You guys were right about lack of confidence crippling me

bigdave17

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Last night, I actually approached a few sets of women (well my friends did, I was wingman). They went ok, not enough chemistry with any of the girls to ask for a number


I'm noticing when I go anywhere that I can very easily make friends yet I struggle tremendously to make women like me. The only difference seems to be that I believe these people will want to be friends with me but I just can't stop doubting myself with the women


How do I build confidence in myself towards dating? I've done everything people have recommended - maximizing all areas of my life and that didn't help. I've slept with 12-15 women way below my league and that didn't help. Why do I feel like dating is so damn hard?
 

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Heeeere we go again!

Ppl are going to give you advice @bigdave17 and you are going to reply to them and tell them they are wrong. Because that is what you do.
 

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Heeeere we go again!

Ppl are going to give you advice @bigdave17 and you are going to reply to them and tell them they are wrong. Because that is what you do.
Another 1000+ post troll.

My suggestion is to start fvcking some of the women you belueve you desires slightly lesser attractive friends. Until then fvck someone "below" your league you like spending time with. You shouldn't go dry over 30+ days. Your sexuality is currently dead and its unattractive.
 

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Last night, I actually approached a few sets of women (well my friends did, I was wingman). They went ok, not enough chemistry with any of the girls to ask for a number


I'm noticing when I go anywhere that I can very easily make friends yet I struggle tremendously to make women like me. The only difference seems to be that I believe these people will want to be friends with me but I just can't stop doubting myself with the women


How do I build confidence in myself towards dating? I've done everything people have recommended - maximizing all areas of my life and that didn't help. I've slept with 12-15 women way below my league and that didn't help. Why do I feel like dating is so damn hard?
Yawn. ^^^Fake news diversion thread from your dating app thread soon as your bs excuses ran out and you were cornered.

You struggle tremendously with implementing advice and leaving this forum permanently because you're here for nothing more than attention
 

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This just in guys, breaking news here... fellow sosuave memeber Big Dave is actually a computer application.

I'll have more information as this story develops
 

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I've slept with 12-15 women way below my league and that didn't help
Repent of your fornication. You should be married before having sex.

True confidence is being able to approach God with a clear conscience and be forgiven of your sins. Are you confident towards God? His opinion is more important than a woman's opinion because He created women. He said it wasn't good that Adam was created by himself and decided to create women out of one of his ribs in his rib-cage. So be right with God and stop this fornication thing and stop posting crazy threads on here.
 

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You don't make them like you.
 

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The more you struggle, the less they like you. You don't make women like you, you do you and either they like you or they don't. The moment you are trying to make them like you, they won't because it's the very essence of desperation.


I just need to learn true confidence
 
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Trying to get them to like you? That’s the wrong model. You could do that until the cows come home. When that doesn’t work, and it won’t, what are you going to have left to try?
You need to start from scratch Dave.
 

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Repent of your fornication. You should be married before having sex.
You're on this forum, and BigDave is the guy you decide to reproach about this?
 

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If you don't like his post feel free to press the ignore button.

Why don't you guys do it ?

Seems some guys just enjoys getting off some perverse high from bashing him and trolling all his threads.

Then u r also part of the problem.
 

zekko

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If you don't like his post feel free to press the ignore button.
You don't even have to hit the ignore button. If you don't want to read his posts, then just don't read them.
It's really easy, honest.
 

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Seeking a womans approval is beta mindset. One I seek to shed.
 
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