My virginity is, finally, a cold dead rotting corpse, out of my body, gone somewhere else where it will never come back, paralyzed and hopefully in a great deal of pain. Good riddance, you little bastard!
Few of you probably remember me, since I haven't been on this site in a long time. I had been worrying about girls for months and months and getting no dates, nothing ... I was thinking about it too much and it was stressing me the hell out. So finally in January I was just like, fvck it, forget girls, forget eye contact, kino, C&F, boot camp, sosuave, etc. I basically ignored girls and sex for the longest time, and it was great. My self-confidence had a huge upswing.
It was actually funny but I suppose not unexpected that in the time I spent ignoring girls, I got more attention, not-so-subtle hints of attraction, and people calling me handsome etc than ever before.
Anyway a few weeks ago I was flipping through hotornot out of curiosity and I spotted this chick who had a crazy deal in common with me and looked really hot too. So I decided it was time to get back into the game, contacted her, asked for her number straight away, went on a few dates (her photos didn't do her justice, she looks Christina Ricci with a six-foot-tall model body), made out a few times. Our last date was disastrous, she was in a really bad mood and was cold to me, and I considered erasing her number and moving on but I decided to give her a second chance and invited her over last night to hang out. We watched a few shows on my laptop, and one thing led to another...
Dear god, sex is awesome! And I don't know how but I somehow lasted for about an hour (I didn't check the time, all I know is it was the same length of time as the new Strokes album plus about half of The Stills
). Waking up with a soft, warm body next to yours is great too. Her perfume smell is still ground into my skin. This girl knew I was a virgin and was showing me all kinds of tricks. She's vowed to corrupt me further and I can't wait!
Anyway I credit this all to a change in my way of perceiving everything I learned here. I think too many people look at seduction as tricking a girl into sex/dating/etc. I found it alot more enjoyable, for me at least, when I used the info on this site as a way of stripping away all the BS nervousness, fear and uncertainty that goes along with dating and just having fun being yourself, or at least the best version of yourself.
So anyway, if you're in the same boat I was in before last night, just keep hacking away at it, experiment a bit, take some risks, and if its stressing you out walk away and focus on other stuff for a while. At least, that's my advice.
Few of you probably remember me, since I haven't been on this site in a long time. I had been worrying about girls for months and months and getting no dates, nothing ... I was thinking about it too much and it was stressing me the hell out. So finally in January I was just like, fvck it, forget girls, forget eye contact, kino, C&F, boot camp, sosuave, etc. I basically ignored girls and sex for the longest time, and it was great. My self-confidence had a huge upswing.
It was actually funny but I suppose not unexpected that in the time I spent ignoring girls, I got more attention, not-so-subtle hints of attraction, and people calling me handsome etc than ever before.
Anyway a few weeks ago I was flipping through hotornot out of curiosity and I spotted this chick who had a crazy deal in common with me and looked really hot too. So I decided it was time to get back into the game, contacted her, asked for her number straight away, went on a few dates (her photos didn't do her justice, she looks Christina Ricci with a six-foot-tall model body), made out a few times. Our last date was disastrous, she was in a really bad mood and was cold to me, and I considered erasing her number and moving on but I decided to give her a second chance and invited her over last night to hang out. We watched a few shows on my laptop, and one thing led to another...
Dear god, sex is awesome! And I don't know how but I somehow lasted for about an hour (I didn't check the time, all I know is it was the same length of time as the new Strokes album plus about half of The Stills
). Waking up with a soft, warm body next to yours is great too. Her perfume smell is still ground into my skin. This girl knew I was a virgin and was showing me all kinds of tricks. She's vowed to corrupt me further and I can't wait!Anyway I credit this all to a change in my way of perceiving everything I learned here. I think too many people look at seduction as tricking a girl into sex/dating/etc. I found it alot more enjoyable, for me at least, when I used the info on this site as a way of stripping away all the BS nervousness, fear and uncertainty that goes along with dating and just having fun being yourself, or at least the best version of yourself.
So anyway, if you're in the same boat I was in before last night, just keep hacking away at it, experiment a bit, take some risks, and if its stressing you out walk away and focus on other stuff for a while. At least, that's my advice.
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