You will never be alpha male

[JohnyTheArrow]

Look at the mirror and be sincere.You will never make it.Alpha male is marketing for naive guys to buy PUA guides and books.What you can be is aware beta and it is not a bad thing.
To have chance to be the alpha you need proper genetic traits, if you lack them no amount of magic, game and BS is going to make it for you.Bill Gates or Zuckerberg can learn game all life but they will never be considered 'sex symbols' aka alpha.Billions dont make Gates sexy, he is just rich.Alpha is raw desire not calculated desire.

If you are short dude or dude with weak face - no amount of game is going to make it up.You may become more successful thanks to statistics - more try more chance - that's it.Accept your fate as trained/upper beta and play with your cards well.

Read this article to get what I mean and accept your fate.

http://www.examiner.com/article/how...n-times-depends-on-the-alpha-vs-beta-dynamics

 

[Boxer00]

Look at the mirror and be sincere.You will never make it.Alpha male is marketing for naive guys to buy PUA guides and books.What you can be is aware beta and it is not a bad thing.
To have chance to be the alpha you need proper genetic traits, if you lack them no amount of magic, game and BS is going to make it for you.Bill Gates or Zuckerberg can learn game all life but they will never be considered 'sex symbols' aka alpha.Billions dont make Gates sexy, he is just rich.Alpha is raw desire not calculated desire.

If you are short dude or dude with weak face - no amount of game is going to make it up.You may become more successful thanks to statistics - more try more chance - that's it.Accept your fate as trained/upper beta and play with your cards well.

Read this article to get what I mean and accept your fate.

http://www.examiner.com/article/how...n-times-depends-on-the-alpha-vs-beta-dynamics

Perhaps you can lie about it like you suggested before? :crackup:

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

Perhaps you can lie about it like you suggested before? :crackup:

Of course I do.

I'm short dude 5.5'' Im as sexy as fat,single mom with 6 kids from different men.I accepted my fate as aware beta.I have no grand illusions game will give me pvssy being thrown on me and yet thanks to faking alpha traits(hairdo,fashion,bodybuilding) and lies about my status and willingness to commitment - it gave me a lot of fun with sexy women well above my SMV.

I have no regrets about not being 'real' alpha, game will never make me alpha because I lack genetic traits but being aware saved me from committing to red flag women and made me more happy as I feel more manly.

Even if you acquire alpha traits like confidence and alofness, you will never be treated as good as 'real' alpha and the article explains it well why.You will
better tolerated.

Women have different scales of passion and love for different types of men but no amount of game can make up for raw genetic sexiness.

 

[MillionBillionaire]

Few years ago I would have been on the same boat. I am Asian.. and with all the pvssy fob asian males running around dying their hair blonde, acting super beta .. even grinding their own butts onto women and dancing how a woman should dance.. I felt it was impossible for a first generation South Korean to ever be alpha.. throw in Korean Dramas, K pop and the sterotype for a small d1ck.. I felt like I had everything against me...

That was like 20 books and many countless hours of self help ago...

Today... now days... I am alpha as fvck... I walk in to work and say "sup b1tches".. everyone smiles and accepts.. they are beta around me.

Alpha is a mindset... much more than genetics.

 

[Peña]

Today... now days... I am alpha as fvck... I walk in to work and say "sup b1tches".. everyone smiles and accepts.. they are beta around me.

That isn't Alpha.

 

[MillionBillionaire]

That isn't Alpha.

You mean if YOU were to say that.. it wouldn't be alpha. You were not there.. and you didn't see how I interact with people and how they reacted to me.

 

[Peña]

You mean if YOU were to say that.. it wouldn't be alpha. You were not there.. and you didn't see how I interact with people and how they reacted to me.

Don't need to be there. Being fake isn't alpha.

 

[Cremasta]

Don't you think that being alpha is a bit more complex than just being a sex symbol?
The ideal of being a sex symbol changes from person to person.
'Alpha' is a nebulous concept at best, but I think it's a bit more concrete than whether or not you're some girl's fantasy.

Bill Gates would be in my opinion the ultimate alpha. The guy owns half the world and he's doing everything he can to improve the other half.
How many of us can say that about ourselves?

 

[MillionBillionaire]

Don't need to be there. Being fake isn't alpha.

You seem like the ultimate beta chump.. now your saying I'm fake? How many cold approaches have you done last weekend? Were you the life of a party anywhere?.. got any numbers or potential dates lined up? My guess would be no.. because you seem clueless in general about life.

And yes.. you did need to be there.. because non verbal and how you say it is 90% of an interaction.

 

[Tictac]

Look at the mirror and be sincere.You will never make it.Alpha male is marketing for naive guys to buy PUA guides and books.What you can be is aware beta and it is not a bad thing.
To have chance to be the alpha you need proper genetic traits, if you lack them no amount of magic, game and BS is going to make it for you.Bill Gates or Zuckerberg can learn game all life but they will never be considered 'sex symbols' aka alpha.Billions dont make Gates sexy, he is just rich.Alpha is raw desire not calculated desire.

If you are short dude or dude with weak face - no amount of game is going to make it up.You may become more successful thanks to statistics - more try more chance - that's it.Accept your fate as trained/upper beta and play with your cards well.

Read this article to get what I mean and accept your fate.

http://www.examiner.com/article/how...n-times-depends-on-the-alpha-vs-beta-dynamics

______

You accept your fate. You will never be alpha. Type for yourself.

You don't get to type for me.

 

[Mr Wright]

Today... now days... I am alpha as fvck... I walk in to work and say "sup b1tches".. everyone smiles and accepts.. they are beta around me.

I've never met one guy who is genuinely alpha who would describe themselves as alpha. They may think it but they never say it because it takes away it's power. It's like when you're too open with a woman you lose that mystery about you and she finds you less appealing. And if you're describing yourself as alpha it just tells me that you spend way too much time in your life thinking what the most alpha thing to do in any situation is.

At the end of the day if you came here to be accepted and come out with that crap, fair enough but if you came here to get laid, start doing that more.

 

[Skyline]

If you live by all of these titles, they will live your life for you.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

Don't you think that being alpha is a bit more complex than just being a sex symbol?
The ideal of being a sex symbol changes from person to person.
'Alpha' is a nebulous concept at best, but I think it's a bit more concrete than whether or not you're some girl's fantasy.

Bill Gates would be in my opinion the ultimate alpha. The guy owns half the world and he's doing everything he can to improve the other half.
How many of us can say that about ourselves?

Bill Gates is beta by default because he will never can get beautiful female love him and desire him for what it is - a man.He is not physically arousing.So is Zuckerberg.No matter how many billions he will throw on his bed he is not sexually arousing.You can not be alpha if you are not sexually arousing on physical level.The desire will be rationalized by female.

Alpha is sexiness with male positive traits which often come with this sexiness like confidence.Without sexiness you can be only upper beta - trained beta in game tricks or status beta with money or position.
What is tragic guys who look best like Conan O'Brian believe they can learn 'game' and get same female attention , respect and desire as guy with Sean Connery looks.Not going to happen.

 

[MillionBillionaire]

I've never met one guy who is genuinely alpha who would describe themselves as alpha. They may think it but they never say it because it takes away it's power. It's like when you're too open with a woman you lose that mystery about you and she finds you less appealing. And if you're describing yourself as alpha it just tells me that you spend way too much time in your life thinking what the most alpha thing to do in any situation is.

At the end of the day if you came here to be accepted and come out with that crap, fair enough but if you came here to get laid, start doing that more.

Ok that is thinking too much into this and I could care less.

At the end of the day I come here to make myself better and to help others.

 

[Mr Wright]

Ok that is thinking too much into this and I could care less.

At the end of the day I come here to make myself better and to help others.

Nah but if you're running around saying your alpha you better back it up with some substance. Otherwise why should people listen to you?

 

[BlueAlpha1]

I love a self-admitted beta telling others they'll never be alpha. Kinda like women telling you to "be a man" and determining what that is.

 

[old married dude]

Yeah, alpha is really a state of mind more than anything.

I mean if you had to be the following to be alpha:

- 6'4" or better
- A "10" in facial looks
- Body of a Calvin Klein underwear model
- Net worth of $50,000,000 or better

How many people here would be alphas? Almost no one.

It's all about making the very best out of what you do have and being dominant, assertive, and in control at all times...never letting anyone see you lose your cool.

 

[Yewki]

Of course I do.

I'm short dude 5.5'' Im as sexy as fat,single mom with 6 kids from different men.I accepted my fate as aware beta.I have no grand illusions game will give me pvssy being thrown on me and yet thanks to faking alpha traits(hairdo,fashion,bodybuilding) and lies about my status and willingness to commitment - it gave me a lot of fun with sexy women well above my SMV.

I have no regrets about not being 'real' alpha, game will never make me alpha because I lack genetic traits but being aware saved me from committing to red flag women and made me more happy as I feel more manly.

Even if you acquire alpha traits like confidence and alofness, you will never be treated as good as 'real' alpha and the article explains it well why.You will
better tolerated.

Women have different scales of passion and love for different types of men but no amount of game can make up for raw genetic sexiness.

You're putting the concept of "alpha" up on a pedestal as some grand illusion. As if its some genetic lottery where all your problems are gone, every woman wants to f*ck you, and life is amazing.

News flash, it doesn't exist. Unicorns don't exist either. If you had what you desired now (i.e. taller and better aesthetics?) you would just find new things to be insecure about. You'd still have excuses for not being "alpha". You'd still yearn for rainbow unicorn land.

You see a guy who is tall and good looking. He's buff and seems to act like a boss. You envy him. He must be "alpha" right? His life must be amazing, right? Wrong. He has his own problems. And every single thing you think he he has that you don't, he takes for granted... because he's too busy worrying about his own set of problems that he's derived from his own situation. He might even be more insecure than you. No one's life is amazing. Yes some people are happier than others, but it all comes down to your state of mind.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

it all comes down to your state of mind.

Yes but without the genetic traits you are never going to make it.Zuckerberg can't get sexy and beautiful girl fall in love in him for what he is - small and sexually not arousing guy.He can buy them but it will not be genuine desire.So no matter how much 'status' you have you can never really cheat raw desire.

The red pill becomes pink pill if you believe you can game any woman with your 'alphamelism'.No you can not.Maybe +2 points over your SMV that's it because 'not sexy' is imprinted in your DNA and NO MINDSET is going to make you being perceive by women like Channing Tatum when you look like Shia LaBeouf.

 

[JohnyTheArrow]

Yeah, alpha is really a state of mind more than anything.

I mean if you had to be the following to be alpha:

- 6'4" or better

you need be taller than your woman and not shorter than most men

- A "10" in facial looks

you must look like a man.many men have butter faces or feminine faces

- Body of a Calvin Klein underwear model

not really, but the more muscle you have the more sexy you become

- Net worth of $50,000,000 or better

if you look good and behave like man women will tolerate your poverty and
even pay for you so you stay with them, money is beta thing, if guy is hot
he needs no money to have women

case study ?

Jeremy Meeks,
criminal, no job,no money, no future ... but THE LOOK is uber alpha and imprinted in his DNA , he got women begging him to live with them and ready to pay for everything.

http://www.examiner.com/article/jer...ug-shot-sexy-man-has-women-ready-to-post-bail