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*29*

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I've been reading through various posts. Some are brilliantly composed, others... brilliantly decomposed.

If you tried to incorporate every single idea from every single post, you'd be one fvcked up dude.

You will have to choose only the things you want to incorporate, but you can't choose all.

The reason why most guys came here in the first place was to try and find how to get laid. That's it. No "I want to be in an LTR" nonsense, no. Only reason you wanted girls was to satisfy your dlck.

So new guys come here and get bombarded with "Having a girl isn't everything", "You don't NEED women", "Don't place your success on getting laid"...etc etc.

"WTF man, I only wanted to know how to get laid, it's a simple request." says the new guy.

Seriously. Look at the posts! They look like they're written by enlightened monks. Sure they make sense, but it sounds like old men talking to old men like they know what they're talking about.

You can't tell a newbie that he needs to elimate desire in order to connect with girls. The only connection is his dlck in her vagina.

So. If you're new, please feel free to read the speed seduction website. It'll probably get you faster results.

You can't understand women just by talking about them. Just like you can't understand Calculus without grasping the concept of 1+1=2.

Do you understand?

A newbie's progress is determined in steps.

A newbie needs tactics and tips on how to be confident and whatnot. He needs to see what it's like first. He won't understand abstract concepts, like "BE A MAN". He needs solid information...like ****y and funny lines to see how it works in action.

As long as we keep learning (we never stop), we're all newbies :)
 

Miles Davis

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It's been said many times. Experience is the best teacher. Nothing here should be used as a sole means of picking up women. What the newbies should realize is that they should go out there and try. I agree that there are too many unnecessary 'tips' here. A lot of it is interesting to read and that's all, but a newbie cannot discern between what's helpful and not helpful. Though there are posts here that get to the main point.

As far as I'm concerned, if you read the Bible and go out there, you're on the right track.
 

dearsappho

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What this forum really represents is a discussion on the DJ Bible...it is not the bible itself.

The monks you speak of a merely 'theologians' exploring different interpretations of the greater good.

Its all good.
 

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Re:

I'll say a few things.

**If you're confidence suks, no amount of tips matters. If you're confidence rocks, then you can CREATE all the tips, tactics and strategies you like.**

Such things are a great crutch to lean on to just 'get out there', but fairly beneficial in the long-run.

Why do I say this?


Because if you copy everything, you will get little chance to express your TRUE creativity?

How do you know you're not a better pick artist than some guru until you try?

How do you know that you don't have better tips and strategies for laying girls if you don't try?

What if you're the next David D, or Ross Jeffries, or Mystery?

People exhault them, but forget, at 1 point they were mere people, not gods of some seduction community. Take their theories and build on them.


However, the commonality amongst us all is life. If you harness that force, anything you desire is your's. Mystery is so successful now because of Social Proof and because has embraced life. Everything he is and does comes naturally as he's removed all barriers to his goals...


While I would include myself as spiritual, philosophic, I'm also logical, with action-oriented steps, and have seen greater success because of what I've done...and I try to impart REAL WORLD stuff to regular people, not some OTHER WORLDLY material, that few would use.

Plus, what good is laying a chick if you have not the home to take her to, the car to drive her in, or the clothes you like?


It's like the guy going to Home Depot asking for a Drill. What he wants is a hole. Some THINK they want 1 thing, and find out they TRULY wanted something different.




A-Unit
 

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Yeah, the field is king. Respect the field.

If you don't get out in the world and meet women, party with women, bang women, then no ammount of reading is gonna help you. You have to live life to experience it.

A lot of guys come to these message boards looking for advice and comfort. They find them, and are then afraid to leave that comfort and go out into the real world to really fix their problems.

Ya gotta get out there.

Thundercat
 

Jon E

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Originally posted by *29*

The reason why most guys came here in the first place was to try and find how to get laid. That's it. No "I want to be in an LTR" nonsense, no. Only reason you wanted girls was to satisfy your dlck.
Completelty disagree.

I think most of the guys are here because they're tired of being alone but wont admit it because it's not a "macho" or "cool" thing to say. You guys make out like if you go and screw everything that moves that you've accomplished something or become somebody, but you haven't. You haven't done anything. Deep down inside everyone is looking for the same thing: companionship.......whether they admit it or not.
 

*29*

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Originally posted by Jon E

Completelty disagree.

I think most of the guys are here because they're tired of being alone but wont admit it because it's not a "macho" or "cool" thing to say. You guys make out like if you go and screw everything that moves that you've accomplished something or become somebody, but you haven't. You haven't done anything. Deep down inside everyone is looking for the same thing: companionship.......whether they admit it or not.
Eventually.
But most guys here are young, so......time to bang!
 
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