) and back away.
6) what is the best reaction you ever got from a girl(on the spot)
One day this hb9 girl in my class whom we banter and flirt who hadn't seen me in a while saw me walking towards the building. She was with her friends, she left them literally ran to me and jumped into my arms to hug me (Thank God she was petite, would've hated to drop her, like she was hot [pun intended]). I was flattered and embarassed all at once, lol.

7) have you ever been cheated on. what did/would you do?
Yes, I broke up with her and told her we could work it out if she wanted. Sh was giving me too much attitude. So, I let her be

8) have/would you ever cheated on a girl you were/are in a relationship with.
Yes, not really because I wanted to. We were in Florida and my friend decides we should go to the strip club. Thing is this strip club the girls were naked all the way and my friend decide to pay for one on one time with one in the private room. I didn't want to couldn't afford it anyway, but he pressured me and I gave in and he also paid for it. I stilll regret it. I do not like to cheat and would rather avoid situations that put me in that position es. considering I'm an open book too.
9) do you get on socialy with alot of your female relatives (sisters,cousins)
Yes, with my cousins. I have no sisters

10)have you been in a relationship with an alpha female or hb10 how did that work.
I'd say no. Although, this one guy once rated my X as a 12/10 and some guys used to be in awe when they saw me with her. I didn't think she was hb10 or Alpha
 

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1)from 1-10 what would you call yourselve looks wise?
8

2) 1-10 personality wise?
9

3)if you are/were an afc why do you think that is(parents,first girl,other)
The influence of society, parents, religion

4) do you get jealous easily?do you let it show?
No and no.

5) what is the worst reaction/rejection you ever had from a girl?
LOL! I wanted to ask this girl out in high school, so I did something stupid. She used the same computer lab as me but in different time slots. The floppies (5 1/4") that we used were stored in the lab. I took her floppy, wrote her a note, and saved it as "a-readme.txt". A few days went by and I recieved a note inside the floppy jacket with the words "Read This" written on it. She bytched me out in that note for invading her personal property and told me she would NEVER go out with me. Then word got around school and I got teased for liking her.

6) what is the best reaction you ever got from a girl(on the spot)
Can't remember a specific one, but I've made out with many women after knowing them for less than an hour. Never found out their names either.

7) have you ever been cheated on. what did/would you do?
Yes. I booted her out.

8) have/would you ever cheated on a girl you were/are in a relationship with.
Yes I have. Don't think I'd ever feel the need to do it again though.

9) do you get on socialy with alot of your female relatives (sisters,cousins)
Don't really have any close female relatives, so no.

10)have you been in a relationship with an alpha female or hb10 how did that work.
Never to both.
 

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hey all i just wanna know about everyone

1)from 1-10 what would you call yourselve looks wise?

honestly a solid 8. i'm not the sexist man alive but i'm handsome and i know i am handsome.

2) 1-10 personality wise?

10 easily and this is possibly my best trait as i am quirky and i make no bones about it. you either hate me or you love me. i'm funny, i have no problelm speaking my mind and i'm passionate. i've been told it's cute that i get passionate about things.

3)if you are/were an afc why do you think that is(parents,first girl,other)

it all whet downhill when my dad and my mom got a divorce. my dad could write a book on being a mac, but i was not raised by him i was riased by my mom who told me men like my dad were bad (while i would wake up at night hearing their bed squeeking years after they were divorced lol, dad was tappin that ass). i made the mistake of listening to my mom.

4) do you get jealous easily?do you let it show?

i don't do jealous. i am the best me i can be. if i want something i have it, therefore i am not jealous. if a woman does not see the value in me then that's her issue.

5) what is the worst reaction/rejection you ever had from a girl?

19th birthday, oneitis (chieck out the ae forum for pics of her) called me while she was getting laid telling me i would never get to **** her. the next day i found this forum. she stood me up on my date and not only stood me up, calling me to brag about what i wasn't going to get while she was geting it.

6) what is the best reaction you ever got from a girl(on the spot)
"i hope to god you are not gay becuase god damn you are sexy" (yes i smashed lol)


7) have you ever been cheated on. what did/would you do?

yes. lol, i ****ing left lol. even in the most AFC of days, i never would consider dating someone who cheated on me. i never went that low.

8) have/would you ever cheated on a girl you were/are in a relationship with.
yes lol. i remember my old fiancee, she wasn't at the time she became it, but we never got hitched, i smartend up, anyway, her cousin came to visit and she did not tell me her cousin was smokin. we were sitting at my crib all drinking playing cards. my girl had to go to work so her cousin left too. 30 mintues later i get a knock on the door and she says she left her sunglasses in my house, and bent over and had no underweare on, i just put my finger in it and beat that **** smooth up lol.


lol, the same girl (gf), i went on a date with her to a resturant/bar i went to often and i knew there was a waitress there that had a big crush on me. she texted me when i showed up "go to hte bathroom" so i go to the bathroom, she is in there, locks th door and blows me right there, with my date out side. told me to call her later that night, i did, she came to my house and i tore that **** up all night, and she was married.


i was a ***** for a while lol,. i have about 20 stories like this.

9) do you get on socialy with alot of your female relatives (sisters,cousins)

no.

10)have you been in a relationship with an alpha female or hb10 how did that work.

this is a loaded question
 

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19th birthday, oneitis (chieck out the ae forum for pics of her) called me while she was getting laid telling me i would never get to **** her. the next day i found this forum. she stood me up on my date and not only stood me up, calling me to brag about what i wasn't going to get while she was geting it.


she did wat? that is foul
 

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1)from 1-10 what would you call yourselve looks wise?

i would say solid 8

2) 1-10 personality wise?

6, yea i'm funny sometimes but lately i've been called a jerk but in a serious way mostly because whenever i'm chatting with a girl and i get bored i just log off but it's all good, in the end the girl ends up wanting to be with me rather than the guy trying to get her attention :)

3)if you are/were an afc why do you think that is(parents,first girl,other)

Definately my parents, to this day they still tell me i should be nice with girls and give them all my time.

4) do you get jealous easily?do you let it show?

yess, for the most part i'm good at not showing it, but i'm sure there's been times that friends may have noticed

5) what is the worst reaction/rejection you ever had from a girl?

i get a number then flakes..or on facebook i ask for a number then i get no reply whatsoever

6) what is the best reaction you ever got from a girl(on the spot)

While at a party a girl was giving me serious IOI's so i went to talk with her for a bit, ended up making out and fingering.

7) have you ever been cheated on. what did/would you do?

no..probably because i've only been in 3 actual relationships an i had ended em. although i have been seriously whooped on a girl, that didn't turn out so well.... what can you do? all there is to do is just leave and never come in contact with her again

8) have/would you ever cheated on a girl you were/are in a relationship with.

no/ To be honest i don't know, right now i'm single and planning to keep it that way but if i was in a relationship....i currently can't say 100 percent i wouldn't cheat..i just dont know

9) do you get on socialy with alot of your female relatives (sisters,cousins)

keep in touch on facebook, don't really socialize all that much though

10)have you been in a relationship with an alpha female or hb10 how did that work.

nope
 

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londonzen said:
hey all i just wanna know about everyone

1)from 1-10 what would you call yourselve looks wise?

pointless Q - every one will say they are good... the ego protects feelings!

most people are average - id say im good average (everying in proportion ) a couple of peope here have said... so ill take that !



2) 1-10 personality wise?

how the fu.ck can you Rate personality on 1-10??? its qualative...

every ones different... im now more assertive, alpha from proactivly trying to improve this parts


3)if you are/were an afc why do you think that is(parents,first girl,other)
never had frineds that were good with women to hang with
strong mother, dad never taught me stuff (afc dad)


4) do you get jealous easily?do you let it show?
no im laid back, and now dont give a f.uck about shi.t and can move on, im good with this,
i dont put up woht bad behaviour - make her show her cards, or lauch her


5) what is the worst reaction/rejection you ever had from a girl?
been punched on the face by a chick before! lol she was kinda ugly tho

6) what is the best reaction you ever got from a girl(on the spot)
essentially raped

7) have you ever been cheated on. what did/would you do?
yes it was first gf when i was like 17, stayed with her... (cringe)

8) have/would you ever cheated on a girl you were/are in a relationship with.
yes....

9) do you get on socialy with alot of your female relatives (sisters,cousins)
have none under age 50, wierd!

10)have you been in a relationship with an alpha female or hb10 how did that work.
owned it (even with less game then) she was a absolute honey... way out of most guys reality....i just had suprene confidence and was a challenge...her emotions loved it!
over time i lost control etc... and we wen tsepereate ways in life (i realsie exactly what went wrong and why in hindsight)
blue
 

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hey all i just wanna know about everyone

1)from 1-10 what would you call yourselve looks wise?6 or 7. 8 if I could keep 15-20 pounds on

2) 1-10 personality wise?9, there is always room for improvement

3)if you are/were an afc why do you think that is(parents,first girl,other)no doubt in my mind my parents

4) do you get jealous easily?do you let it show?Rarely get jealous, yes I let her know. Communication is key

5) what is the worst reaction/rejection you ever had from a girl?Never had a bad rejection

6) what is the best reaction you ever got from a girl(on the spot)BEST reaction? im not sure

7) have you ever been cheated on. what did/would you do?Yes years ago, acted like a b1tch and said it was okay

8) have/would you ever cheated on a girl you were/are in a relationship with.yes. No desire to do it any more

9) do you get on socialy with alot of your female relatives (sisters,cousins)no sisters, dont really talk to my cousins

10)have you been in a relationship with an alpha female or hb10 how did that work.never met a hb10, I usually find alpha females obnoxious and annoying
 

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1)from 1-10 what would you call yourselve looks wise?

Well, I scored a 9.8 and a 9.4 on two different pictures posted on hotornot.com. However, those pictures don't take height into consideration. I'm a little above 5'8," and this knocks my score down by two points, so about a 7. I have a little bit of muscle (don't work out any more at this point), so this knocks me down about .5 points. That makes me about a 6.5439.

2) 1-10 personality wise?

Hmm, this one is difficult to measure. My personality is okay...I would say a 5...it's gotten better in some ways, and worse in others after finding PUA sites. I used to be very sociable, but I've become quite paranoid of everyone's intentions because I think women are out to play me, and guys are out to AMOG me. Still a work in progress.....

3)if you are/were an afc why do you think that is(parents,first girl,other)no doubt in my mind my parents

Not too sure about this one, but if I dig deep, I remember getting rejected in elementary school by a girl when I was 10 years old. She was the best looking girl in my class and played a game on me when she found out I liked her. I wrote her a note asking her if she liked me and she wrote checked "Yes" on my box. Later on, I found out that it was joke :box: .

4) do you get jealous easily?do you let it show?

Yes. I try not to show it.

5) what is the worst reaction/rejection you ever had from a girl?

I did a indirect approach and asked girl if I could ask her a question; she said, "can you ask someone else?" This was in a quiet place, in front of quite a few people who were all looking at me. :crackup:


6) what is the best reaction you ever got from a girl(on the spot)BEST reaction?

I've had quite a few...but I can't remember any of them. That's funny because I can always remember the bad ones.

7) have you ever been cheated on. what did/would you do?

Yes. By my first oneitis when I was 17. She lied about having a boyfriend

8) have/would you ever cheated on a girl you were/are in a relationship with.

Yes

9) do you get on socialy with alot of your female relatives (sisters,cousins)

Yes

10)have you been in a relationship with an alpha female or hb10 how did that work.

I don't believe any one is a solid 10, but I've never been in a relationship with anyone higher than a 7. I have been out with solid 8's and maybe 9's though. The best looking girl I went on a date with gave me a hand job in her car at college during night time, but we got caught by security. Only one date, and I haven't heard from her since.
 

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I would love to see pictures and see how others would rate people. I suspect everyone would rate others lower than they were rated, so the first question carries with it the standard overconfidence disclaimer. That said, i am also a part of that so take my answers for what thats worth!

1)from 1-10 what would you call yourselves looks wise?

lets go 7-8. I am average height with an athletic build and almost all of my hair. I am not shredded like some folks, and am not tall like others so i deduct two points for that!

2) 1-10 personality wise?

It depends on the day! Some days i am feeling it and can make friends with anyone, while others I can sit like a dumb mute and be useless. My passions for things are infectious and i have gotten people into sports just because I love them. As far as friends, if i go out, I expect to see 3-4 separate groups of people I know and can never meet up with all the people I say I can meet up with. That said, i am still shy.

7-8 again.

3)if you are/were an afc why do you think that is(parents,first girl,other)

Lack of confidence. I had self limiting beliefs which I eventually saw as false. I still doubt myself from time to time, but thats human.

4) do you get jealous easily?do you let it show?

When I was dating last year, no. Actually I loved it when my gf got called hot by random dudes. now that I am going through a sort of break up, I am a bit more. I shoulder most of that since I am in a weird situation in life and this is not the norm.

5) what is the worst reaction/rejection you ever had from a girl?

ha. favorite story to tell the boys. myself and my friends were at a frat party a number of years ago and I saw this blonde smoke and eventually mustered up the balls to go up and approach. I said my name and asked hers and she looked at me and didn't even respond. ouch!

6) what is the best reaction you ever got from a girl(on the spot)

not really sure. while waiting for a taxi I managed to hook up with and get some chicks number. it was something out of a TV show. best? not sure. memorable? ya

7) have you ever been cheated on. what did/would you do?

no

8) have/would you ever cheated on a girl you were/are in a relationship with.

oh how i was tempted too, but i would never and have never.

9) do you get on socialy with alot of your female relatives (sisters,cousins)

no

10)have you been in a relationship with an alpha female or hb10 how did that work.

no
 

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Lol, if some guys here are as good looking as they claim, with personalities with no possible room for improvement, why are they on this site? They should be drowning in women.
 

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zekko said:
Lol, if some guys here are as good looking as they claim, with personalities with no possible room for improvement, why are they on this site? They should be drowning in women.
I am contemplating making a post to expose the overconfidence in looks, but I doubt most folks will post pictures of themselves present company included. Personalities are even harder to prove since everyone thinks they are awesome.

remember a thread I posted a while ago trying to get 100 votes for how 'alpha' they were? The mean was 2-3 higher than the actual average meaning that the majority of this board thinks they are alpha males. I hypothesis that the distribution would be Poisson-esque with a higher probability density at the lower end and a tail up at 8-10 ( meaning most dudes aren't the alpha males). The votes contradicted this, but physiological overconfidence is the reason for the disparage between my hypothesis and the actual votes.

edit: overconfidence in histogram form! http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=171593
 

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synergy1 said:
I would love to see pictures and see how others would rate people. I suspect everyone would rate others lower than they were rated, so the first question carries with it the standard overconfidence disclaimer.
Edit: No one else posted pics so I'm taking my down.

Damn, was quoted so nevermind. :whistle:
 
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