thelonewolflegend
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- Jan 5, 2014
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I know you guys been hereing the ongoing saga with me and this last girl that ill love. Basically like I said things were fine with us I AGREE I got a little comfortable but still I trusted her and was getting more into her you know? But like I said that Saturday she started complaining she said she wanted me take her airport I said I didn't mind just didn't feel like getting up early is all lol. Complain with me about coupons, not taking her nice dinner or wants flowers once in a while ( which I was going to do ) Also was asking me questions about having a dog or family I said yeah just not a fan of taking care of them but eventually I would. After this Saturday like I said things got weird I felt it. Mobb Deep show we were supposed to go she said im tired would you be mad I said no she was like thanks. We were supposed to meetup before she left town Friday shes like I went drinking im sick I went to her place brought her medicine took care of her ( I mean I have been being a great guy here ) and she just kinda seem like wasn't close to me like usual and we had sex but didn't feel right and I left next day and didn't hear from her all week she just said oh back in town was great. Following few days later is when I saw she updated her POF profile. And we were supposed to hangout Tuesday and she was like how bout Thursday? I said no I want to tonight it hasn't been a while I want you to bring us some sushi and those outfits you mentioned before. She was like I want to talk to you and call you I want to stay home tonight. I planed some nice things over the weekend show her I care then all of a sudden she brings up all this stuff on me and was saying she felt like I just wanted to have sex before she went on trip and saying then whats the fun for me I come bring you dinner and dress all sexy for you. I said I wanted you try things out I said I want to bring us dinner. I told her about nice things we had planned for the weekend wanted to show you good time. I kinda told her I haven't felt like you have been like you were and things didn't feel right kinda went off on her. We talked on the phone she was crying I said yeah Im sorry didn't mean things I said but I just don't feel like I can trust you she was saying how I was great guy but not what she wanted and she shoulda said that I told her she has not been honest or open with me even tho she said she was no she woulda told me problems she had when they occur not all at once and already made your mind up you looking for someone else. It was bull**** like she was crying telling me you don't want family or wants pets or I was complaining taking you to airport I said I didn't mind to do all that and I told her look I know I got comofortable but its been 3 months only and now I want to show you do these things for you she like yeah I don't want the paul that messed up and now knows to fix things. I mean its just a pile of **** I kinda went off on her and told her she didn't care about me and I really got over stressed and its pretty much over she didn't want to be friends with benefits or nothing. I need to know what the reason she doing all this and saying this stuff all of a sudden and not telling me NOR wanting to work things out if she really cared about me at all or wanting a relationship I don't understand she just falls of face of the earth all of a sudden and doesn't want it to work. I need to know exactly what I did wrong and how I could avoid in future if possible (and probably how to be in control of the women situation and interest.) Because I know I fell beta and she had the power and I am tired of giving women the power.
