You can't save these hoes

[Solomon]

The quality of women in the field is really starting to resemble POF in real life

Thursday go out: there is a chick who looks like Kate from Lost and of course her fat friend. Talk to her come to find out she has 3 kids and get this the baby daddy is a aspiring preacher. Once She started talking "Kids" and "drama" my phallus went soft. My buddy was trying to get it in, but not me. I dipped out and grabbed a cheeeseburger

Last night hung out with the same buddy, he had a girl come over that is just a friend who he went to college with. The girl was crying at the end of the night cause her Fbuddy wouldn't come see her at the bar we was at

"I made him breakfast in the morning, and pick him up and do all sorts of things for him"--She said​

The guy she is dealing with, he is a lame, but he knows how to play the game. My buddy kept it honest with her and told her she will never be more to him then a fucc buddy. She cries but continues to text him like an idiot, thinking that she can change his mind because she is a "good girl"



:crackup:

This would make me rage in the past, and rustled my jimmies, but women logic is an epic fail with this current generation of young women. Also the more women I've dealt with the more I realize that a lot of these "women" are dumb bytches. Here is why.

A smart woman is not gonna have 3 kids before 25 (unmarried)this kills her value in the sexual marketplace like no other, granted the chick was hot but even then only a thirsty simp would put up with her diva attitude

nor is a smart woman gonna cry about some loser who has nothing going for himself besides his cawk

But I digress

Talking to these hoes is a waste of time, cause even when these women realize the truth, they still think they can change that "bad boy" or "loser" this is the reason why I truly believe women are crazy

thoughts?

 

[floydb25]

The problem is, these people are delusional, and not as good as they think they are. Nor are they innocent or victimised . What they do is, get with people like themselves, mirror their issues onto them, blame for everything, and play the victim. Meanwhile, they keep seeking them out so they can feed their misery and drama. Trust me, these people are dysfunctional and no different than the jerks they seek after. Just because they show their vulnerable side as theyre whining and playing the victim doesnt make them good people. Most are quite selfish and spoiled, and complain when they cant get their way.

Never sympathise with the damsel in distress. Theyre not as innocent or honorable as they claim. Theyre usually quite ****ing insane, actually. And yes, good people dont do these things - onl losers who think they are good do. Their true colors are typically right in front of you - what you see is what you get. All the *****ing, drama, victim playing, misery, bad boy seeking - thats THEM. Accept them just as they are, and DONT try to change them - not unlike they are doing with the jerks.

This is how people get caught right up in the jerk seeking jerk then becoming a jerk cycle. If these people didnt have issues, this wouldnt be happening. Thats why they never JUST date jerks - theyre usually crazy and worthless on top of it.

Remember: only losers date jerks, and vice versa. Just because theyre conceited and in denial, doesnt make it not true. The dysfunctional compatibility they share is always there. To quote Eminem from the song Love The Way You Lie, "you're the same as me".

Evidence: multiple kids, bars, **** buddies, jerks. Certainly there is more if you go deeper. Sounds like a loser to me.

 

[For_F]

The problem is, these people are delusional, and not as good as they think they are. Nor are they innocent or victimised . What they do is, get with people like themselves, mirror their issues onto them, blame for everything, and play the victim. Meanwhile, they keep seeking them out so they can feed their misery and drama. Trust me, these people are dysfunctional and no different than the jerks they seek after. Just because they show their vulnerable side as theyre whining and playing the victim doesnt make them good people. Most are quite selfish and spoiled, and complain when they cant get their way.

Never sympathise with the damsel in distress. Theyre not as innocent or honorable as they claim. Theyre usually quite ****ing insane, actually. And yes, good people dont do these things - onl losers who think they are good do. Their true colors are typically right in front of you - what you see is what you get. All the *****ing, drama, victim playing, misery, bad boy seeking - thats THEM. Accept them just as they are, and DONT try to change them - not unlike they are doing with the jerks.

This is how people get caught right up in the jerk seeking jerk then becoming a jerk cycle. If these people didnt have issues, this wouldnt be happening. Thats why they never JUST date jerks - theyre usually crazy and worthless on top of it.

Remember: only losers date jerks, and vice versa. Just because theyre conceited and in denial, doesnt make it not true. The dysfunctional compatibility they share is always there. To quote Eminem from the song Love The Way You Lie, "you're the same as me".

Evidence: multiple kids, bars, **** buddies, jerks. Certainly there is more if you go deeper. Sounds like a loser to me.

What an awesome comment. Explains my ex so fvcking well. The whole victim role to make themselves feel better while continuing to date assh0les and always complaining. My ex's mom and she herself said I was the first 'proper' partner she had and she tossed me away like I was nothing.

 

[floydb25]

Yes, exactly. Their true colors come out when they date someone who isnt crazy. Thats when you find out how victimised they arent - as the same patterns continue with YOU. Theyre still *****ing about jerks, playing the victim, causing problems, blaming YOU for everything ,using and playing everyone, etc. This is who they are. And thats why being a jerk with these types is so effective. Its what their crazy asses live for. Its also why chaos and drama follows them wherever they go. As well, their claims and your assumptions (based on their claims) dont match reality. Ex: The only people theyre nice to are the jerks like themselves, because they only care about their own interests and feelings, as well. The problem is THEM. Always was. Nothing you see is new.

All the op's friend is doing is sympathising with a toxic person. Shes telling him exactly what shes about, but rather than look at the facts, he sides with her. Red flags are all over the place already - simply by revealing these things, AND *****ing and crying. Playing the victim, complaining, seeking *******s, being miserable, and pursuing drama are all huge warning signs that youre entering toxic territory. ESPECIALLY when it happens right away. Its what shes all about.

Its only a matter of time before the OPs friend starts complaining about HER, calls her crazy, and blah blah - when all the evidence was in front of him the whole time. Ex: she always was crazy, and never a victim. And neither is he, when he starts crying and going back for more.

Bah. Theyre all ****ing crazy if you ask me. Been down the same path too many times - even as the so-called victim - to believe otherwise. Loser talk is my field of expertise. LOL. **** off.

Bottom line: no one is as good, innocent, selfless, harmless, or victimised as they claim to be, or think they are. I dont buy into the whole honorable, fixer upper, nurturer, caring, good girl BS. What are these people complaining about, anyway. Oh yea... The things affecting THEM. Do they care about anyone else - like your friend? Nope. Just another jerk playing the victim because another jerk is mistreating her. Laugh. :kick:

 

[PDubb75]

Sorry, but this instantly came to mind when I read the title: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UGobXsmPx78

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Floyd, you nailed my ex right to the cross.

Pun intended?

 

[Solomon]

Sorry, but this instantly came to mind when I read the title: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UGobXsmPx78

That song is a street classic brah

@Floyd bro your quote is fuccing spot on as well, I will use that as my blog post

 

[Naughty Ninja]

The problem is, these people are delusional, and not as good as they think they are. Nor are they innocent or victimised . What they do is, get with people like themselves, mirror their issues onto them, blame for everything, and play the victim. Meanwhile, they keep seeking them out so they can feed their misery and drama. Trust me, these people are dysfunctional and no different than the jerks they seek after. Just because they show their vulnerable side as theyre whining and playing the victim doesnt make them good people. Most are quite selfish and spoiled, and complain when they cant get their way.

Never sympathise with the damsel in distress. Theyre not as innocent or honorable as they claim. Theyre usually quite ****ing insane, actually. And yes, good people dont do these things - onl losers who think they are good do. Their true colors are typically right in front of you - what you see is what you get. All the *****ing, drama, victim playing, misery, bad boy seeking - thats THEM. Accept them just as they are, and DONT try to change them - not unlike they are doing with the jerks.

This is how people get caught right up in the jerk seeking jerk then becoming a jerk cycle. If these people didnt have issues, this wouldnt be happening. Thats why they never JUST date jerks - theyre usually crazy and worthless on top of it.

Remember: only losers date jerks, and vice versa. Just because theyre conceited and in denial, doesnt make it not true. The dysfunctional compatibility they share is always there. To quote Eminem from the song Love The Way You Lie, "you're the same as me".

Evidence: multiple kids, bars, **** buddies, jerks. Certainly there is more if you go deeper. Sounds like a loser to me.

What's amazing is that there are posters on here who haven't realized that yet.

You can only nod and walk away. Any sane normal person doesn't act like a helpless victim.

The WK pops into dudes heads when they hear chicks talk that nonsense while they are really thinking with their d1ck.

You just have to realize these victim types aren't worth anything. Period.

Take off and disappear or get sucked into the garbage.

 

[SharinganUser]

Never try to save hoes, just enjoy the ride, so to speak.

 

[Trump]

The woman who has 3 kids has nothing to do with you - who cares what she has done in the past. No money wasted, just 10 minutes talking to her. Consider it low interest and move on.

Your buddy who invites a girl over so she can talk about not being able to screw some guy is a pushover. He has to step up his game or cut her off. You cant be friends with a girl you are attracted to.

Man, if you think these chicks are crazy, you haven't seen anything. My brothers wife hid his prescribed pills which led to his suicide, so she could cash out with all his money. She got it too, court said its a ok to hide pills since she fooled the police and the court, come to find out she was a con woman. My cousins wife made up a story about how he cheated her out of millions, completely made it up, court believed her, she got all the money.

I've seen girls do insurance fraud, murder, manslaughter, lie in court, cheat in court, make up affidavits, falsely accuse innocent people, have innocent guys arrested on bogus charges, falsely accuse guys of rape, and more. There is so much evil in the world and IT'S ALL ABOUT THE MONEY.

So some chick having 3 kids before 25 but isn't a criminal is almost a good thing.

 

[floydb25]

What's amazing is that there are posters on here who haven't realized that yet.

You can only nod and walk away. Any sane normal person doesn't act like a helpless victim.

The WK pops into dudes heads when they hear chicks talk that nonsense while they are really thinking with their d1ck.

You just have to realize these victim types aren't worth anything. Period.

Take off and disappear or get sucked into the garbage.

Again, yes... exactly. Normal people dont get caught up in this crap - they dont begin and end every conversation with *****ing. They also dont play the victim, arent miserable, dont need a shoulder to cry on, etc. The people who do this have issues; theyre dysfunctional and damaged. Theyre always *****ing because theyre at the center of it - as a result of their own issues. Thats why they ***** about the same things they are. None of these patterns are new; they havent "changed". If you look at their history - its nothing but garbage. And you can tell, because all they do is ***** about everything, from the beginning of time. All of which they involved themselves in. If they didnt - none of this would be happening.

They also wouldnt have major trust issues, sleeping around, avoiding good people, treating people like crap, and things like that. These are all red flags. If you dig deep, youll generally find a whole laundry list of problems - stemming from their childhood. Waste of time. Theyre never going to change, because theres nothing TO change.

 

[floydb25]

Gah... Forgot to add: the white knight saviors arent innocent, either. They usually have similar issues of low self esteem and co-dependancy. They try to save these hoes, so that the hoes will depend on the them. The WKs need to feel needed, and will endure any amount of abuse, rejection, and neglect to make it so. They figure, if they save these hoes, they will love them forever. Everything they do is out of seeking approval. Again, not unlike the hoes are doing with the jerks.

Deep down, everyone feels unworthy, and seeks after those who DONT want them, and will hurt or reject them. They specifically seek out these types over and over - only to *****, complain, play the victim, and fuel their misery / low self worth. Theyre all caught up in the same patterns, because theyre all the same PEOPLE. No one is good or bad - theyre all dysfunctional.

So, like I said, everyone involved is crazy, has issues, and should be avoided. Some of your friends are probably doing this **** right now. Enjoy the negativity , I guess. :rock:

Remember: its not always about game or attraction - some people are simply ****ed up.

 

[Renegade357]

Remember: only losers date jerks, and vice versa. Just because theyre conceited and in denial, doesnt make it not true. The dysfunctional compatibility they share is always there. To quote Eminem from the song Love The Way You Lie, "you're the same as me".

Work of art man. Awesome awesome post.

 

[Solomon]

The woman who has 3 kids has nothing to do with you - who cares what she has done in the past. No money wasted, just 10 minutes talking to her. Consider it low interest and move on.

Her righhht, did you even read this post? why would I subject myself to a chick with 3 kids?

Your buddy who invites a girl over so she can talk about not being able to screw some guy is a pushover. He has to step up his game or cut her off. You cant be friends with a girl you are attracted to.

The chick is a friend my buddy's known since college she use to date his roommate, my buddy could easily bang her but he has already banged a couple of her friends. To top it off you must not read the part about us hanging out a bar. My buddy is far from a push over brah

Man, if you think these chicks are crazy, you haven't seen anything. My brothers wife hid his prescribed pills which led to his suicide, so she could cash out with all his money. She got it too, court said its a ok to hide pills since she fooled the police and the court, come to find out she was a con woman. My cousins wife made up a story about how he cheated her out of millions, completely made it up, court believed her, she got all the money.

I've seen girls do insurance fraud, murder, manslaughter, lie in court, cheat in court, make up affidavits, falsely accuse innocent people, have innocent guys arrested on bogus charges, falsely accuse guys of rape, and more. There is so much evil in the world and IT'S ALL ABOUT THE MONEY.

So some chick having 3 kids before 25 but isn't a criminal is almost a good thing.

I'm sorry to hear about your brother brah, thats a fucced up story and she got away? wow

Your scenario is one of those that you read about in the papers and don't believe, however the fact that you think a chick having 3 kids unwed by a preacher is not a big deal, speaks volume on how being a single mother now is so acceptable

@Flyod once agian spot bro, how old r u?

 

[floydb25]

31. It should be on the left hand side - unless I'm halucinating. :nervous:

 

[VladPatton]

Pat yourself on the back and realize you are able to see and spot this out. Never, never try and save a girl with issues. And all of this crap we are learning and discussing here on this forum is just a filtering mechanism to see if your intended woman is in fact, sane. You play, she plays, the dance goes on. But when something is awry, sane people will notice, and run for the hills. I've learned my lesson trying to chase a beautiful crazy girl. Never again. You'll never be happy with her because you are not a member of the crazy club! But...you do have to at least try, and that is the whole point of our being here.

 

[floydb25]

This is actually extremely common, fellas. I'm not suprised people can relate. Its the number 1 recurring theme on the interweb.

The scenerio usually plays out like this: so-called nice girl complains that every man she meets is a jerk, including the one she's currently *****ing about - to the nice guy she is using / stringing along for her own selfish gain, no less... Dumb**** nice guy sympathizes with her, believes her to be the victim because he's an idiot, and all she does is complain about everything that she CHOOSES to involve herself in / is a part of / everything is her own damn fault / she's insane... Nice guy pours his heart out - still being stuck in dumbass mode... Girl gets used / played / dumped, as expected (and for good reason)... Rejects nice guy... Dates another jerk... Nice guy goes insane, jumps on the internet to cry like a Susie... Claims nice guys finish last... Cries some more... Turns into a jerk to attract her type - not realizing he's still a dumbass, and that her type is garbage... Gets involved with all these crazy *****es seeking out jerks - only to realize his perfect relationship with a good girl is complete chaos / she's not a good girl / she's insane / she loves drama / is retarded and useless / he wants to stab her in the throat repeatedly with a fork... Goes back on the internet to complain about how all women are crazy *****es...And so on.

When someone plays the victim, this is ALL you hear: theyre good people who do all of these wonderful things (which they will detail, just to convince themselves and others that theyre really awesome and caring and nice, and can do no wrong, ever); while the other person is the spawn of Satan (which they will also detail). Thats it. Add in some self-pity and whining about how nice people finish last (since theyre so perfect and sweet and nice, as per their delusional, one-sided, self-absorbed mindset), and you have their side of the story. Its all crap.

Save yourself the trouble, and avoid the victim types who seek out and ***** about jerks. Never once have I met one that was worth a damn, and didnt have a slew of other issues (namely, bat**** insanity). The patterns never changed; becoming a jerk only attracts these lunatics to you, and makes you become crazy, as well. You dont want to be like the guy depicted above, do you? Or maybe you already are. lol skittles :crackup:

 

[MikeOck]

This is actually extremely common, fellas. I'm not suprised people can relate. Its the number 1 recurring theme on the interweb.

The scenerio usually plays out like this: so-called nice girl complains that every man she meets is a jerk, including the one she's currently *****ing about - to the nice guy she is using / stringing along for her own selfish gain, no less... Dumb**** nice guy sympathizes with her, believes her to be the victim because he's an idiot, and all she does is complain about everything that she CHOOSES to involve herself in / is a part of / everything is her own damn fault / she's insane... Nice guy pours his heart out - still being stuck in dumbass mode... Girl gets used / played / dumped, as expected (and for good reason)... Rejects nice guy... Dates another jerk... Nice guy goes insane, jumps on the internet to cry like a Susie... Claims nice guys finish last... Cries some more... Turns into a jerk to attract her type - not realizing he's still a dumbass, and that her type is garbage... Gets involved with all these crazy *****es seeking out jerks - only to realize his perfect relationship with a good girl is complete chaos / she's not a good girl / she's insane / she loves drama / is retarded and useless / he wants to stab her in the throat repeatedly with a fork... Goes back on the internet to complain about how all women are crazy *****es...And so on.

When someone plays the victim, this is ALL you hear: theyre good people who do all of these wonderful things (which they will detail, just to convince themselves and others that theyre really awesome and caring and nice, and can do no wrong, ever); while the other person is the spawn of Satan (which they will also detail). Thats it. Add in some self-pity and whining about how nice people finish last (since theyre so perfect and sweet and nice, as per their delusional, one-sided, self-absorbed mindset), and you have their side of the story. Its all crap.

Save yourself the trouble, and avoid the victim types who seek out and ***** about jerks. Never once have I met one that was worth a damn, and didnt have a slew of other issues (namely, bat**** insanity). The patterns never changed; becoming a jerk only attracts these lunatics to you, and makes you become crazy, as well. You dont want to be like the guy depicted above, do you? Or maybe you already are. lol skittles :crackup:

Great post floydb25.

 

[bigneil]

Women start out sweet and unjaded, then around age 20 or so they realize they aren't a fairy princess and they hate the world, abuse men and dike out with women forevermore.

 

[J Roc]

I am the pointdexter from the IT department that will save her and her 3 bastard kids.