You know what? F*ck it man....

[Lil Magic]

A little earlier in the month i posted on how long it should take before i give up on trying to get into an LTR with a girl. Well, one chick who i've had oneitis for a little while, i saw her tonight. Sure it started of good, IOI's, she happened to be my first valentine (actually i had two, but hey, it was my first set). So six weeks ago i decided to ask her if she wanted to be my girlfriend. She told me to give her some time to think. I think that was a fatal mistake. From that time everything started going down hill. She doesnt talk to me as much, hangs around other guys, ect. Anyway I asked her if she three weeks ago if she had decided, she said she hadnt. I decided to ask her once more tonight. Again she said she hadnt. Well, if it takes her this long to decide whether on not to be my girlfriend, then i think its pretty obvious she doesnt. If she did, im sure she would have told me in no longer than a week. Anywho, im feeling pretty bad right about now. IF U F*CK UP WITH A GIRL YOU HAVE TO START FROM SQUARE ONE OR MOVE ON!!! My confidence is a pretty shaken right about now, and im questioning the point of even trying to improve myself? I never see the benefit. So here i am again, seventeen , still never had a girl and still f'd up.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

just know that there are billions of females and the world is going to end in 2012. The first says there is plenty of fish in the sea and the second part says live life now because you only have 1 and time is short!

you should have avoided yourself the trouble the moment she said she had to "Think about it." Forget the second, third and how many other times she made it clear she didn't want you but didn't want to hurt your feelings. First rejection should be the last rejection, move on.

 

[Guybrush]

A little earlier in the month i posted on how long it should take before i give up on trying to get into an LTR with a girl. Well, one chick who i've had oneitis for a little while, i saw her tonight. Sure it started of good, IOI's, she happened to be my first valentine (actually i had two, but hey, it was my first set). So six weeks ago i decided to ask her if she wanted to be my girlfriend. She told me to give her some time to think. I think that was a fatal mistake. From that time everything started going down hill. She doesnt talk to me as much, hangs around other guys, ect. Anyway I asked her if she three weeks ago if she had decided, she said she hadnt. I decided to ask her once more tonight. Again she said she hadnt. Well, if it takes her this long to decide whether on not to be my girlfriend, then i think its pretty obvious she doesnt. If she did, im sure she would have told me in no longer than a week. Anywho, im feeling pretty bad right about now. IF U F*CK UP WITH A GIRL YOU HAVE TO START FROM SQUARE ONE OR MOVE ON!!! My confidence is a pretty shaken right about now, and im questioning the point of even trying to improve myself? I never see the benefit. So here i am again, seventeen , still never had a girl and still f'd up.

At least you are aware of your fatal mistake. This gilrl is burnt out now. I think you can never undo the damage you caused.

One girl for such a big lesson IS NOTHING believe me.

But NEVER ASK A GIRL OUT LIKE THAT.

GO read some posts from the forum (and the Bible) before spending time on reading casual stuff here.

Good luck.

And surely, NEXT.

 

[Lil Magic]

Guy this f*ckin sucks. Honestly, im ready to give up on girls. Only so many defeats a guy can take. I can spit as much game as i want, act as confident as possible, but ive come to the conclusion it isnt anything i can change. Also, i think my looks have a big part in it. Talk about irrepairable damage. Dude, i know you shouldnt be stuck on one girl or anything like that, BUT, this is one of two girls ive actually really been interested in In highschool. Your telling me for the five years ive been here, have to give up one i was really into? I was really getting a better response from this girl...but now, i really just want to give up on ever being a great DJ. Failure is a crushing blow, especially to me.

 

[Joe The Homophobe]

lil magic there are just too many girls out there for you to fret over 1. Sooner or later you will see another fine specimen and you will forget the last one. That's how our brain and our manhood works!

failure as in rejection is only a crushing blow if you don't ask enough girls out! if you've only asked out 3 girls in your life and they all rejected you obviously you are going to feel down. But if instead you get some confidence and ask out let's just say 10% of the girls that you are actually attracted to that you see walking around, you will no longer care.

If you don't have a gf you need to be asking a couple girls out a month, not 1 a year.

 

[Triple T]

Failure is a crushing blow, especially to me.

Failure is NOT a crushing blow. It is a lesson to be learnt. Only the wise learn from their mistakes, move on, and improve upon themselves for the better.\
Think positive bro, everyday is a school day...always something to learn.

You had the guts to ask her out, she said no...so who cares? At least you did what most guys are afraid to do. So props!

But yea, don't ask a girl out like the way you did.
Right now, this guy need some encouragement guys...so lets help him out.

Don't give up bro, keep on sarging through and soon you'll become a true DJ.
Trial and error my friend. Don't let one girl get you down, as a matter of fact...don't let ANY number of girls get you down, for you are THE MAN! You are the Don Juan, failure is the first step towards this status.

 

[Lil Magic]

I feel like the Miami Heat. Taking defeat after defeat after defeat really lowers your morale. U telling me just one success is this hard? Just once in my entire school career so far, I cant get it right? If you ask my best friends, they probably say "Ha, no way. He's far to ****y and way too OVERCONFIDENT to be that way." Actually at my school, im kinda known as a womanizer. I know a lot of girls and can spit game, but i can NEVER get a girlfriend. They way i see it, its defeating the purpose. I've concluded that it has to be the way I look. Im too dark and my face is to sensitive to breakouts. Sh*t that i have no control over.

 

[Genghis_Khan]

OK you ARE the Miami Heat right now. You're losing games and losing your confidence!

BUT once D-Wade (your inner confidence) comes back to being the superstar he is for the team (YOU), the Miami Heat gonna be winning games and be that championship team again (You getting your confidence back and being the DJ you're meant to be)

I feel you on being interested in a girl for a long time and not being able to say F*CK IT so easily. But you don't have to next this girl, just put her on the side for a little bit. NOTICE she ain't never said, "NO, I will not be your girlfriend!!!". INSTEAD she just said she hasn't decided yet, which means she just hasn't decided yet.

Right Now, You're not her NUMBER ONE prospect. She's probably interested in a few guys and she's trying to pick out the best one (The NUMBER ONE guy). All you gotta do is move up the ladder to that NUMBER ONE SPOT!!! Listen to Ludacris song, it might help you!

Anyways, you just have to NOT try to impress her, NOT pay attention to her and look at what guys she's talking to, and NOT ASK HER IF SHE DECIDED YET. You need to be a DJ, you know, talk to other girls (Not trying impress anyone, just you being you), don't think about her, but if you see her in the hallways and she looks at you, casually say "hey" and continue what you were doing. Be YOU, be CONFIDENT, and you'll move up that ladder smoothly no matter how tall the ladder might be.

Once you get to that NUMBER ONE SPOT, tell her "B*TCH, Get in my Belleeey!!!".....Peace