I'm not failing at all. But I think the main reason people here do fail is because they don't go out and try things. Those people can be classified into 2 categories:
1) They catch on to concepts here, and their expertise on the subject is simply that gained from others posts here. Then in the real world, they put nothing into practice. They sit back and watch, come home to make more posts here.
2) They find excuses why everything talking about here is wrong or doesn't/wouldn't work. Then they keep doing what they were doing, and continue to fail.
I think I came to this site with a slightly different motive than at least some people. I probably have more success with women than most of my friends, and they are usually coming to me for advice (even the ones who do get girls). I came here to increase the quality or girls I could find/attract. I feel my looks are good enough to get me better girls than I had been.
However, I learned a lot here that I didn't expect, and I've switched my whole game up since. Now it has become easier, and I have more confidence.