You're on this forum, and BigDave is the guy you decide to reproach about this?
BigDave's overall intentions of finding the right woman to marry and settle down with and have a family is fine.
The idea that you need to start having sex with women you are not married and brag about it and say that this didn't help you go from point A to point B is stupid on so many levels. That's something to be ashamed of rather than brag about or use as a means to and end. You don't use people on principle for your own selfish or sexual pleasure as that's just animalistic and it's a sin against the moral intent of why you are here.
Why fight for something that most people are going to hell for anyway and instead use the same energy and time work on your soul instead and seek Jesus to save your soul.
That includes porn as well. I don't see any justification on why Dave is viewing porn either, especially lesbian porn. The Lord sees everything including Dave watching porn and He is angry at sin. He should be praying rather than watching porn. Cry out for mercy that the Lord will spare him with his wrath for his many sins and that includes everyone reading this as well.
Dave, you must get down on your knees and pray for the right woman. Make a deal with God. Vow to Him that if He gives you the right woman what you will do in exchange for this. Will you get serious with Jesus if he solved this problem in your life? Join a Bible school? Think carefully about how badly you want the right woman and have faith.
I'm believing God for the right woman myself. I haven't seen her yet, but then again, I get it that God might be working behind the scenes, and one fateful day, that moment will happen and I'll be shocked and have to say this was God. It is my seeing miracles like this that further substantiates my faith to show that God is real and is very interested in these types of affairs. I don't advise something I'm not doing myself. I might even have to pray around women for the nerve to talk with them and approach them if I'm too shy, in the future. I mean if it's easier to pray than talk to them, why not? We rely on ourselves too much and should trust God for everything.