ThunderMaverick
Master Don Juan
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So in light of darkstarrr's post on "seducing" a girl who's engaged: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=174438 I figured I'd write about a sexual encounter I had with a married woman last week. The origins of the story can be found here: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=173909
So long story short we talk on msn for the next couple of weeks. She opened up to me a bit about her past and her marriage and whatnot. Side note to a lot of guys here who want some ideas about a girl's sexual history; most times I find when I'm completely non judgmental or even congratulatory over their sexual "liberation" they open up more. A LOT more.
I found out she use to be a heavy party girl who was in a few sexually intense (accompanied by abuse) relationships and that at a certain point in her mid 20s she wanted to "settle down". She ended up married to a devout catholic who later in life developed erectile dysfunction. Before that he really wasn't all that sexual from what she told me. She gave him ONE ******* a few months ago but that was it. You can't take the party skank out of the housewife though and she ended up messaging me a few weeks ago.
She later became a school teacher and had 3 kids. Had a nice well to do husband in a four bedroom house. I asked why she married him if she was unsatisfied. "He's good with my kids and it was just time that I needed a husband.
The scary thing about this, guys, is that she feels completely justified in doing what she wanted to do. There is a big part of her that screams "I've done so much for him and the kids. I'm a school teacher. I DESERVE THIS." I mean screw how the husband feels or how the kids might find out about mommie's "cheating heart". Long story short, she wanted to get f*cked hard...old style.
We met in person at a bar on Tuesday and she was pretty hot for a 31 year old. Kept herself up pretty good. I was surprised. She was beaming from ear to ear when she saw me and we ordered a few drinks. The conversation came up as to why she messaged me on POF despite my BS account. "I just had to message you. I didn't care about if you liked to throw rocks at cars or not. I had to see for myself."
I don't feel proud for what I did, however I don't exactly feel bad for it either. I do feel bad for the husband not seeing the signs and this was an important lesson for me too: MOST PEOPLE SHOULD NOT GET MARRIED. Since Tuesday she hasn't initiated contact which is good. I don't really want to get into it with her again. There might be too much trouble involved if I keep talking to her.
So long story short we talk on msn for the next couple of weeks. She opened up to me a bit about her past and her marriage and whatnot. Side note to a lot of guys here who want some ideas about a girl's sexual history; most times I find when I'm completely non judgmental or even congratulatory over their sexual "liberation" they open up more. A LOT more.
I found out she use to be a heavy party girl who was in a few sexually intense (accompanied by abuse) relationships and that at a certain point in her mid 20s she wanted to "settle down". She ended up married to a devout catholic who later in life developed erectile dysfunction. Before that he really wasn't all that sexual from what she told me. She gave him ONE ******* a few months ago but that was it. You can't take the party skank out of the housewife though and she ended up messaging me a few weeks ago.
She later became a school teacher and had 3 kids. Had a nice well to do husband in a four bedroom house. I asked why she married him if she was unsatisfied. "He's good with my kids and it was just time that I needed a husband.
The scary thing about this, guys, is that she feels completely justified in doing what she wanted to do. There is a big part of her that screams "I've done so much for him and the kids. I'm a school teacher. I DESERVE THIS." I mean screw how the husband feels or how the kids might find out about mommie's "cheating heart". Long story short, she wanted to get f*cked hard...old style.
We met in person at a bar on Tuesday and she was pretty hot for a 31 year old. Kept herself up pretty good. I was surprised. She was beaming from ear to ear when she saw me and we ordered a few drinks. The conversation came up as to why she messaged me on POF despite my BS account. "I just had to message you. I didn't care about if you liked to throw rocks at cars or not. I had to see for myself."
I don't feel proud for what I did, however I don't exactly feel bad for it either. I do feel bad for the husband not seeing the signs and this was an important lesson for me too: MOST PEOPLE SHOULD NOT GET MARRIED. Since Tuesday she hasn't initiated contact which is good. I don't really want to get into it with her again. There might be too much trouble involved if I keep talking to her.