You a Virgin? (what to say). SPing.
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Great one, will try it.Originally posted by Mojo604
How about this...
Girl: Are you a virgin?
Guy: Would it bother you if I'm not a virgin?
(this coming from a guy who is a virgin)
What response would that get? I cant think right now..
To criticism... it's none of her buissiness if you are a virgin, live with your parents, are a muppets fan. She is there to impress you, not the other way around.
This is meant to do with the right tone. Don't try doing this with a tone that implies that not only are you exxagerating, but that you ARE that which you are denying.
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I know you all must think admitting to being a virgin is really a bad thing, because she will automatically think less of you, but if you have the attitude it takes to get women you shouldn't give a fu-ck WHAT she thinks. On top of that, here is another bit of advice: You all have heard of making your problem her problem? You know what it means to turn the tables, so this one isn't hard to understand. If you are a little worried that something about you will cause her to like you less, what you should do is, without acting insecure and nervous, turn it around and start talking coc-ky funny about HER. You don't have to admit to it, but don't be afraid to if you want to. The point is, forget what she thinks and STOP QUALIFYING YOURSELF TO HER. QUALIFY HER TO YOU. Here is one if you don't mind telling her the truth (who knows, maybe she would like to take your virginity from you):
For instance:
HB: Are you a virgin?
DJ: Yep, sure am, why, aren't you? (said with slightly accusatory tone like you expect her to be a virgin)
HB: No, I'm not.
DJ: Well then, proud of yourself? Anyway that is too bad because I prefer virgins. (who doesn't? hehehe)
HB: Well, I'm sorry.
DJ: That's ok, you're still a virgin with me (said in seductive tone)
Here is another one I just thought of:
HB: Are you a virgin?
DJ: (said seriously) yeah, I am actually.
HB: (she probably can't believe it) really?
DJ: yeah
At this point it depends on the girl.... hell, some might admire you for it or be curious and want to be the first to try out that badboy you got downstairs, but the majority probably won't give a fu-ck one way or the other.
HB: (this is if she is maybe kinda snobby and possibly wants to belittle you for being a virgin, but it is a test as always) why are you still a virgin?
DJ: Well, I never let a girl go that far with me and I have morals, yadayadayada, but if you're good I might let you be my first.
Different girls respond differently, and you have to be like a used-car salesman and be able to work with different customers. The only time a girl will be less attracted to you for being a virgin is if she is a complete slu-t, and needless to say, you don't want them.
By doing this, YOU have become the evaluator, she has become the one with the problem, get it? This can be done with anything.
Here is what you could say if you didn't feel like telling her you were a virgin
HB: Are you a virgin?
DJ: No, but you better be.
(whoa, that was quick wasn't it)
You don't have to be a master in conversation, just be COMPLETELY confident with who you are and don't let ANYTHING be an insecurity, and NEVER let someone make something about you into a problem, turn it around on them if they give you lip.
For instance:
HB: Are you a virgin?
DJ: Yep, sure am, why, aren't you? (said with slightly accusatory tone like you expect her to be a virgin)
HB: No, I'm not.
DJ: Well then, proud of yourself? Anyway that is too bad because I prefer virgins. (who doesn't? hehehe)
HB: Well, I'm sorry.
DJ: That's ok, you're still a virgin with me (said in seductive tone)
Here is another one I just thought of:
HB: Are you a virgin?
DJ: (said seriously) yeah, I am actually.
HB: (she probably can't believe it) really?
DJ: yeah
At this point it depends on the girl.... hell, some might admire you for it or be curious and want to be the first to try out that badboy you got downstairs, but the majority probably won't give a fu-ck one way or the other.
HB: (this is if she is maybe kinda snobby and possibly wants to belittle you for being a virgin, but it is a test as always) why are you still a virgin?
DJ: Well, I never let a girl go that far with me and I have morals, yadayadayada, but if you're good I might let you be my first.
Different girls respond differently, and you have to be like a used-car salesman and be able to work with different customers. The only time a girl will be less attracted to you for being a virgin is if she is a complete slu-t, and needless to say, you don't want them.
By doing this, YOU have become the evaluator, she has become the one with the problem, get it? This can be done with anything.
Here is what you could say if you didn't feel like telling her you were a virgin
HB: Are you a virgin?
DJ: No, but you better be.
(whoa, that was quick wasn't it)
You don't have to be a master in conversation, just be COMPLETELY confident with who you are and don't let ANYTHING be an insecurity, and NEVER let someone make something about you into a problem, turn it around on them if they give you lip.
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how I handled it
For most of my life I lied about being a virgin, I dated a couple girls for a long time, I ate them out and sometimes they gave me head. I never had an orgasm with either of those girls. They both wanted to **** me, they knew I had intuition and I would be good. Then I dated a virgin, she gave me head to completion, the thing is I just didn't know what I wanted, didn't know to thrust, to tell her what to do. I was just scared and intimidated by the whole thing, I had lied from the beginning, so if I ****ed them now I would guaranteed be bad, and she'd know I was a virgin. That was my situation. Then, at 22, I meet the girl I can be honest with. She brings it up on the first date, I say I don't want to talk about that, and I also don't want to hear about her's. And that should be the first rule of our relationship, no talk of the romantic past (I still live by this rule, outside the "locker room") second date we are making out pretty hot and heavy (I'm naturally c/f, tall, sharp, so people assume the best) and she's grinding against me. She says "what" because I guess I've got a look on my face, I like this girl, I think I can trust her. I say "I'm not inexperienced, but I've never fvcked" and do the fist gesture. She's like "ya wanna?" and the rest is history.
So after all that, I guess my advice is don't lie. Just say what I said and don't talk about it, she'll assume it's a lot, or you have been thru bad breakups, or whatever. When you find an understanding girl you think you can trust, not a wh0re, a nice girl, tell her. Even a wh0re would prolly be at least into the novelty of deflouring you, but as corny as this sounds, I'm glad I got the right girl, one that is direct, and doesn't play games or pull ****. Plus she was foxy.
For most of my life I lied about being a virgin, I dated a couple girls for a long time, I ate them out and sometimes they gave me head. I never had an orgasm with either of those girls. They both wanted to **** me, they knew I had intuition and I would be good. Then I dated a virgin, she gave me head to completion, the thing is I just didn't know what I wanted, didn't know to thrust, to tell her what to do. I was just scared and intimidated by the whole thing, I had lied from the beginning, so if I ****ed them now I would guaranteed be bad, and she'd know I was a virgin. That was my situation. Then, at 22, I meet the girl I can be honest with. She brings it up on the first date, I say I don't want to talk about that, and I also don't want to hear about her's. And that should be the first rule of our relationship, no talk of the romantic past (I still live by this rule, outside the "locker room") second date we are making out pretty hot and heavy (I'm naturally c/f, tall, sharp, so people assume the best) and she's grinding against me. She says "what" because I guess I've got a look on my face, I like this girl, I think I can trust her. I say "I'm not inexperienced, but I've never fvcked" and do the fist gesture. She's like "ya wanna?" and the rest is history.
So after all that, I guess my advice is don't lie. Just say what I said and don't talk about it, she'll assume it's a lot, or you have been thru bad breakups, or whatever. When you find an understanding girl you think you can trust, not a wh0re, a nice girl, tell her. Even a wh0re would prolly be at least into the novelty of deflouring you, but as corny as this sounds, I'm glad I got the right girl, one that is direct, and doesn't play games or pull ****. Plus she was foxy.