So I'm now in a very complicated situation. Ever since I banged this lady from my gym three weeks ago, she's gotten so attached to me in a manner that is starting to make me get quite worried and uncomfortable.
-First, she makes sure she text messages me now so frequently (sometimes even daily) and some of the things she says bother me. One example of a text message from two weeks ago that she sent to me: "I've recently been having a strange fear inside of me that I may receive a message on my phone one of these mornings telling me that you have left me." When I comforted her, she said: Ok. I just wanted to be sure that you won't do something that's gonna end up making me miserable."
-Last Sunday: "You don't think I should lose a few pounds? I'm afraid other women at the gym may seduce you."
-Just a couple minutes ago today: "I thought about you so hard last night while I lay in bed that I started crying. I love you."
-Regarding my intent to leave my home country where I've been so far for the past four years: "So you're going to go away and leave me behind? Can I come visit you out there when you do leave? If I do, we'll work on having kids. We'll have twins." (Not my plans)
I'm starting to get really worried. This is a woman who on the exterior used to come off as an extremely confident, "I don't give a damn" kind of lady and now I'm really concerned about her degree of sensitivity and the possibility that she could do something to hurt herself because of our relationship.
I had told her from the very start that I wasn't in it looking for a relationship leading to marriage but rather simply someone to date and have some fun with. I thought we understood each other. To my greatest surprise, she told me last weekend that she's already talked about me to her Mom and would like me to come to their home and meet her sometime...which means she's looking once again at our relationship from an angle entirely different from mine.
She comes across to me as the kind of woman who could easily harm herself (or both of us)to an extreme degree for instance if she were to find out you're seeing another woman or if you were to once again remind her the that you weren't looking for a marriage-leading relationship just yet. She has a nine-year-old daughter and I can understand she may be looking for a father figure for her child but it's just not good to cling on to someone like she's doing on me. At the same time, breaking up with her right now with this kind of behavior would be the worst thing I could probably do because her reaction to such a thing can't be predicted.
-First, she makes sure she text messages me now so frequently (sometimes even daily) and some of the things she says bother me. One example of a text message from two weeks ago that she sent to me: "I've recently been having a strange fear inside of me that I may receive a message on my phone one of these mornings telling me that you have left me." When I comforted her, she said: Ok. I just wanted to be sure that you won't do something that's gonna end up making me miserable."
-Last Sunday: "You don't think I should lose a few pounds? I'm afraid other women at the gym may seduce you."
-Just a couple minutes ago today: "I thought about you so hard last night while I lay in bed that I started crying. I love you."
-Regarding my intent to leave my home country where I've been so far for the past four years: "So you're going to go away and leave me behind? Can I come visit you out there when you do leave? If I do, we'll work on having kids. We'll have twins." (Not my plans)
I'm starting to get really worried. This is a woman who on the exterior used to come off as an extremely confident, "I don't give a damn" kind of lady and now I'm really concerned about her degree of sensitivity and the possibility that she could do something to hurt herself because of our relationship.
I had told her from the very start that I wasn't in it looking for a relationship leading to marriage but rather simply someone to date and have some fun with. I thought we understood each other. To my greatest surprise, she told me last weekend that she's already talked about me to her Mom and would like me to come to their home and meet her sometime...which means she's looking once again at our relationship from an angle entirely different from mine.
She comes across to me as the kind of woman who could easily harm herself (or both of us)to an extreme degree for instance if she were to find out you're seeing another woman or if you were to once again remind her the that you weren't looking for a marriage-leading relationship just yet. She has a nine-year-old daughter and I can understand she may be looking for a father figure for her child but it's just not good to cling on to someone like she's doing on me. At the same time, breaking up with her right now with this kind of behavior would be the worst thing I could probably do because her reaction to such a thing can't be predicted.
