Exactly . And it shows insecurity .Espi said:Agreed...I believe that a simple "thank you" shows that you are confident...I find it kind of frustrating when I compliment someone and the person replies, "Well, not really...I just got lucky..."
Accept compliments with a simple thank you.
Espi said:While I think that your saying "thanks" may seem cliche, I also consider it a genuine response that emits confidence...you could probably use her compliment, though, to easily number close...here's something you might respond with:
"Thanks...I'm really flattered to receive a compliment from such a beautiful woman. Listen, I gotta go, but we should continue this conversation. How can I contact you?"
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.