You Guys are SAD

[jan7519]

After reading these threads for months and months I could not refrain from commenting. Although I do appreciate your efforts in searching for a few truths or aspects of the opposite sex, it seems to me that most of the men on this site and even the "Don Juans" of this site dont know a thing about the very essence of what they are preaching (women). You all seem to lack the common sense associated with communicating and understating the opposite sex. Most men turning to this site are men who did not have a proper image of how to be a man while growing up (via a father) and the same goes for the proper image of women (via a mother). The households today are filled with single mothers trying to pay the bills, and therefore I can not blame you guys 100% for your ignorance and misconceptions.

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All of you here keep reminding each other about qualifying the women but most of you forget that losers like you (excuse me for my language but thats what most of the men on this site are) cant qualify it just doesnt make sense, most of you will make the women laugh while trying to qualify. And if you do succeeded in creating the image of someone with the capacity of qualifying, being that you are innate losers she will see it in due time.

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This blog is the epitome of the loss of all manhood in this generation, as well as the obsession of banging as many women as possible, when most people think of the meaning of a man 10,000 sexual partners does not come to mind. Have any of you considered the negative effects of so many female partners before marriage. It turns sex into nothing but a habitual exercise of "busting a nut" and leaves no room for passion and intimacy. I am not preaching abstinence but I would have to say that a man being an easy lay does not show any sort of self restraint or self respect. Besides the intimacy and passion issues, your wife will never be enough, no matter how great looking she is. There is no need to contest this, a person used to variety naturally will not be content with 1 choice. Sure these threads can help you get laid but I assure you that they will not help you keep the "quality" women. Building a fake facade of being a man fades quickly and a real women will catch on; at this point your facade will crumble because you will not be able to maintain the facade, its impossible to do when its not you.

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Also, all the men keep blaming the feminist movement for the demise of marriage in our society. (Not that I am contesting this, sure women are to blame for some of todays relationship disasters) However, most of you have not considered the facts of WHY the feminist women gained such wide spread support. Perhaps its due to the simple fact of mistreating women even though they were the IDEAL women that all of you seek today. They did everything you men seek today, but the men and society of their time failed to acknowledge it and mistreated the women (high acceptability of cheating and the common notion of the man doing as he pleases just to name a few). Its only a matter of time the feminist movement caught on and the women "retaliated".

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To all those losing hope (as some of you seem to be), dont worry it has only been close to 30yrs since the adaptation of womens lib in society (considering the second movement, since it received the most support). This short time simply means that its not well established in society yet, we are the guinea pigs of the liberated women in society. Eventually, perhaps in our grand childrens' time society will adapt and learn to cope and deal with this new image of the female gender.


With all this said, I would like to Challenger the "Don Juans" of this site to post a few threads on maintaining a Healthy relationship, in which both parties happiness is taken in to account instead of continuously focusing on acquiring the relationship and or sex. Thats of course if you guys have knowledge of this subject. Remember you cant take your single guy tactics and apply them to your wife or long term relationship.

 

[2-D]

Hey Jan, what's wrong with having more than one sexual partner? When I see a hot girl I want to get in with her, that's pretty normal I think...

Also the facade is stupid to even put on in the first place. The men of this site should just learn how to actually connect with women instead of being socially retarded and thinking everything through like they are in the Cold War or something. Jesus, all it takes is a little sociable fun attitude, not theories and "BE MANLY!" mantras!

 

[PappyS]

Eventually, perhaps in our grand childrens' time society will adapt and learn to cope and deal with this new image of the female gender.

People have already adapted or are adapting to current female behavior. That is what you see with this PUA stuff, MGTOW etc. etc. They're adapting or trying to adapt.

 

[jonwon]

Jan please for the love of god, go away!

Your post so awash with menstal mush, I highly doubt anyone will give it the time of day, I don't even know why im responding.

It is clear you’re a rabid feminist and arguing with your sort is akin to getting repeatedly kicked in the head by a donkey.

Here are some points to get you going, ideally for the door:

"filled with single mothers trying to pay the bills"

'Ignorance and misconceptions', you then menstrual out of your mouth. This place is a shrine of truth to show light onto the endemic of single motherhood, which incidentally isn't the fault of men. Women have all the power when it comes to child birth, men get zero say in the matter, you'd have to be a freaking nut not to see it.

"All of you here keep reminding each other about qualifying the women but most of you forget that losers like you (excuse me for my language but that what most of the men on this site are) can’t qualify it just doesn’t make sense, most of you will make the women laugh while trying to qualify. And if you do succeeded in creating the image of someone with the capacity of qualifying, being that you are innate losers she will see it in due time".

What is this load of shi*>? We'll done you've just condensed the whole dating scene in one momental menstal outpouring, you should write a book. "Making a women laugh", yeh it's so bloody simple, wish us losers would have thought of that sooner. This whole paragraph is just a feminist outpouring of menstal mush bs that places a women on a pedestal and makes men, losers to her superior quality. Here on this site we avoid such rubbish, we advocate men to not pedestalize women, much like you do.

" This blog is the epitome ".

I've condensed it, because rather frankly again it was one large paragraph about the 'quality women' and what a man should do to tow the line for the 'quality women myth', again putting a women on a pedestal and telling guys what to conform to, to please the master in his future. I agree with your points about keeping a facade, but I HIGHLY DOUBT for one second, you are the person guys should be listening to, if anything you’re a feminised wuss bag, who pedestals women, whilst calling men 'losers' for sleeping with women, for listening to any advice but your own and pouring out cra* like it's written from the ten commandments.

"simple fact of mistreating women "

After reading that, I wish I could reach into the screen where your sat and give you a bitc* slap. Seriously F-Off with this garbage.

I'm in a relationship right now jack(as* and so are many other great posters, including some guys that are married and have been for years, who have offered support and help to guys struggling and helped them fix their marriage.

Also, seriously pis* off with the women’s lib cra*, you raging feminist homo! I hate your type with a passion, not only do you bleat victimhood, especially when women are currently the most spoilt demographic in the whole of history; ( I'd put my points, but it is clear your just another femtard), so with that please for the love of all things, get the F-out of here.

Also I can tell your simply another f-tard from this statement "in which both parties happiness", Congratufuc*inglations, not only have you in one thread told men to tow a line to meet the quality women, you've then described your version of how to keep the perfect relationship with that quality women, by keeping her happy!

1. If your a women, your a great example of why men should never listen to women offering relationship advice.

2. If your a man, you must be a virgin and if your a man who the fuc* names themself Jan?

I.e your a female and in the high % of females that are totally clueless in offering relationship advice. You live in a victimised, self serving, fairy tale bubble, where everything is 'happy', all men are rabid horn dog losers and women are quality, that men must work hard to attract. I'd like to stick a long sharp needle in your bubble and watch it burst with you in it.

 

[Julius_Seizeher]

And what of this thread? I see a bunch of finger pointing and armchair quarterbacking. Check your head gear, new guy. Quit worrying about what everyone else is doing, you just watch yourself lest you find yourself standing on the sidelines criticizing everyone else in such explicit detail.

Plus you sound like a feminist troll anyway. When I am ruler of the forum, you will be thrown off the cliffs to the entertainment of Rome.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

instead of continuously focusing on acquiring the relationship and or sex.

Well, it's fairly common knowledge the a certain percentage of women actually enjoy some backdoor action, it's just that.. oh wait... I thought you said

"relationship with anal sex.."

never mind..

 

[boomerick]

Jan...Jan...Jan....the 'saddest' thing here are the trolls like you who have such a wasted life that they reach out anonomously for human contact on the computer. Trying even for a negative response just to provoke some sort of human interaction for their sad, lonely.....

(male version)....56-year-old-welfare collecting-alcohalic-convicted pedophile-living-with-mom-the-cat-lady-in-her-basement-wearing-her-underware...

(female version #1) ....+35 year old-morbidlidly obiese-on welfare-living off of the child-support you receive from the 3 entrapped fathers of your 7-grimey illigitamate inter racial kids-while you support also your-meth-dealing-23-year-old high-school-drop-out-ex-con-boyfriend...

(female version #2) ....was predatory in her 20's and married for hubbys earning potential-dumped for a younger prettier in her late 30's when hubby got fed up with her neverending sh!t-works full time but hates it-divorced mom of at least 2 who has been tossed aside and passed over dispite what she read in magazines and saw on tv and in movies-bitter-looks gone-overweight-plastic surgery victim-desperate 'cougar'.....

...lives.

Who else would spend as much time as you did saying nothing. Do the world a favor and kill yourself in order to at least not waste the mountainous amounts of junk food, lottery tickets, and cigarettes you consume. Over and Out.

 

[PappyS]

I'm thinking the poster is a woman, depressed and alone on Valentines Day because the man she is currently screwing chose to spend the day with his wife instead of with her. Sucks to be a number two ho.

 

[DJDamage]

Show us your t1ts!!

 

[amoka]

Somebody didn't get Valentines day flowers and decided to find out "why?" and came across sosuave.

 

[Demodulate]

Don't feed the trolls...

 

[zekko]

I assume the OP is a female, probably someone who has had a recent bad experience with a man, and has come here to take out some of her frustrations. Regardless, in spite of the troll like nature of her post, I do think she makes a few good points in between all the parts where she is merely lashing out.

You all seem to lack the common sense associated with communicating and understating the opposite sex.

By all means, enlighten us.

This blog is the epitome of the loss of all manhood in this generation, as well as the obsession of banging as many women as possible, when most people think of the meaning of a man 10,000 sexual partners does not come to mind. Have any of you considered the negative effects of so many female partners before marriage. It turns sex into nothing but a habitual exercise of "busting a nut" and leaves no room for passion and intimacy. I am not preaching abstinence but I would have to say that a man being an easy lay does not show any sort of self restraint or self respect.

I actually agree with a lot of this. A man has to have some control over his primal urges or he is no better than an animal. Guys need to do a certain amount of experimenting, and I wouldn't advocate completely repressing your instincts. But some guys are so focused on "busting a nut" to the exclusion of all else that it's disgusting. Sex honestly shouldn't be that big of a deal. YMMV.

However, most of you have not considered the facts of WHY the feminist women gained such wide spread support. Perhaps its due to the simple fact of mistreating women even though they were the IDEAL women that all of you seek today. They did everything you men seek today, but the men and society of their time failed to acknowledge it and mistreated the women (high acceptability of cheating and the common notion of the man doing as he pleases just to name a few).

There are a lot of reasons why feminism crept in. I definitely wouldn't say it's all the man's fault, but if he is the leader he has to take the bulk of the blame. It is definitely true a lot of men mistreated their women back in the 50s and before when women were more subservient. Not all by any means, but there were guys who abused their position.

With all this said, I would like to Challenger the "Don Juans" of this site to post a few threads on maintaining a Healthy relationship, in which both parties happiness is taken in to account instead of continuously focusing on acquiring the relationship and or sex.

I happen to be in a very healthy relationship. But that isn't what this forum is about primarily. It's about picking up and attracting women, that's what its focus is. It's mostly younger guys trying to get their act together for the first time.

I wouldn't mind seeing a section on relationships, but I would be very leery of taking advice on relationships from anyone. If two people can't work it out together between themselves, I don't see where an outside party's input is going to help any.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Remember you cant take your single guy tactics and apply them to your wife or long term relationship.

Been doing it happily and successfully for over 14 years now.

 

[boomerick]

Originally Posted by jan7519
Remember you cant take your single guy tactics and apply them to your wife or long term relationship.

Actually, this is exactly what DOES work in a marriage or LTR!

 

[jnice48146]

Funny that in my last LTR, when I did start treating her like the OP would have you treat a woman it all fell apart. When it was good was when I applied the methods and tactics professed on this very forum and website.

My suggestion is for this chick, the OP, to go get a bucket of Haagen-Daas and watch some Oprah re-runs instead of wasting our time on this forum. We have work to do!

 

[Nino-Tk]

You must be a spokesperson for the AFC's

 

[Forty0ztoFreedom]

Be yourself, be authentic, go for what you want, take care of yourself, kill that desperation, be positive in life, be HAPPY . .

Damn these evil PUA beliefs! If only we stayed the sulking, depressed, lonely people waiting for the 'one' to come and give us our lives.

 

[CarlitosWay]

Shut up and make me a sammich. (just mustard no mayo please)

 

[shaunuk]

look, if you're gonna be here, at least make yourself useful and get your t1ts out for the boys. oh and make me a sandwich for fvcks sake.

 

[everywomanshero]

I am sure glad someone set me straight.

Now if only I could trade in all those experiences I had with beautiful women for the perfect father figure and June Clevor!!!!