Immigrant parents mean 10:30 PM bed time, or asskicking (and my dad is 6'2, 210, and used to be a pro boxer before he went into banking, so I can't do crap). Got no choice. XD
Anyway, my problem is I don't really have anything about myself that bothers me. I say the wrong thing sometimes, but I've been working on that on years and have never let up, but besides that, it doesn't bother me that I'm skinny, fugly, etc. So there's no motivation to change. I also have no initiative to date/f*ck girls. I mean, we all get horny, but my lack of gfs/sex has never really been a problem.
So yea. I don't have the usual AFC problems (lack of conversational skills, nerdiness, pimply face, etc, though I'm selfconscious about a scar I got on my eyebrow as a kid), and motivation is the issue. I've resolved to get down to business starting this summer, when I get some pimp wheels.