You should always have women available to you, even in a relationship

[Valentino14]

Women have all the power. They have brought down politicians, athletes and entire kingdoms because of sex. It's rough out there.

Only because they were married had affairs. It is not that hard to meet women.

 

[nismo-4]

Four facts for your ass.

1. Men value love, but women love value.

2. Women would rather share a taken man than be committed to a faithful loser.

3. Women always have options. Hypergamy + Briffault's Law.

4. Women control the sex market.

 

[Crazystarf]

Only because they were married had affairs. It is not that hard to meet women.

It's not that hard to meet women; it's the fact that finding a girl suitable for LTR/marriage is harder than most of us are giving credit for.

Love isn't enough to sustain a LTR/marriage; there needs to be other conditions that need to be met (India doesn't have a high divorce rate, but they have strong family connections on top of love).

Four facts for your ass.

1. Men value love, but women love value.

2. Women would rather share a taken man than be committed to a faithful loser.

3. Women always have options. Hypergamy + Briffault's Law.

4. Women control the sex market.

Isn't this place about learning how to deal with these facts (or get around them at least)?
The only way these option would change is when the law demands that both parties share the accumulated savings after a divorce (meaning one half goes to the man while the other goes to the woman), or the cheating partner goes away with nothing while the victim keeps all his/her stuff.

Just a thought.

 

[goodfoot]

Wow, a lot of fail in this thread. The point of the thread is that the game doesn't end when you get in a relationship. If I broke up with my girlfriend today, there are no less than 4 plates I could have in a week. If I wanted to go after her friends, I'm sure some of them would be all for it with the way she is raving about me right now. The point is if you keep improving, you should not have a long dry spell. Trying to find a worthy LTR is another matter, but in that situation the LTR you have sucks anyway. If you're that worried about a dry spell, line up some new plates before you break it off.

 

[Crazystarf]

Spinning plates becomes WAY easier as you continue to progress more and more into life (career, job, money, etc).

More resources = more options.
Basically a man who's a blue collar worker is going to have a hard time spinning multiple plates.

 

[corrector]

Relationships would be awesome if the guy in the relationship was loved by all other girls. Who doesn't want to admired and loved by the opposite sex?

That is just the point. How do you line up options before breaking off a relationship in the first place? If you are liked by other girls that would be easy. But what if this gf/wife sees something in you other girls are not seeing and this is really your only option?

For some guys, there is an inner fear or lack of self-confidence that is comes right through that they can not find a woman to love them for who they are and have to settle with their "soul-mate" who is showing this love (or hiding behind her if she's a reject herself)...and then you are hiding behind a gf or wife who doesn't care about that because she has a bunch of deficiencies herself just to find out she turns on you and leaves you on a dry spell.

You could be a white-color job, be a pastor of a church, and no matter what other people say still suck with women. It's like you have to have a certain type of personality in order for women to be drawn to you in the first place and if you don't have it then you have to pray for a miracle or you have a sad life ahead with either picking up special cases who disappoint you at the end of the day or remaining involuntary celibate.