Ratiocinative
Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 27, 2016
- Messages
- 92
- Reaction score
- 55
- Age
- 38
First off, never take dating or self-improvement advice from a woman. Anything they tell you is going to be masked by their emotional desire to not make you feel bad or to not make you angry at them.
Second, genetics play only a very small part in physical attraction and physical attraction only plays a very small part in a woman's overall attraction to you. If you're average it's because of the choices you've made in life.
Self-improvement takes time. If you've done little or no self-improvement for the past 40 years then that's why you are where you are. The good news is that most other guys are in the same boat as you, and that if you stop being a ***** looking for self pity and validation from others you can easily go from average to way above average is just as little as a year or two, you just have to put in the work. Not saying it will be easy, but if you put in the work you can easily have everything you want out of life and more.
Stop looking for validation from others and decide what YOU want to be. **** everyone else's opinion. I have people all the time tell me the stupidest reasons why I shouldn't do what I want to do. I had people tell me I'm gonna kill myself (lol?) by not eating for a few days at time lose weight. Now I've got 6 pack abs and they're still fat. I've had people tell me I shouldn't get a puppy because they're too much work, but I have one and he's very well behaved and is always tons of fun and gets me lots of numbers lol. I've had people tell me I'm stupid for getting a truck when I don't need one and that I should just rent one when I need to move something, but I got one anyway because it's my money and it's completely paid off.
Hopefully you get the idea. Do what you want to do with your life. You will attract people with similar interests, but you actually have to do something with your life that requires work. If you just sit at home and sulk then no one is going to find that fun to be around.
Second, genetics play only a very small part in physical attraction and physical attraction only plays a very small part in a woman's overall attraction to you. If you're average it's because of the choices you've made in life.
Self-improvement takes time. If you've done little or no self-improvement for the past 40 years then that's why you are where you are. The good news is that most other guys are in the same boat as you, and that if you stop being a ***** looking for self pity and validation from others you can easily go from average to way above average is just as little as a year or two, you just have to put in the work. Not saying it will be easy, but if you put in the work you can easily have everything you want out of life and more.
Stop looking for validation from others and decide what YOU want to be. **** everyone else's opinion. I have people all the time tell me the stupidest reasons why I shouldn't do what I want to do. I had people tell me I'm gonna kill myself (lol?) by not eating for a few days at time lose weight. Now I've got 6 pack abs and they're still fat. I've had people tell me I shouldn't get a puppy because they're too much work, but I have one and he's very well behaved and is always tons of fun and gets me lots of numbers lol. I've had people tell me I'm stupid for getting a truck when I don't need one and that I should just rent one when I need to move something, but I got one anyway because it's my money and it's completely paid off.
Hopefully you get the idea. Do what you want to do with your life. You will attract people with similar interests, but you actually have to do something with your life that requires work. If you just sit at home and sulk then no one is going to find that fun to be around.
